I would like to get your opinion:

these 3 questions correctly and I will answer yours.
1. how much is the average hotel in the larger cities  
2. how many condoms are in a jumbo pack of Trojan
3. most popular lube used by the ter girls  

$400
12
ID Millennium  

You're giving a discount off your normal 24 hour rate for travels so it gives incentive for people to fly you around.  If you want less dumb excuses, then maybe give a couple of hours longer time.... or a bit more discount? I guess, better to experiment around and find what works.  

LOL....most ladies post 1st class .so  a lot .....lol ....hard to say honestly id need to know your rates and guess add 750. on the low side if im not picking u up but around there plus the day rate . so final answer .......... a lot .........lol ..........maybe it was those extra pounds u packed on.........lol

Posted By: Florida_Evans

$400  
 12  
 ID Millennium  
   
 Now can you answer the damn question?

I'm hesitant to discount any more, bc with 8 hrs of roundtrip flight, travel dates typically entail taking off the next day due to being tired.  (People don't usually sleep much in an overnight date.). So if not careful, the opportunity cost could be too high, or it's just not worth the time.  But thank you for your ideas.  

I "flew in" a lady from SF area who I'd seen when she lived in LA. That was several years ago, and it was expensive then, but we spent a solid 8 hours in the room, doing three separate long and spontaneous sessions in the bed. The price divided by pops was pretty decent, if that's how you'd want to look at it, but just being with her was a value-added treat in itself.

it turns out to be "Hawaii" maybe you might want to consider the perks of "Paradise" LOL.

I can just see them when they make their rounds to DC area (good thing we get lot of visiting ladies), or if I really want to see someone that bad, I can just book a ticket and fly to see them.  

But Florida is facing a situation of a clienting WANTING to fly her to his city.

And I also understand that I wasn't answering her question directly... But I was rather giving my take that I don't even get to the point of asking for a quote, and articulated my reasoning..

The reason I ask is that I have flown women to NY/DC area, and have never had to pay the 24-hour rate. I usually see them for 3-4 hours in total (either all at once, or two times over 2 or three days).  

I prefer to fly to the ladies destination. It affords me the luxury of having a short respite from work.  I enjoy visiting different cities.  In some instances there is a great opportunity to visit another young lady while in that city to make the trip even more exciting.

And I agree.  If someone wants to see a particular provider, but doesn't have a large budget to pay for her time, fly to her city, where there's no appointment minimum.

I'm also not sitting around twiddling my thumbs, so even though I enjoy a travel date, I'll probably wind up declining a local date or two because I'm away.

I would expect to pay your rate from Airport departure until you arrive back at your airport of departure (scheduled flight of course, neither of us can anticipate delays). I expect to pay for your transportation to and from the airport to where we'll be meeting. I expect to pay for your lodging, (no one should have to sleep with me, I snore like a bear). I expect to pay for any meals and entertainment.

Which is why they didn't like my quote.

I would never approach such an idea as I have plenty of local faves but I'm guessing that the guys who blew you off simply had no idea what to expect as far as your rate quote.  Don't know why but some guys are just clueless when it comes to anything beyond booking an hour with a woman.  They see your picture, profile, reviews and start to fantasize about seeing you.  The cold hard reality of shelling out two or three grand to do it is another story...

Who the f...k wants to spend an entire day with a women!!! I don't get this isht! It's like guys who want multiple wives, why ... 1 is a headache , holy isht could you imagine the erection killing life sapping affliction that would be multiple wives.

It really aggravates me that some if these guys are always looking to negotiate and get a bargain because it makes the rest of us look bad. Here's my thought, you've advertised what your time is worth to you, I want you to rock my world for as long as we are together. The best way for me to ensure that you rock my world and convincingly lie to me and make me feel like I'm a king is to meet your expectations without a word or hesitation. I get what I want, you get what you want, win/win. If a guy can't afford the hobby, he should find a different hobby

Additionally to my previous post, if a provider tries to upsell me, she'll only do it once, that's as much bullshit as a hobbyist trying to negotiate. You post a price that you feel your time is worth to you, that's what I put in the envelope, period, no need to discuss it. If you rock my world above and beyond the normal then I may tip, but I don't tip often, nor do I try to negotoate. It's really a very simple arrangement, I don't understand where the confusion could be. I hobby because I want to get what I want with who I want and I have absolutely no interest in the thrill of the hunt of trying to pick up a civie woman and have to deal with their bullshit. And so I pay for my convenience, and I'm ok with that

I usually just do the amount of time I'm going to see them, plus the cost of the ticket and maybe $200 if it's going to be a long day at the airport. That may not be the "best" way to do it, but I don't have people say "sorry that doesn't work" very often, and I'd rather just see one person a day for several hours, so I don't mind spending a couple of hours at the airport.  

Allows her personal time to enjoy Hawaii (surfing, sight seeing etc), otherwise it's just the inside of a hotel room. But I get your reasoning.

they keep each other busy in the 'non sex' time. They do less emotional 'dumping' on the guy since they have another woman around to commiserate with, show their latest shopping haul, and gossip with.  

Well said!

Personally I can't ever imagine being married again, but as you say if you are going to be married, multiple wives is the way to go if you ever want any "alone time" as they can keep each other company and not dump all the inane crap that women care about on you.

Over something that's not going to happen.

Bingo!

If a guy does his research well girls flaking is rare I've had that happen once and have done extended dates many times over many years. And she was a Vegas gal. Imagine that lol.  

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The guys who do this figure they'd rather spend an extra $300 on a plane ticket than potentially thousands trying to find someone they get along with as well as whoever they're flying out. I've not had anyone do this for a shorter date though, so it may also have something to do with "well I want an overnight, so I'm already spending this much".

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