Awhile back I was late 20s guy who still a virgin and quite depressed about it. I had build a huge perception that sex great and possibly goal of all men was get as much as possible. Not getting any, finally couple of weeks ago I went and saw a provider. When I was having sex (BBBJ, BLS, etc) I was like is this IT????

Since then, I have actually visited a few more providers. I will add it doesn't seem like I have really fallen in love with any of those ladies either. The experience has gotten better each time and I sort of still want to try out new things.

Like, few days ago I was reading up reviews on "Teatro Erotica" orgy experience. Sounded like a great experience but I have feeling if I would get nervous in such an event and even disappointed at end. I still don't think it or any other experience would match up to my sexual fantasy. I heard once sex was mainly about fantasy, and it seems to be quite true.

Anyhow, I have realized that having sex with girls is not the true purpose of life. Sex definitely is a good stress reliever though and fun enough. I need to search for some other real meaningful life goals though.

Honestly, might need get need get real civvie girlfriend. But in mean time if I don't have any luck, I will probably go visit some more providers.

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but don't say that shit too loud around here. Us girls will be losing money, and the men will go nuts if you say it's a need and not a want. Don't go messing up our fantasy world ha ha. Seriously though, I am happy for you.

can we pay you a visit and get your blessings? Thanks for letting us in on your spiritual development...

Now back to Steelars vs Broncos game...


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GO PATRIOTS,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,See ya'all at the Suupah Bowl!!!!!!!!!!

I won my pool tonight.

Love the boards, but have to get up at 4 am.

R

sex isnt everything but it is a life embracing act and once you wither from the desire to embrace life with another , your just a tennant in a nursing home
oh its medication time nurse cravits

you probably aren't doing it right

next installment of this soap opera tomorrow at 11..make sure and tune in..it is called 'AS THE CROCK TURNS'

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Sex is a ton of fun and a physical need. However, it really isn't the goal in life, so I agree with you there. I remember when I first had sex, I was thinking something like "this is so hot and feels so great!" and, somehow at the same time "This isn't quite what I'd built it up to be."

Also, you have to remember that with an escort, as much as they might actually cherish your friendship, the intimacy isn't there. I tend to see escorts for things I can't normally get in the bedroom, but for regular sex I find that women who aren't getting a donation from me tend to give me a better time. One of the biggest reasons, for me personally, is kissing. I love kissing. I can go from zero to trying to think of baseball with a great, intimate kiss. Can't really get that without being with someone who really, honestly wants to be with you.

Now obviously I'm not bashing the escort business as I really do enjoy being able to go see one when I have a personal craving for something or am in a bit of a dry spell. The other thing is that I hear if you go to a good escort long enough you can develop a very strong intimacy (while still being professional). I personally am still semi-new and am still learning which escorts are great and which ones aren't, much less finding one to keep seeing.

Anyway, sex is great, and can be amazing with the right person/s, but I agree that it really isn't something that should be the goal of life, lol.

that you were a virgin several weeks ago and now have four reviews on this site. I did not believe you at first but I did check on your four reviews and they were accepted by TER so I assume they are valid.
So, what are you looking for? I see that you are on Date Check and P411 so you have obviously been doing research. You may want to search for a more gentle site to find a life mate. I could be wrong but I don't think this is the place. gf60

but between five, it's REALLY fantastic.

I did manage to cum in my last few meetings I still want to see if I get chance to meet super hot 10 looking provider at least once before I stop hobbying.

But, I will have to admit I need go try the normal civvie route to sex. Though I have a good job and look ok, I have no game to pick up girls. Honestly, I know civvie chasing will be long road for me...

Lol, this place defintely isn't best place place to fall for a girl. The women I met with were fairly mature and I didn't fall for them. I am lucky I haven't hear any sob stories or drama yet.

As for what I am looking for, I might need find a PSE or super model experience to get it out of my system! But for now, I am trying to keep myself from going over board with this hobby

You sound like you have the right idea. Take it from a battle scarred veteran there is much drame out there if you encourage or fall for it. I'm definitely into quality now and not the reandom quantity that I jumped into four years ago. Tread softly and carry a big dick, oops, I meant stick! gf60

I was a virgin (not by choice) until my mid 20s and when I finally did have sex it was, of course, a huge disappointment. After spending that long building it up in my mind, there's probably no experience I could have had and not been disappointed. My expectations were way too high after all of those years of fantasy. It's a continuing problem to this day, but I'm hopeful that if I ever experience falling in love, maybe then it will live up to the expectations from my younger years. In the meantime, while it's no meaning of life, it does at least take away the very negative feelings that surface when I go too long without affection and sexual contact.

Yeah, it definitely makes sense. Sex is still fun and keeps me happy for awhile even though it no where near my imagination. GL hobbying and in your civvie relationship pursuits!