Whole entire session😭😭  
Well here’s the problem, I lost my virginity to a very sexy Russian provider(one of my fantasies) but after 30 min bbbj and 30 min of sex I couldn’t O! I was surprised myself and she seemed upset she couldn’t get me off, I thought I was going to cum within minutes!! I left without cumming as it was time n I didn’t want to overstay,  I visited her again still couldn’t O but still cummed after A mixture of titty fucking and handjob in th  last 5 min, the next couple times I could never O I would last the whole entire session but only finish by giving myself a handjob, I felt sorry for 2 if the ladies I had them sucking me off so vigorously to the point their mouth got tired, bless their effort, after couple visits to various women I thought maybe I need that connection, like a real GF experience, obviously providers are GFE but to them your just another john and I can’t get the feeling of “you pay it to fake it” out of my mind, of course they paying you so of course you gotta providena SERVICE, maybe some connection occurs but not that loving connection, I had a gf however never had sex and iv never experienced condomless  sex so maybe that’s it iv realized maybe i dont need to fuck or have sex i need to make Some LOVING  to a women who wants me rather than doing it cause I paid for her time that fake love haha well hopefully any of you guys can provide advice or if you guys had the same problem

The reason we cum faster when jerking off is that those are the times when we are making love with the person we care about most

...This has never been an issue for me and I can't relate to even begin to offer any suggestions. Maybe you need to consult with a professional psychiatrist?

Stop jacking off and commit to only Cumming for a provider. If you leave an appointment with blue balls, don’t cave in to Rosey Palm’s seductive advances, schedule another provider next day. Repeat this scenario until Mr Cock learns to cum for a provider.

...as well as the value of punctuation and paragraphs.

You're too used to jerking off, and your fickle friend in your pants isn't going to have it any other way unless you do something to get him back in line.  

relatively late in life.  This means that we’ve been jerking off exclusively up until recently; our bodies have been conditioned to achieve climax in certain way (a strong, intuitive grip).  This is apparently a common problem.  

I’ll take it myself.

which is age and physical condition dependent. If you are old and overweight, then stay away from RP for a couple of weeks before seeing a provider. Plenty of fluids and rest are also keys to having a great time.  

Stop jerking off to porn so much, and rest up a week before you see a provider.  

Spending less time thinking about the pop, and more time simply basking in the experience could help.  

Libertine_Proust is most certainly correct; just take your time and enjoy yourself.

Good stuff Lib and B-man, absolutely agree wholeheartedly. As an afterthought, don`t forget the FC`s when you`re ready to dance, they changed the game for me. Now I won`t see a provider who won`t use them or at least try to follow my lead and most will. Thank you so much Abbey St. Claire in Philly for enlightening  me first hand on this unique alternative.

Porn is the reason you can cum quickly on your own but with real women it’s difficult. Your brain gets super stimulated and over time desensitized when subjected to the imagery of high speed internet porn.

A second pop, especially in a two hour session is only a 50/50 proposition these days. Sometimes the gal feels bad that she didn't get me off twice, but I tell her that I enjoy the trip more than the destination.  

Idle hands are the Devil's workshop.

I’m pretty young, under 25 but the ladies and people think I’m like 24-28 haha so my first gf was in 8-9th grade so yea no sex lol yea I couldn’t take it no more and if I was going to loose my virginity I was going to get my fantasy which was the hot sexy 30 year russian, sexy accent and even sexier body. First time visit we fucked and she sucked for the whole entire time and to my amazement I couldn’t cum 😭 but I went and seen her again but this time I finished by having her suck on my tits  haha I’m a freak and by jacking off but just as I was reaching climax I had her mouth finish it off busted all in her mouth it was a nice session

who turned me on to female condoms (the link in my above post is to one of /your/ posts about them).

Jerking off is boring....at least at my age. Left or right, neither is strange anymore. Lol. If I get the urge, I shoot an email or a text, and I'm on the real thing. Hit your head up against the wall....somehow your wires got crossed.

For some reason I cum way too quickly with providers.  In my civilian life I can usually last as long as my SO needs me to.  With a provider, pretty much as soon as my cock enters her orifice I want to blow.  I find myself usually getting a few strokes in each position before I give in and cum.  

The excitement overload factor. There's nothing like the thrill of a new piece. It can also happen when you've been with one woman for a long time.... for me because I've grown bored with the experience and want to skip to the end. If I'm with a provider that's really good ...I can go for quite awhile. If she's just not clicking with me. Then I tend to just want to get it over with. Everyone is wired different.... this is just how it is for me.

If you fuck like you write, then there is a serious problem.

I can relate somewhat. I've learned to take things a little slower with the provider to extend it out longer which is why I schedule longer sessions. And then there's certain positions that I can last longer in than others so sometimes we'll get to those first.

Buddy this a forum about fucking whores, a whole website to review about how good the fucking was. I could care less about how I wrote my problem out as long as people got the message, see? Now if you don’t have any opinions to give, good or bad why waste your time typing something out that doesn’t do any good? Didn’t know even in a more mature content we still have our grammar nazis, get the fuck out of here lmao

If you jack off too much your member is trained to orgasm from certain sensations.  Your hand gives your member exactly what you want to orgasm.  A woman's pussy doesn't give the same sensations, it's very different.  What you may want to do is skip touching yourself or 4-5 days then see a woman.  They'll notice a big difference.  Or, jack off differently so you're not orgasming so fast.

The zipper doesn't go down far enough on the dress.

due to stress, fear, or guilt. Not everyone is cut out to be a whore-monger.