well, no stardards here. . . .
men...i will do anything....fellow females that work....i will pay u double what he paid. help make life fair i am not getting any younger i want to be an escort and make $$$$ doing what i love to do best. =) i hate hypocrites and i want to rub it in his face by fucking all of his buddies one by one then his brothers all 5 of them and then his 75 yr old dad! basically im gonna fuck every cocksucker or rugmuncher (i will fuck the girls too especially the ones he tried to but failed) There will be only one male in his life that i didnt and never will fuck tho ..our son...yet he DID come out of my poonanni didnt he! and sucked on my titties too!! yeah i remember daddy getting jelous probably thats when he started fucking around!!!!!!!!!!!fucker!!! be real men and be real fathers to your sons especially you were the one who wanted kids!!!!!!!! or pay for the abortion
if your free tonight I would love to find out.
Will you use my EX as a reference?
How 'bout a double with me and the Mrs.? Sounds like someone got caught in San Diego.
but I bet DC will make an exception if you'd like to post a pic. lol
I'd love to help you get back at him, but only if you are hott. lol Hey even us perverts have standards. rofl My bet is the pic will show us why he started hobbying in the first place.
I gathered that the gist of it was that she caught her hubbie fucking around and now wants to return the favor by trying to fuck everyone on the planet.
Did you read something else into her post?
LOL its not this thread I was referring to. I wondered if you comment about ads not being allowed might have been aimed just a bit too high to hit the right thread.
but no I was just kidding that if she posted a pic along with her post (rant) that it might be construed as an ad post which are not allowed here. However since she is not a "real" provider I was joking that DC would probably let it stand.
Somehow I bet that if we were to see what this rather unhappy woman really looks like, we might understand why she was unable to hang on to her man. lol
well, no stardards here. . . .
harassing certain providers would it? Take the issue up with your husband and leave us alone.
If you are the girl who is harassing certain providers, please keep in mind that he was the one who called us. You should be harassing him!
Ive never understood why wives/GFs get mad at the "other woman"
This is an issue for the 2 of you and has nothing to do with the provider. If you scare her out of the picture he will find another.
We dont like drama and we will back off at the first sign of a problem but the fact remains he is looking for some kind of companionship that he will seek out again.
This is a tight knit community and providers and hobbyist alike can smell the BS a mile away.
Here is a suggestion, lighten up and maybe open your mind to a new experience...have a 3some with your man, go to a swingers club, nude resort...something to excite him. Washing the dishes and cooking dinner dosent cut it honey. Fuck him like you did before you got married.
SL
.....borne out of the pain and betrayal you must surely be feeling. I don't presume to know what your marriage is like, whether you have a healthy sex life and your husband just has a wandering lust, or if things have gone stagnate and he is reaching out the only way most gents know how.
It is natural to have your anger directed at the female. It must pain you something fierce to think of her with your man. However, but for the fact that he sought out the lady, she would not have been with him. She doesn't want to break up your marriage. She doesn't care for him in an emotional way. She may not even remember who he is.
Anger is an emotion that will erode you from the inside out. My thoughts would be for you to seek out counseling, for yourself. First. Get the emotions under control. Revenge, although may sound sweet, it truly will not help you heal. If your marriage is otherwise healthy, perhaps in addtion to your own counseling, get couples therapy. If your marriage was pretty much failing and this was the last straw, you might think about it being time to move on. You need to do what's best for the children. I take if from your post there are kids? They don't need to know any of this. It may have the effect you want in them hating their daddy, but worse than that, it will poison their very impressionable minds.
Please know, that the ladies here are NOT the ones you should be trying to harrass. Trust me on that.
that he is taking up with providers and not his secretary or next door neighbor or some of those women friends you having calling and harrassing a certain provider!!!
Shame on you. Take it up with your HUSBAND! That is where your anger should be directed.
And while you are at....why not look at yourself and your marriage to see why he strayed in the first place!
hell girl he's your husband, one thing most gents here will complain about is no BJ in their marriage.
Fuck him like a porn star baby! No boundries no limit and yes you need to swallow.
Noones ever cheated on me...hell why would they.
Wake him up with a bbbj at 3am and fuck his brains out everyday. he'll be too satisfied to stray.
True enough there are just some that cheat no matter what you most likely have a role in this as well. Look in the mirror baby.
Celeste Dear,
You need to let go of the anger and realize we are all human.
Screwing lots of men, especially without the requisite knowledge of a standard escort, could be endangering your life and I'd recommend against it.
I doubt you can be objective about this, but you need to step back a few feet, really look hard at both sides of this.
