But ... Slight pun intended....
We've discussed this before. You don't mind it when you have time to prepare. So someone booking you in advance, which is always your preference, would spell out the menu they want. And, hopefully, tell you their experience and size do you can be ready for him.I've only had anal twice. First time about 25 years ago with an older and more experienced girlfriend and without a condom, it's my favorite sexual memory, it felt incredible, but I was blindfolded.
Second time was with an escort and while it was hot when she said "you're in my ass", naturally I had a condom, it was tight, not enough lube, and I felt it was more of a visual thing than feel?
I have no hope of ever experiencing it with the wife so I'm thinking about an escort, but feeling like I may be disappointed.
Does nothing for me personally. I've done it with three different providers at their insistence. I have nothing against it and am not put off by it, it just doesn't do it for me and I certainly wouldn't pay an upcharge for it.
One lady I've seen charges $200 extra for it but during two different appointments told me she wanted it and just put me right in while sitting on me. I guess she really loves it enough to give it away for free with the right client.
I seen a regular who genuinely liked it more than vaginal. She always prepped. It really doesn’t do much for me unless it’s doing something for her. I never would pay a premium for it.
I’m a spontaneous go with the flow non scripted sessions kinda guy. So if it happens, great.. if not no biggie.
We both gotta be in the moment
In my experience some women are wired differently and prefer Greek because they tend to have better orgasms that way. There are certainly additional considerations (hygiene) and risks. One of my favorite providers from the past loved anal until someone hurt her and after that Greek was off limits. I agree with others here that I leave it up to the provider and don't believe in paying extra as offering Greek has never been the reason for connecting in the first place.
Sometimes the first experience is the best and others never quite measure up. Anal always looked hot in porn, but when I finally did it it was underwhelming. That said, everyone is wired differently. The taboo aspect is going to turn some people on. Gay guys tend to like anal (or guys who like to get pegged) because it can stimulate the prostate.
Safety-wise, the poopshute is not designed for insertion and it is really not uncommon to cause injury.
It shows that either really likes it or is used to it so she can deal with you not being used to it. The ass is very different than a pussy. You need to take a lot more time getting her comfortable.
I like it a lot because girls who are used to it give me a lot more guidance on what feels good. Since they are used to guys just doing whatever in the pussy and it's designed for a dick you get more leeway. But my partner, who wants anal every so often, is very clear on how fast I can go, how to go in, if I need more lube. It's more satisfying to me when I know she's enjoying everything. Even when I'm with an escort. I know she's being paid to be there, but I want her to want me to come back.
she is with anal by looking at her hemorrhoids.
Yes, but you are leaving it to her to set the pace. If she's ready to rsm it in there that's great for her. Hope she loves every second of it.
I usually get denied due to size and thickness
I'm just curious how much demand there is for anal. I can't get enough of it and I seek it out when looking for providers (as in, if it's not clearly on the menu I'll pass). I'll be searching ads and reading reviews, and even for those providers where anal was listed as an option I'll read review after review with no mention of it. I was with one gal and when I asked about anal she said that she hadn't done it in a long time but she was game to try. And yes, it's listed as an option in her ads.
So is there really that little demand for anal? I know that civvie girls are constantly complaining about their guys trying to slip one up the poop chute...
I get a decent amount of requests for Greek assuming because I have a fat ass, but surprisingly, only a few clients have actually followed through. In all my years in the industry, I can count the number of times on both hands. It’s not as common as people might think.
But that would be pointless.
First, you already tried it, so you have some idea what the physical sensation is like. Apparently it was good enough that you want to try it again. Go for it.
Second, I agree with other posts that say find a lady who does it often and well (as far as one can judge from reviews). You want someone who's comfortable and engaged in order to get the best sense of how it can be.
Happy hunting.
But ... Slight pun intended....
We've discussed this before. You don't mind it when you have time to prepare. So someone booking you in advance, which is always your preference, would spell out the menu they want. And, hopefully, tell you their experience and size do you can be ready for him.
I've been pleasantly surprised at how many providers really love it. I met a lady a few moths ago that preferred it to vaginal. As best iI can tell it seems to break down into two camps:
#1) She likes the idea of a forbidden taboo/nasty act more than the feel of the act itself.
#2) She loves the act for the sensation, feel. A possible #3 she likes both the taboo of it and the feel.
I include it with submissive providers whenever possible, but the novelty of the feel diminishes pretty qucikly.
Is it true most slim girls avoid it and curvy girls are open about offering it?
Any truth to this generalization.?
