I was curious how much you guys truly notice about the atmosphere/room the gals create in her incall?  Is it important to you?  Does it even matter?

I know us women are all about details but how much do the "little things" mean to you men?

Thanks for expressing your thoughts, ideas, opinions.  

Misty

to me, anyway.

"please insert 3 $100 bills face up into the GFE Machine for service" ???

i think not.

cause it's part of the first impression, and it's even more important if it's a longer date.

but in truth, just so long as the place is clean and orderly I'm fine with that.

Please don't have the TV playing during our session.

I enjoy it when a provider puts together a nice atmosphere, but I won't care if she doesn't.  As long as there are no bright fluorescent lights or loud rap music, I'll be satisfied.  I'm more concerned with enjoying a provider's company and all things that come with it.

I always appreciate the effort. I like a darkened room, candles and soft music...and of course a beautiful woman.

Ive had one in-call where it was like the frickin Shao-Lin temple from Kung-Fu. This chick had candles every place you could possibly put one.

candles spread throughout the room.the lights were off, Chris Izaak music playing. The lady made a great attempt to set the mood. I really appreciated the effort. Since it was an upscale hotel, the sheets were at least 120 thread count, they felt great, Pillows were nice too. All these little things just add to the pleasure.And they mean a lot. However, nothing replaces a great gfe escort.

120 thread count................lol...........I just bought one sheet that is 800 thread count at macys for 160 bux. Come over and try my bed. It beats the upscale hotel any day. Debbie

A candle-lit, cozy atmsphere works best.  Soft music (prefereably jazz or sophisticated rock) also scores big here.  Room doesn't have to be four star, but clean is essential.  I will often check on these backround items when reading reviews, as the setting is definitely an element in a quality GFE experience...at least for me...

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Like several guys have said already, candles (not enough to start the room on fire though) with lowered lighting, soft music, and welcoming arms are all part of the deal for me.  Cool temperature in the room helps also, because hopefully, we are going to heat up the place with body heat.

What she does in the way of atmosphere shows me that she considers me important, if only for the time we have together, and that means a lot.  The offer of a drink, water is fine, also shows her consideration of me.  Alcohol is not necessary.

In general, make me feel special, and atmosphere helps to do that, and I will be a happy man, and more likely to schedule a return visit.

Swim

I usually ask for outcall, but have seen both, the lady who puts in a lot of effort, and the lady who just gets a room. The lady who puts in the effort gives me the feeling that it's all for me, and makes a big difference in the evening. When I am hosting, I know what it takes to try my best so that the lady is comfortable, and enjoys the surroundings, so yes, I notice it, and I appreciate it.

I look at "sessions" as dates.  If I have a lady to my home I set the proper mood with candles, low lighting, a fine beverage, etc.  It works for me if I come to an incall with the same type of thing.

No TV going, no bright lights everywhere.
My best experience was candles, a glass of wine, a long talk, then she offered me a joint (talk about GFE!) and then told me that she didn't have time for dinner before I showed up, she was hungry (oddly enough so was I!) and she made us a pasta. We went until 11pm and then made love until 3 am. She let me sleep the night. That was in Rome. She was one of kind. Made up for her careful screening but I am anxious to go to Rome again.

While she was off the scale, a glass of wine, candles and a sense of being invited into her nest does add much to the experience.