Humans are socially monogamous, not genetically so. About 20% of men and women cheat. So your odds are worse than Russian Roulette.
Men who use escorts test no differently on measures of sociopathy or other mental/emotional disorders than other men. In the U.S., over 30% of men have paid for sex at some point in their lives. In Spain, that's 40%. In Germany, it's an astonishing 85%. It is so pervasive that the practice is not considered, in and of itself, to be at all abnormal.
Cheating has many causes; but usually with men it is a polygamous instinct and with women it is a hypergamous instinct. Under the RIGHT conditions, practically anyone will cheat. Social monogamy exists as a delicate balance and can be easily undermined by environmental conditions.
So what, exactly were those environmental conditions? Be honest. And if he is honest too, you guys have a chance.
Right after a baby is one of the most common times for a man to stray because a complex set of stressors are in play that the woman is ill-prepared to defuse.
Don't ask him "why" because in all likelihood he won't be able to tell you because he simply dropped his ordinary vigilance on a drive that is primitive and thus inexplicable.
This is solvable if you want to solve it. But if you go running around screwing every man on two legs, be prepared for problems all the money on earth can't solve.
Be well. Reconcile if you can.
This is not the real you talking.
This is your hormone balance all
out of controll .
After giving birth every woman is
highly sensitive . Instead of being
mean and cruel to your husband try some
touching . Give him sex in other ways
to show him that you love him and
celebrate the birth of a new child.
Be glad he came here and not a bar
or some sleazy corner.If you were
a provider just by what you are saying
on here I would be afraid for the
guys here that you may consider them
cheating on you business wise since you
have a hard time with men and wandering eyes
I'd guess that you would be one of those
possessive providers who controll the hobbyists
into seeing them only.
1) First this reminds me of the old joke:
Wife: " I am leaving you and going to Vegas. The women there get $400 for doing what I give you for free"
Husband: "I'm coming with you. I want to see how you live on $800 a year"
2) Secondly: One should never blame the other woman in situations like this. It is not her fault at all, and she was merely there when he looked.
3) OK: So you fuck every man in his life, what will that accomplish? In fact I would venture to say that if he has 5 brothers, and if you successfully were to get even one of them, you would create another situation like the one you are trying to avenge. Do you really want to ruin other people's lives because of your anger?
Focus your anger on the one who wronged you.. Him.
And focus on why he wronged you? Men who are happily getting it at home are less likely to "stray".
One other comment: A man can still be a "real father" and not be faithful to the woman who created the kid. Being a good dad is completely different than being a good spouse. They are not the same!
But get over your anger.
I believe a father only teaches by example. I think that I have to be a good spouse if I want my kids to learn to be good to their SO.
But that's just me.
"loving father." You're right, we model the behavior our son's will most likely emulate. But, none of us are perfect, and I doubt any of us would like our son's to be privy to our full personal lives. In this case, it's not even clear of the son knows anything, unless she has spilled the beans.
I never cheated on my first wife, though she told me to leave, based on what a counselor told her, and what she wanted really wanted to do. My children blamed me for a long time, but through my continually communicating love, they eventually could see, once they were adults and in their own marriages, that I was not the bad guy. No one was the bad guy. And, I'm proud of how my son treats his wife and kids.
"loving father.You're right, we model the behavior our son's will most likely emulate”
Just a thought here--—the behavior you guys exhibit not only impacts the future behavior of your sons; it impacts your girl children as well.
Kids are amazingly perceptive, and pick up on things you might think are flying under the radar. ‘
If you’re not really engaged with your kids and your wife, and your primary focus is ‘someplace else’---like the hottest gal of the week,…just as an example…your kids are probably picking up on this on some level.
Hey…nun my beeswax how anyone chooses to orchestrate their life; my only points being (1) kids have amazing radar when it comes to their parents.
And (2), how you behave as a father does not only impact your sons.
For what it’s worth…….
"fellow females that work....i will pay u double what he paid." So! Let me get this straight. You expect a provider to take you up on your offer to catch him red-handed having sex with her. And, she's wondering, "what the hell is this avenging angel going to do then?" At best, it ain't going to be a pretty scene for her, and at worst she's worried about coming out alive. Somewhere in between is a concern about her reputation, if it ever gets out. Don't think you're going to get many legitimate offers.
You've been given a lot of good advice regarding dealing with your husband, and not ruining other peoples lives in an attempt to punish him. I'm so sorry for the feelings of betrayal you feel, and I hope, somehow, something redemptive comes out of all of this. But, please take the good advice, for both you, and your family's well-being.
Yikes!
This is such a sad and angry post by a very hurt woman!
