There have been a ton of posts recently about all that can and frequently does go right in our little world of 'the hobby.'  Just so that newbies or those whose perspective of reality is less than accurate lets all be clear.

When making an appointment - EVEN with someone who I know, have been with before and who may or may not have provided me with 'extras' I NEVER expect 'special' or 'extra' from the provider.  I do expect to have a good time, I do expect to get the time I paid for and most important, I do expect to leave with her best efforts within the constraints that she has advertised or generally described in reviews by ALL who have seen her...  That is if there is one review who says, this lady will stand on her head, masturbate with one hand and play the Listz piano hugarian rhapsodies with the other all while giving you a BBBJCIM and then use the sperm to wash her hair...   well, lets just say if noone else says she does that, I really won't expect it.

What has to be realized is that 1) I don't review every lady I have seen (some I can't because they don't advertise on the web, some request that I not review, and some I just don't feel that I could adequately review the lady - good or bad) and 2) I do not review every session with a specific lady.  That is, I may see someone in Jan of this year, see her again in March and April, but only the january review will be posted.  So if you consider that by my own estimation, the extraordinary service or time off the clock or other extras occurs infrequently - but enough to tell me that indeed sometimes providers and hobbiests do have common ground, and wish to see more than the agreed upon time.

Would I ever refuse the time!?  Yes, I would and have.  Why?  Well one is very simple, I may have scheduled something else after the session and I truly AM A CLOCK WATCHER under those circumstances... and  I might add, that does frequently happen.... and second, I am not clicking with the lady - although she makes it clear that she is clicking with me...  and in some of those cases - I am outta the room long before the time is up....

So to all, these are not frequent occurances - they happen, but they happen when you just act nice and don't demand rediculous stuff.

hope this helps clarify some of my own writing on this subject.

I expect myself to be positive, outgoing, and properly prepared for the session (all the usual or what should be usual in terms of cleanliness and grooming). I practice relaxation for a while before a session because I am often coming directly from a stressful work environment. I expect myself to be a proper gentleman.

I hope that the lady will provide me with an enjoyable experience on the appointed day. I hope she might be comfortable sharing the time with me and perhaps find me likeable. I hope it will be pleasant for her as well.

Acronmys? Sure - a couple are important to me. If a lady does not want or declines kissing or daty I feel (rightly or wrongly) as though this is kind of "distancing". If she delines or does not provide BBBJ that might be a small bit disappointing.

However there many ways to enjoy one anothers company and leave feeling good about the lady and the appointment.

If a lady and I really click, and enjoy *anything* together that is not consistent with her advertising or reviews, you will not hear about it from me, at least not in such a way as to connect "me" (ie my username) with any particular lady.

I followed you until the second paragraph and then you went down a dark alley. If you get anything other than your hour be happy. Providers operate in a quid pro quo world. They are not likely to give you any more or less, unless your a-hole quotient is up for that day or you have some extra Benjamin's. Given a more long term financial relationship, maybe you get the platinum package over the gold. If you have to leave because you have another appointment and all of your time was not used, you are SOL unless said arrangement is discussed and agreed upon before the deed was consummated. I feel sorry for guys that over-think this community.

anything more than a good time (60, 90, 120 or how ever many minutes).  I will arrive clean and dressed business casual and expect the same from my date.  I will turn my phone off so as not to be interupted before I place it down on top of the envelope.  When I leave, the envelope stays on the table when I pick up my phone.

If I'm hosting the lady at my hotel, I will provide the unopened beverage of her choice.

If I did my research properly, we will most likely have some chemistry.  The date will go well as we both have a good time.

Anything received above what is requested (i.e. extra time) or a service not found in her reviews previously will not be mentioned either in the review, in a PM, or in conversation with another hobbyist or provider.

i agree and concur.

it is easy to get a little too happy about special moments. for some clients it is silly excess celebration for others it may be a little locker room bragging.

i've read some posts in response to praises where the provider could be figured out be comparing the review history of posters that had absolutely insane spins on what was being discussed.

rather than limit myself to saying what i "will" do i would like to offer an apology if anything i have written has been used to pressure a lady to do anything she is uncomfortable doing.

i only partly buy the "it's not your responsibility how people read your posts" argument. unintended consequences happen. we all know this, or should.