Because I saw a 28 year old yesterday..I'm in my early 20's.. and he was incredible! Absolutely gorgeous, great body, well-dressed, well-spoken, he smelled great.. a bit like an expensive cigar and nice cologne. I almost.. almost.. felt like he was too hot to pay me lol. He was super attentive and he tipped me. Just lots of deliciousness in a blue-eyed package. It was great but.. it was so awkward for me. I have plenty of nice-looking clients, and I'm grateful for that, but their age creates a nice boundary for me and keeps things in perspective.  

Interesting.

more floxiegirl drivel..

You're foolish. I've spent lots of time with younger ladies, some who commented that they wish we hadn't meet under the circumstances we did. Age had nothing to do with it.  

We'll have to agree to disagree that my perception has no merit. I experienced it, so I would say that's merit.

Older guys do know hot to treat a girl right, for sure. Particularly my clients, almost all of them are so great. And it's really nice to have a an age boundary there, because if some of them were 15+ years younger, I would want to date them. And that's not good for business lol.

Her opinion and perception is the one that has merit when it comes to clients she sees. And if age establishes a natural boundary for her then for her it is valid point of view for her. Just like paying establishes a natural boundary for me. Others on both points of view  it would not do so for them it would be invalid for them, but she was addressing her point of view for her business and so only her perception is valid. Yours in regards to her are completely invalid.

Your right that most 20 something ladies prefer to date closer to their age. I've been involved IRL with a number of them who weren't so closed minded.

Your own drivel first. No one forced you to read it. I guess I should too. But what fun is that?

Each of us is different, no cookie cutters, so we all have something different to look for. We also all have different boundries that keep us in line with what makes us feel comfortable in our positions.  
What works for one, doesn't work for another.
Party on and be comfortable!

I don't think a 20-something choosing to date men closer to her own age is close-minded. I would say that she's normal and functioning in a very normal, healthy way.

Hookers don't see younger guys for two main reasons:

I imagine that, on both sides, there would be a lot more emotional entanglement if money wasn't involved. Being intimate, generally, arouses feeling beyond sexual ones. But being paid, or paying, for that intimacy, helps both sides keep things in perspective. So we can have fun, and go home

Said with all of the experience of a non-provider.

They will tell you what I am saying is generally true.

hit up some of the more experienced gals here....they will tell you what *I* am saying is generally true. LOL.

There are times in this biz where the gals can't be totally honest, like the fact that they negotiate more than they will ever let on, for example.

Totally agree!!!! It's always 25 year olds texting and emailing "yo let me get some head!!" Cmon now they can't expect to get service like that! Not from me anyway.older gentleman inquire like a reasonable person with courtesy and ask for availability.I've only seen one or two young guys around the same age as me and did not enjoy it at all! And yes young guys get off quickly... Usually several times....older gentleman tend to be one and done but yes it can take a while!!!! That is why I definitely try and stick to 35/40 minimum with age if I sence extra maturity I will give a chance...

You hit the nail on the head. But as stated below, it has to be false, lol lol lmao. Younger clients are generally quick on the trigger and offer useless conversation. All they know is well, nothing much. It's like sucking devils alls carrying a visit, let alone an extended one.

I don't particularly like getting pounded. However, young guys hardly have a monopoly on being 'a lot of work'.

Dear JackDunphy:  You have perfectly articulated what is known as the Doc D#$%%$s Factor. The Doc was a super intelligent guy who ran big money (back then one Billion) back in the 80s.  He was a genius...

picture myself banging all of these grannies for a living.

I am in my early twenties as well however due to working too hard in my teens I act like an old man. Parents, friends, girlfriends all tell me how I act like I am 60. I like really old music, cowboy movies, talking to old people (I usually talk to them for at least 30 minutes once I start the convo), have a sort of cynical monotone when speaking, am quite conservative, almost never buy new clothes, talk shit about "youth these days", the list goes on.  

Between preferring an older guy for work and what the personal preferences are outside of work. It can be quite different. I prefer older at work and younger in real life.

Don't you just hate it when "old people' use that tired old line on you? As if your opinion about what is important to YOU has no merit. You are a lot nicer about not blasting someone for such a stupid statement than I. How do you even talk to someone who says your opinion about what effects you is meritless without verbally slapping him for being an ignorant douche bag.

Are they closed minded if they pass over older women? Or are they simply exercising their right to choose based on personal preference and attraction?

I have no intention of working any harder than I have to. Like a john, that wants more for his money. I respect both points of view and understand that I won't see those types and they won't see me. We are the opposite ends of the scale and if we are diligent, we get to see those that suit.

To say I am on record as preferring young women to the complete exclusion of "old broads" even I have to admit that not every PYT is going to be interested in a guy more than old enough to be her father and there is nothing close minded about a woman who prefers young hot guys  to old geezers. We have no control over who or what attracts us and if she is closed minded for her choice in men,  I guess that makes me even more closed minded where it comes to women.

He's looking for NSA sex, and you're at an age where that should be all you're interested in too. If I was a provider, my goal would be to foster a circle of regulars who I loved playing with. Enjoy the prize while you got it!

but unlike Jack I disagree about old guys being so much less work.  

The white envelope on the bathroom sink should be enough to establish clear boundaries, lol.  I wouldn't worry too much about age.  Long as he is respectful and is able to follow directions, anyone 21 and up should be fine.

Between that and the "your perspective has no merit" statement, it sounds to me like you're just salty.  

I recently had a newbie I screened and knew he was young but had to double check his ID when he came in as he looked a lot younger than 20!  Had a great time and we parted ways!  Great guy but I help but wondering due to his age if maybe I wasn't just his first in the hobby!  He was cute and shy so sort of wonder if I was his FIRST all together.  

And I would do the same. I wasn't knocking gals for doing less work at all, but as you said, its just normal to want to do less for the same money, in ANY line of work.

Call me crazy, but I find the latter to be far more grueling.

agree with you 100% Tobi!  

I personally believe in live and let live. So if that's what works for you go with your gut. Personally I LOVE OLDER men and it's hard at times because they just blow me away, I'm in control of my emotions (because I have a SO) therefore age doesn't matter, only because you don't want to limit yourself, however, if you feel you will fall in love then stick to your guns girl. Remember we play a game the same way they do....keep that in mind. I don't want to discourage anyone nor you but remember the name of the game....you are not the only one saying sweet things to someone...catch my drift  

I don't do long distance..I actually will quit...lol