want you to call them?!?!?!? I am speaking of gents who repeatedly ask you to call them before you have even met. My personal theory is that they some kind of joy out of asking questions about sexual likes via ma bell and they are never REALLY going to follow through and make an appt. Well, I find it rather annoying to say the very least. I do enjoy hearing from my regulars from time to time just to shoot the shit. But, lately these newbies are driving me up a wall.

What they should be doing is spending that time booking an appointment with you.

I have a few gents that just prefer the phone to email. Some of them are older and perhaps not so computer savy, or it's just a more personal touch.  You usualy can tell when a gent is just calling for the sake of amusing himself or if he is being genuine.

Many gents feel the need for a more personal connection, even if it's just a brief conversation. That way it perhaps feels more like a 'date' and not a cold business transaction. If it makes them more comfortable, then that is a good thing. When they're comfortable, I'm comfortable...and when I'm comfortable.....well, let's just say only good things can come from that!!!

MEOW!

and we'll talk about it.

If your phone voice is as hot as your performance scores...I get it. Wowza!

I can understand the simple desire to feel a bit of a connection via phone before meeting...but the calls that I am receiving as of late are not of that nature TRUST ME...what kills me, is when I give my number out, I clearly state that there will be no discussion of money or sex over the telephone...and yet these ass clowns go against what I tell them...this tells me 1 of 2 possible things...they have their pecker in their hand when they call OR they are just that stupid and don't get it

and that leads them to want to connect with you and by phone there is more to offer. Sexy voices. The fact that they are talking to an escort is enough of a turn on for them. Sometimes I used to get tired of it. But usually I enjoyed it. Not publishing a number sure does crack down on those calls.
Take the downs with the ups and enjoy it while you can.
On another not be happy your phone is ringing.
Love
Sexy Carolina

the stupidity of people in crowds of one or more.

My experience with people in general...is that the most probably answer....is that they are just that stupid.

One of my ATFs was so sick and tired of a guy calling her that she asked me to pick up the call.  I did, and he didn't want to talk to me (really?) even though I said that I answer her calls.   Later he called again (of course) and asked who the hell I was.  He certainly did not sound like a serious inquiry.

I find chatting on the phone before finalizing arrangements to be benefitial for potential encounter.  And my sexy accent does not hurt either

However, there are those who tend to use providers's phone numbers as "cost free dial an orgazm" service.  That's where caller ID comes in handy.

Oh no....i'm in trouble now!....if that includes emails also?...LOL?

thanks for all the input...I think I am going to add something to my website that states I am not a phone sex operator and I'd rather chew my arm off at the elbow than talk to whack jobs on the tele

I enjoy many of my friends, and we email each other from time to time. But I really don't have the time to be on the phone all day to appease someone's boredom or to get them off. I actually have other freelance work I do, so I don't want to be interrupted when I'm doing other things that are also important to me. That is what appointments and donations are for.

It's ironic how we're supposed to be discreet and respect the hobbyist's privacy, but some don't respect our time away from this business.  

Hugs,
Ciara

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as long as I'm not expected to go back and forth with someone on a daily basis. It's hard enough keeping up with clients contacting me and doing my other work, too. And, please guys:  Don't send a bunch of jokes. I don't even like cluttering my email box with those from really close girlfriends.

Thank you!


Hugs,
Ciara

Of course there's the guys who call to book an appt. and are just talking to you on the phone to get off - free phone sex.  You can recognize these guys by the converation and by their breathing.  You can get them "off" quickly (no pun intended).  If a guy starts to talk about sex at all - I hang up.  If he calls back - then I tell him I'm not going to discuss sex with him on the phone.  If he's LE - they usually don't call back.  I have been confused by phone conversations that seem to go on and on and on - with no mention of money or meeting.  After a while I figured out - those were LE trying to get me to mention things "first" so I couldn't cry entrapment.  I just have a lovely conversation and they get bored and move on to someone else.  If a guy insists you call him inbetween appointments - it's likely he's trying to make a gf jealous - be careful.  I have had it happen many a time where the guy will deliberately set things up for us to get caught by wife or gf they want to piss off. I personally don't call anyone - they have to call me for that reason.