Forego the f'ng ballgag for a bit and ASK

All women are different, you need to communicate with your ladies.  WTF ?!

Depends on what you are doing with it

I know a couple ladies who don't like any vibrator, they don't like the sensation. Then I know several that LOVE the wand vibrators, and they use them all the time. Have some interesting names for them, too.

They also have attachments that allow insertion (either holes!). One of the ladies brought hers to a meeting (at my suggestion) and damn! Did she ever a great time, cumming and squirting everywhere.

So, leave it up to the lady. If she doesn't like it, she will let you know. And who knows, you might lead her into something new and exciting.

That thing made me cum instantly the first time I tried it... No kidding!

I later went into an adult shop with a girlfriend (to pick out a toy for her) and all I could talk about was the magic wand!

GREAT-- for my sore BACK.

Way too powerful for this girl's puss.

I had received one a few years ago as a gift and I play with it the least of all my collection of all my gadgets. It is way to powerfull even with the attachments plus it makes a lot of noise. Looks awesome when I am playing with it between my legs but the noise is distracting.

the one with the gas engine!  Seems to work pretty well for the first 10 seconds.  Guess I didn't use enough loob when I used it on the ladies though. So far I have melted 3 clits, permanently sealed up one vagina, and I still don't know what to do with the body of last nights date.
I think I'm gonna return it, it has really spoiled my habbying lately!