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Re: How to ask for something special?
quinn_cupcakes See my TER Reviews 478 reads
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Are you on good terms with providers you've seen before? You can always ask them if they have any suggestions.

Girls do talk and while it may not say on the reviews, another provider could know a girl who either does or is willing to try it and since you're first asking somebody you've already seen, you're less likely to get back emails reminding you that sexual comments on email is not allowed.

As for my opinion on asking for special things in general with a provider is it's always nice to see her for a regular session first and then ask afterwards on email about anything different. This means she already has an idea of your personality enough to know how far she could feel comfortable going with you (especially if it involves bondage or play humiliation), and the email gives her time to think, research, etc. before deciding.

lonelymanincal2381 reads

I love watching DP (double penetration) in porno films and would love to fulfill this fantasy with a provider.

Is there a good way to ask for this?

Blunt?

Would it help if the provider chose the other man?

Has anyone had success with this fantasy?

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Bostonguy69778 reads

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ji8Ig2p8wo

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holeydiver1148 reads

Is this DP in the same hole or DP in different orifices?  Please be specific, as the world of DP is many and varied.

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lonelymanincal634 reads

In different offices? How is that DP if done in different offices. I would prefer to be in the same room.

Just Kidding!!!!....Different orfices. But, would not be against double vaginal if the provider wanted to try.

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mrfisher307 reads

He (she) is always in the middle.

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PocketFisherman885 reads

The question was "How do you ask?"
I can't imagine why the approach would differ whether the guy wants vaginal/anal, vaginal/vaginal DP, or any other variety for that matter

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Bostonguy57342 reads

If you do TER search you will see that the number of ladies who will see two guys at once is relatively low. Also, you would,have to find a gal who is willing to see two guys AND does anal.

You do realize that, if you get involved with this, your cock and balls and the other guy's are going to be rubbing up against each other....right?

Hey good luck in your search!

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Cheyenna720 reads

Perhaps try the ISO section.

I would also recommend asking a provider you regularly see, toward the latter part of the session, if she may be able to steer you in the right direction. I know if my regulars want something I do not offer they ask me if I can direct them to someone who does, that I trust and can recommend. I go out of my way to make sure they are happy and advise what I can or research and help them. After all, variety is the spice of life and it is all about making you happy!

Good luck to you!
Cheyenna

Related Link: http://cheyenna4u.com

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lonelymanincal827 reads

That's great advice! Thanks

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ShaneofPhilly809 reads

But wait until she clears your reference.

That way she will feel much safer.

I prefer you just ask me before so I know exactly what you want!

Shane

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quinn_cupcakes479 reads

Are you on good terms with providers you've seen before? You can always ask them if they have any suggestions.

Girls do talk and while it may not say on the reviews, another provider could know a girl who either does or is willing to try it and since you're first asking somebody you've already seen, you're less likely to get back emails reminding you that sexual comments on email is not allowed.

As for my opinion on asking for special things in general with a provider is it's always nice to see her for a regular session first and then ask afterwards on email about anything different. This means she already has an idea of your personality enough to know how far she could feel comfortable going with you (especially if it involves bondage or play humiliation), and the email gives her time to think, research, etc. before deciding.

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lilli567 reads

i would recommend asking a girl that you've already seen at least 2 or 3 times and have established a comfortable rapport with...as opposed to asking someone you've never met or on the very first session. it's likely that more gals are open to the idea than you think. personally, i would LOOOOVE to get such a request from a client, MFM is one of my favorites.

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KariPleases841 reads

Search the reviews where you can see if the provider will see several men at once.  Then ask.  I agree you may want to wait until you meet in person.  As to who gets the other man, you may be more comfortable doing this with someone you already know.  I had a friend (before I joined this community)  who always wanted to do this, but got "performance" anxiety when the other man entered the room.  

While it is great to be spoiled by a hobbyist, there is nothing better than having two men spoil me at once!  :)  

Kari~~

Related Link: http://www.karizza.massage4body.com

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