For the women- some women seem to love finger banging, others ban it. Of course everyone has preferences, but what is the difference between finger penetration and a much bigger penis going in and out much deeper????

Fingernails that are not trimmed and dirt/bacteria from unwashed hands and filty fingernails...need I say more?

Preferences aside, the dirt under your fingernails can lead to various infections... yeast, salmonella... other nasty little things that we may not think about... For the women that like it, then go with it... but trimming your nails, washing your hands... are the price of admission.

I agree, I encourage washing hands before hand, (no pun intended) lol

Easy. Your penis does not have ragged, untrimmed fingernails that gouge, and your penis did not just get done scratching your butt 5 minutes before you attempt to insert it in my giggly parts :o )

Iffen you want to let your fingers do the walking, trim your nails and wash your hands :o )

I've been told that because fingers can bend, they can hit the G spot more easily than a penis.  In fact, some women like to have a finger in all the way, with the tip of it thumping against the G spot.

Fingers also offer the option of variable thickness -- if one's not enough, go for two, etc.

And, if you've never fisted, then put it on your list of experiences one should have before dying.  About the most physically intimate experience there is.

Aside from the "wash your hands" comment (great advice, btw), there's a few things that I think a man should be aware of before laying his hands on me...

The skin on your cock is much softer than the skin on your hands. It's like a polishing cloth vs 80-grit sandpaper. There's a bit more friction there, whether you can feel it or not. We can feel it, I assure you.

Be mindful of your nails! Please please please. They hurt.

Fingers are more flexible than cocks, as I'm sure you've noticed. That can be cool, but it's not your cue to go as crazy as possible down there! Try something, see if it works, if it does, then try more. Remember that a cringe and a shiver may look slightly similar, but they're totally different! Be gentle, and make sure that the lady in question is enjoying it...

Maxine

and I can help you adjust yours as well....  it involves a lawnmower.... and a hand surgeon... not painful at all....  well, after the morphine drip was put in....

seriously - fingernails are the diff.

I can't believe that nobody said this directly... the penis is (typically) encased in latex before heading in, where fingers tend to go in alone.  I know that I'd feel odd gloving up first, which makes it so important to do the washing & trimming stuff that others have mentioned.

But that would be a disappointment for me.  I'll gladly do the surgeon scrub up, but I wouldn't schedule with someone that I knew didn't care for it.

I find my tongue to be much more well received than my fingers by my favorite ladies. Frankly, I'm OK with that.

the answer is ....FINGERNAILS & DIRT, causing an imbalance and/or infection in the vagina! vs. a HUGE round smooth surface which is covered with a raincoat causing nothing but pleasure (usually)! The vagina is a VERY sensative area the least little upset can cause very big problems!

Imagine this,(you being a guy can imagine)... Let me stick a knife up your ass(because this is what many feel like when they think they know what they are doing in there)and then try  a cucumber up your ass and let me see if you can tell the difference in a day! I think you'd choose the cucumber.

But it's really not about the feeling of it all, it's the hygiene that's most important!

It's funny, because I remember how I used to love fingering. Now, all I think about is:

1)  They don't know what they're doing and I feel like I'm in a bad porn movie and I'm not enjoying it because I'm thinking of other things

2)  I think of the infection I'm going to get and having to spend a week off taking medicine and cursing him

3)  I prefer the tongue anyway. Fingers are dirty, they're sloppy, they're unreliable and it doesn't feel natural. If I want to get off on a finger, I'll do it myself.

Hugs,
Ciara

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Hey Turkana, would you feel the same about fisting if it were my fist up your ass?
I didn't think so.

I won't let anyone finger me....

I've had 3 nasty infections from gents who weren't gentle with the womanly parts.

a combined 30 days of antibiotics is NOT fun.