Following the Spitzer scandal I saw numerous media reports that quoted providers and clients saying that hobbying is really about "companionship" more than sex. They all talked about men needing to feel like a beautiful woman is interested in them as a person, yadda, yadda. I don't know about the other guys on this board, but that doesn't describe me at all. I have plenty of friends and family that provide me companionship. I hobby because I like sex. It's as simple as that.
Don't get me wrong. I do like to talk to the provider first and get to know her a bit before we get down to business. It's nice to know I'm having sex with a real person and not just a slab of meet. And of course I prefer providers who are nice, sweet, easy to talk to, interesting, and who make me feel comfortable. Sex is always better when you genuinely like the person you're fucking.
But all of that being said, the reason I'm in that room with that particular girl and giving her a nice donation is because I want to fuck her. In other words, the companionship element is a nice bonus that makes it more enjoyable, but it's not the primary reason I'm there.
companionship, as you put it. I rather call it intimacy. I don't want a provider who is just going through the motions that's why I like my favorite lady. We click and she truly likes seeing me. We talk a lot and just seem to have a nice intimate encounter.
I'm not stupid, I know this is the way she makes a living and I respect that but I really think about Lana when I'm feeling lonely.
thats why I'd like to see us "guys" include in the reviews not only the sexual details, but if the provider provided a GFE experience in that way as well.
I'm not sure if I explained myself correctly in my initial post. I did not meant to discount the personality of the provider, or the importance of chemistry, or the thrill of intimacy.
I certainly want to feel comfortable with the girl. I certainly prefer having sex with someone I genuinely like. I certainly enjoy sex more if I know the girl is a real 3-deminsional human-being (as opposed to a slab of meat). And I certainly understand that intimacy is the best aspect of sex.
But I want all of those things (chemistry, like-ability, human-ness, and intimacy) because they greatly enhance the physical pleasure of sex. In other words, the end goal I seek is sex, not companionship.
I'm not faulting men who do seek companionship. I too crave that. But I get pure companionship from my many friends and family. If that was all I was after, I wouldn't need to hobby. Bottom line: I hobby because I like to fuck beautiful woman. It's really as simple as that.
I won't for a moment pretend to discount the sexuality, but as I am now divorced I really do love to spend time not only engaged in conversation but also to have someone to see movies, plays and go to museums with now and then.
I used to do these things with my ex, and I really need to have adult companionship to share these things with.
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