I am sorry your hubby wasn't kinder to you by being smart enough to cover up his tracks to protect the innocent: the provider and you, his wife.
Sometimes the truth hurts, but if it's true what they say, everything happens for a reason.
So, decide if the fact that your hubby sought physical releases elsewhere is really that big of a deal. As others have said, you are lucky that he was hobbying and not engaging in a relationship with a square woman...As Jack Nicholson so beautifully stated, he pays 'women to leave'. Your hubby wasn't looking for love or he would have sought out a more conventional relationship with a woman who did not expect moolah everytime they hit the bedroom.
I am sure he must love you or he wouldn't have stayed with you and tried to sort out his physical needs elsewhere. Just remember that physical needs and emotional needs are very different things.
I hope that you calm down and find a quiet place to reflect on where your anger really stems from. I am certain you will find that you are not angry at a woman who is just trying to pay her bills. And, I am certain you will find that you will just end up looking like a silly, useless, angry, vindictive SLUT if you 'do' his friends and family members.
If any of the friends or family members are weak enough to give in and have physical relations with you, just know that they just wanted some free pussy and that they will talk and laugh about how loose you are later.
No man in his right mind would go near the pussy of a woman scorned.
Also, if you truly want to be an escort...anger is not a good path into this business. This business is tough, competitive, and for the savvy business-minded woman. You can't have your head full of anger and negativity and resentment and expect to be successful. You have to be pleasant, happy, well-adjusted, have a good self esteem, and willing to put others needs/wants before your own.
You just need to relax, process the hysteria of what you have found out and make a choice to work it out or don't.
Take Care and Be Well
I've read more than my share of these, and they fit nicely into a box with a few compartments. Either she's gonna bone everything she finds to get back at the dirty bastard, or it's how can you live with yourself for ruining my family.
The original poster either shoots the message over the bow, never to be heard from again, or replies to every post, getting more and more annoying.
I always wonder if they are real; I hope that this one is not, because I don't like the thought of people being hurt. But still, enough of them have been shams, for whatever reason someone feels the need to do that.
I have no point really...
rok on hondog!
Post sounds like BS, but on the off chance it's not...
First off I'd suggest not going the typical scorned female route and sacraficing what's best for the child just to get back at the soon to be ex. Fucking your child's uncles and grandfather is not in the best interests of the kid, period.
Seek therapy before you damage yourself, or worse yet that kid. Keep in mind you HAVE to deal with him for as long as you have a child together (forever). In order to raise the kid right, both parents and cooperation are needed. That'll never happen if you fuck his friends and family. And the kid will likely find out someday that mom was so hell bent on vindictive payback that she turned into some slut and fucked all of his/her relatives.
If he strayed because he was just a dog, bad on him, and I have no sympathy for what awaits him (as long as you don't keep an otherwise good father from the kid just to punish him). But family, kids, and friends should be off limits. Go fuck some great looking guy and send him pics of you sucking him off or something.
If he strayed because he wasn't getting any at home, and now you want to spend more effort screwing other people than you did him in order to fuck him over, bad on you. I'm amazed at the number of women who won't put out at home, then get all bent out of shape when hubby goes looking elsewhere for sex.
this business is built on discretion and trust.We are trusted with a great deal of info on the Gentlemen we see.Our reputations are based on simply how trustworthy we are to keep their secret.
If you think double what he has paid is even inticing to throw ones rep away you are a fool.
We are not on his side or your side...
we are not on anyones side but our own.
yes get over your anger...step back for a while and seek counciling.
My opinion still stands that you need to be a bit more inticing in the bedroom. Like I said Noone has ever cheated on me. Please your man sister and the bedroom aint all. Romance intimacy and sensuality is a mindset. Seduce him mentally and emotionally forst and always. You need to make time for one another. Fit it in in small simple ways. Oh hell theres no point in explaining it.
Most men look fantasize for a long time b4 they stray. What went wrong with your marriage didn't happen over night, it has been building for a while.
You need to hold accountable the other half of the relationship as well as yourself. but the ladies here are not at fault. You and he are. So fix it or walk away from it. Either way keep your dignity and move on.
My guess is yes! LOL I've seen this episode way too many times! Then the man gets called a hypocrite for cheating. The $$$ you love to make are all coming from hypocrites. You make a living from cheating husbands, then you beat a guy up for cheating, and want to fuck everyone in his family and all of his friends. Will these revenge sessions be free? Will you tell them they have to stop in an hour? Gimme a break here! This is either very phony, or YOU are in serious need of medication! If you come out on a public board with a rant like this and it is real, you are definitely not someone I'd give any info to see you...who the hell knows what you would do with it!