how do you rate yourself... often when I leave a GREAT session... I hope that the lady in question knows just how good she made me feel... but often I wonder - to borrow the TER Ad phrase "did she?"

Do you rate your performance after a session?  do you sometimes say to yourself "WOW, wish I could bottle that... cause even though he stank, was a horrible lover and I could not bear to hear another of his jokes.... I could tell that he thought I was the bee's knees!"  or do you sometimes say... "I'll just bet he is gonna trash me! I sure could have behaved a bit better!!!!"  

just wondering....

They measure the volume of our loads in our condoms.  As soon as we leave, they're on the horn comparing our loads with all their provider sisters!








You believe me, right?  You know it's true, LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If a provider truly cares about her business (which most of the TER ladies do), she should ALWAYS be looking at ways to improve her overall level of service. In any business you have to continue to re-invent your self and strive to be better. Providers are no different in this respect.  

While the ladies don’t sit there after a session and say, "I'll give the hobbyist a 4 for looks and 6 for performance", I am sure they think about the pros and cons of a particular session and act accordingly. Was I on time? Did the hobbyist like my attire? How was the conversation? Did the session flow naturally from the initial banter to the sex? Did he seem to have a good time or was he frustrated because we didn’t engage in a particular act? How did he act after the session; i.e. did he want to leave immediately or was he willing to chat for a bit?

You can’t stand still in business. So the successful providers prob. are always looking at ways to keep their clients happy...and for them to make a repeat visit!  

UH lets see, NO.
If a gentleman stinks, which mostly they do not. I suggest we take a sexy shower and I scrub him and love on him in the shower but sometimes I just toss him in the shower because I like giving sensual sexy body rub showere. Like the time I was in Asia and I had 4 pretty girls washing me.  That was cool.

As far as horrible lover? There is no such thing as bad Luvin.  It's all good baby.

And Jokes, I have a million but I always forget them so I love to hear new jokes.

No one has ever trashed maddy.  Well, once a guy in New Mexico said I was OK looking where as everyone else thinks I have a very hot sexy YOUNG kathleen turner in, romancing the stone look.

Hope this answeres your question lover.

fishnets hugs and kisses
sexymadelineshaw

if i allowed myself to reflect upon a session i would be fixated on that one (or 100) things i did or said wrong and positive he's going to trash me because of it.

these things could either be real or imagined, it doesnt matter.

the reviews always surprise me. guys notice the oddest things.

Yes, some people I have an EXCELLENT time with (last night comes to mind- hehe) and some I have a fun time with, but it's not an act or a performance that I rate or berate myself for....

Katie


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I do the same thing. Before I see a lady, I wonder what it is that I'm going to say or do to make myself look absolutely stupid. When I get off the phone from the first call, I wonder what I just said to make me look stupid. And then when we meet, I tend to trip over things that aren't there, the voice cracks. Imagination can be such a wonderful thing, but at times, it can really fuck you up!!!

But the ladies who really care about their business are always trying to keep on top of their game. I repeat with a couple of very good providers regularly and they both ask me for a customer's POV quite often on everything from wardrobe to conversation topics to locations and anything else you can think of.
Another thing that all good providers understand is that, through no fault of their own, they will not hit a home run every time. Some guys just want more than a lady is willing to offer or the connection just isn't there. A seasoned lady wants you to leave happy but she also knows when she has held up her end and knows when it's time to just move on.

^5 Katie! Same here. I don't act very well, so when I am with a gentlemen, I really am happy to see you, and can't wait to get my hands on you.
If I were to rate myself, I don't think I would rate as well as I have been in looks, In performance, I know I do things well. (based on the fluttery stomach, and tightening of the legs, and the grip on my neck) I enjoy it all, and it shows.
Besides...if you don't enjoy what you do...you won't be very good at it. That goes for ALL jobs!

xoxo
~Diana~

I know when I do something and give it 100%,
I am happy. As someone previously said you won't be able to please everyone and to think you can and then beat yourself up afterwards if you don't, is to my mind very counter productive. I strive to do one thing...treat my friends as I would want to be treated in the same circumstance.

At the end of the day my friends are happier and I am that much more fiscally sound. I think smiles all round....

I'm a frickin' 12, baby!  

No, seriously: I always feel like I give it my best shot. Or, should I say, "they get their best shot (on the tummy, in the condom, in the --Oops! What the heck am I saying?)."  What is weird to me -- and to a lot of other providers from what I have heard -- is when we have been told we're the hottest things on the planet then get a 7 or 8 on appearance.

Oh, the heat of passion. Note to myself: Don't pay any attention to his comments when he's horny.

Hugs,
Ciara





-- Modified on 2/27/2008 9:53:53 PM

...It never ceases to amaze me what some people will respond to.  Not one, BUT TWO replies!

Clearly the "condom volume" is a joke... and an OLD one at that!  Of course, it is based on the dumbass that I sparred with a few years ago that truly believed that women actually did this.  Oh well, people will be people....