Also from guys perspective which body type is easier / more enjoyable to you and less trouble for the girl?
One more side question: how much time do you engage in anal foreplay with a girl before she is ready for it mentally and more so physically able to receive?
1) This is just an intuitive guess but I seriously doubt a girl's build has anything to do with whether or not she offers it. In my experience, I've done Greek with lots of slim girls. My most memorable slim one basically demanded it.
2) Same with "which body type is easier" for me.
3) The amount of foreplay has little to do with making her "physically able to receive." Most girls need to do prep to be ready -- including an enema and insertion of a butt plug -- and nothing you do makes a big difference. This is why greek costs more: it requires more of her time to prepare.
It sounds like you've never had anal sex in a Np4p scenario because #3, aside from the enema part almost everything is wrong. Foreplay has a lot to do with making someone physically able to receive. Every single guide I've ever read on the subject stresses this fact. The insertion of a butt plug before anal is foreplay. Everyone I know who takes it in the ass stresses the need for their butthole to be played with; either by fingers toys or tongues before penetration. Most providers probably do solo foreplay before clients get there because they probably expect clients to not know what to do.
You've made several false assumptions here. Listed in order:
1) You conclude incorrectly that I've never had anal sex in a NonP4P situation. Is it too much to expect you'd take me at my word that you are incorrect? In a NonP4P situation there is probably always foreplay.
2) You incorrectly assume the "insertion of a butt plug is foreplay." Perhaps I should have been clearer but that couldn't possibly be true if she put the butt plug in herself before I arrived. This has happened.
3) Last, simply because everyone you know has stressed the need to have the butthole played with does NOT mean that applies to everyone in this little world. Your experience is not universal.
That said, I will stipulate neither is mine.
I will also stipulate you are right when you say foreplay is important. It was not my intention to simply rule it out.
As to the rest, let's agree to disagree.
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Your point on #2 makes me think what I said went over your head. I'm going to throw the challenge flag so we can go to video review.
I said "Most providers probably do solo foreplay before clients get there because they probably expect clients to not know what to do."
and then you said....
"You incorrectly assume the "insertion of a butt plug is foreplay." Perhaps I should have been clearer but that couldn't possibly be true if she put the butt plug in herself before I arrived. This has happened."
Turns out what I "assumed" is exactly what you said happens. The result of the play is a touchdown. Please reset the play clock to 4:20.
I missed the part where you said "solo" foreplay.
In my experience, bigger ladies are much more into BDSM in general. I remember reading somewhere that the reason they are bigger in the first place may be because they are less likely to limit satisfying their pleasurable behaviors, like eating.
It's not always about not being able to control eating food in amounts or healthy foods consumption ; some people have harmonial and other disorders going on, the toral opposite of anorexia which is also unhealthy.
It's even in the OED!
Hmmm ... Donuts.
It's even in the OED!
whore-moanial.
Doesn’t look like you really asked a question so I won’t try to answer one. I’ll just share my experiences.
The first time I came anywhere close to anal was when a pretty hot Latina asked me to put my thumb in her ass as I was dogging her from behind. So I licked my thumb and slowly started to put it in. Once it was all the way, she told me don’t take it out and to keep banging her. I followed her instructions and we both came pretty hard. She asked me if I had ever done anal before and I told her no. And she said she only does it with some guys and that I would be a good one to do it with.
I never ended up doing it with her. I think because she sort of disappeared shortly after that. But that was over 10 years ago and is still one of my hottest memories. In fact, I kind of seek out things like that on pornhub and other sites, where the guy sticks his thumb in her ass while fucking her.
A couple years later, I was with an escort that I had been trying to see for a long time because she was very hot and apparently open to just about everything. That ended up being a very accurate description.
The thing that went wrong in our session was that she happened to have just started her period, but she revealed right when we got to the hotel.. So, what’s a guy to do? She was willing to keep going, so I suggested we try anal, something I had never done before. And she was open for that. Everything about that session was pretty crazy. For this day, that’s the only time I’ve done anal. She was really incredibly hot. I could not believe it at the time. Another great memory!
The odd thing, I came to find out later that she had done some pornos. And to my great delight, in one of them she did anal and in another, she’s taking it from behind as the guy sticks his thumb in her ass! Needless to say, I’ve watched those videos more than anything else on the Internet.
Sometimes you’re just lucky.
—-later
Its fun when a gal likes it in the pooper.
And because of prep, you can now experience it raw. Much better.
The times we live in....
find a woman that really enjoys it if you are wanting to try again
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