Well, if she was also your friend, wasn't it worth something to see her again and help your friend out? Maybe you could have asked for a discount? I may be totally off base if she wasn't really a trusted friend...
A provider who retired a few years ago called to tell me she was back in the business. So, I scheduled a session. She opened the door and my oh my, she had ballooned to twice her previous weight.
I was not happy, I should have turned around and walked out of the door, but being a gentleman I stayed and went through with the session. She should have payed me.
A week has passed and I'm still so disgusted. She's now posting pictures of herself, but they are old pictures and NOT recent ones......she's freaking huge at least a BBW+.
I have no sympathy for any guy that goes through a session that he shouldn't thinking that he is being a gentleman. You aren't a gentleman, you're a dumbass, and you are making it worse for the rest of us.
Every time some dumbass fucks a fatassed cow that depicts herself as a young hottie, you encourage her to continue misrepresenting herself.
Weedwacker, Thanks for nothing. you get zero sympathy from me.
You could have asked her beforehand for an updated pic. You also could have walked in the door and said "holy cow" and left. It always amazes why a hobbyist would PAY to fuck someone who they are not attracted to. Stupid!
Frankly, the scariest part of this story is that a few years after she 'retired', she still had his contact information to call him in the first place. Why does she still have that information? All of her records shoud have been deleted ages ago. Scary!
Although some of the gentlemen who grace these boards get quite upset at that prospect. I reserve my indignation for those who MISUSE the information to create threats, extortion, and sell out less favored clients to those clients they favor more.
There are a very precious few providers who are (so far so good) trustworthy. There are a number whose business practices are ambiguous, perhaps, but manageable. Then there are the rare predators, who would inflict any amount of pain on a client or sell out a better quality competitor to Cousin Ellie to save their own worthless skin.
There are no guarantees. If someone is shady, the best recourse is mutually assured destruction. It is unpleasant to have to resort to that. If the choice is that or permitting oneself to be destroyed without recourse..... well.....
you said she was retired so you had not seen her in years why would you think for sure her looks are the same?Some people stay the same some change when you arrived at the door if she was not your type you should have left.If a lady is not your type make a polite excuse to leave that is being a gentleman.Not going through with it and you were clearly disgusted and now talking about the lady.Another thing if she retired a few yrs ago why does she still have your contact info?Unless you were on a friendly basis with her and still kept in contact but other than that there should be no reason for her to have your info still.
Well, if she was also your friend, wasn't it worth something to see her again and help your friend out? Maybe you could have asked for a discount? I may be totally off base if she wasn't really a trusted friend...
...she also knows a couple of other ladies I see, she probably would have reported to them that I was an inconsiderate male biatch.
So she just blew up overnight?You said she was BBW+ I would think you would notice it.And to itsafterfivesomewhere it is not bs that us providers do not keep your info years later.Why?I don't need it .There is no reason for it.
Perhaps, just perhaps YOU don't. However, MANY, if not most providers do. I have received countless emails from providers who came back out of the woodwork after long absences. istafterfivesomewhere is 100% correct. I am sure that many hobbyists who have been around for a while can attest to that.
Best thing to do is review her and be honest about her looks. That's what thie site is here for.
I do actually sympathize with you as there was no full disclosure on her part. Hell, it could have been a current provider with up to date picture, but when she walks up to the door, she could have a nasty scar on her face. Anyway, hindsight is 20/20. Review her and move on (and count that as experience). We're paying for the fantasy so she has to look the part.
It's not the end of the world. You got your rocks off in some fashion and realize you don't want to repeat. Change your hobby phone and contact info while informing those you wish continue to see of your new info.
Move on.
Fucking a fattie is not a death sentence, just a temporary lapse of your standards.
... you weren't given full disclosure, or better, were deceived/lied to, even if only by omission.
You chose, after seeing her, to go ahead with the date. That, my dear, is your fault. Albeit extremely difficult for most, you could've said to her that she'd changed, and wasn't what you were expecting. Contrary to your words, it's not the gentlemanly thing to do to go ahead with the date when you were obviouosly disgusted, so in that regard you deceived her as well. Tit for tat.
Now you're here complaining as if you were victimized, you weren't. At any point prior to commencing the date, you had the ability to simply walk away. You chose not to.
She is obviously still deceiving if she's posting old, inaccurate pictures. You could email her and advise her that you're going write an honest review, including the use of old pictures and the fact that she obviously doesn't look the same, affording her the opportunity to update her pictures so others won't experience what you did.
Or not. Either way, write your review and be honest. To try to claim you were cheated is truly inaccurate and inappropriate unless you forgot to mention she held a gun to your head, but then again, that's armed robbery, not cheating. LOL
If you were a gentleman you would have STFU about the whole thing.
You were a spineless jellyfish who cannot be gentlemanly, so you are telling everyone like a spoiled little bitch:
'Waa waa waa! She got fat! Waaaaa! She didn't tell me! I was scared to say anything! I touched her. Mommy! Waaaaaaaaa'
Fucking pathetic!
The only thing disgusting is that your combination of self-loathing and self-pity for CHEATING YOURSELF is directed back at this unscrupulous provider.
Gentleman my ass!
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