You don't have to take her out to a nice place and buy her a meal and then lower the boom.

In a way it's too bad because you could try out some really neat break-up lines like:

1.  It's not you, it's me.

2.  I think we should date - just that we should date other people.

and the ever popular:

3. I'm beginning to wonder if I'm gay.

So, here what you do in the P4P world:

Absolutely nothing.

You don't. Just stop calling her.  You don't owe her an explanation and, honestly, any attempt at one will most likely cause drama.  Just stop calling, she'll get the hint.

Have been seeing an ATF Provider a lot of a one year period.  In a way we've became pretty good friends. However during our last session, and afterward hanging out eatting lunch, I'm just not feeling her anymore.

She sent me a text asking me to hang out with her today, because it was slow and needed someone to hangout with for a few hours.  But I told her I was too busy, and couldn't make it.

We've spent hours together off the clock, and one tim had an OT Session, until afterward she said "You know I come out here to work, so you should give me something for that." Which I did.

Anyways how do you guys let your ATF know she's no longer got your fire burning anymore, and it's time to move on?

after the OT session.  I've had lots of girls extend a session and I always made sure (if they didn't first) that they wanted me to stay and hang out, or have dinner, or whatever.  Sounds like a missed communication, but asking for more $$ after going over is, to me, a no-no.  A time extension for additional  $$ should be broached before the original date runs out.  Sounds like you need to find another ATF.

I second that vote!

If she knows your TER handle, she might have read your post.

or does it matter to you.  sort of sounds like it's fading away anyhow.  never really meant anything to begin with, right?

to have more than one ATF. My optimium is about 3. This you don't repeat too much and doesn't get bored.

After all the goal is to have sex with as many as possible and when you have only an ATF and behave like in a civvie relationship, what is the point?

a reference request from another provider, maybe she will know then.
Hugs and kisses
TL

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agreed. you just don't contact her anymore. although that can be tough if you have gotten too close to one another.

Dude

She already told you loudly and clearly that she's not feeling "it" anymore when she asked you for extra money!  You don't need  to tell her anything....she is just hoping you will start listening to her signals.  She has moved on and is hoping you do too....It happens.  It can be a shock to realize it.  Moveon.org

Giorgio

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You're the last resort? Grow a fucking pair, man!

Find a new ATF that won't shit allover you.

Goddam, dude. With your reviews you have to ask this?

You need a kick in the vulva. I can't do it cuz I'll get introuble. Again.

I got too close to a provider and we had many OT sessions and a couple overnights while paying just for the original appt.  For a couple months, she would ask me to come over just to hang out.  It was fun for a while, but without some form of rules, it quickly became awkward.  She did not want to feel obligated to have sex when I came over and after I was asked to come over to provide menial chores several times (bring food, provide transport, pick up furniture), I began to get to frustrated.  As would be expected, it had a pretty fiery ending.  I knew it was doomed from the start, but couldn't help myself.  Maybe someday I will learn?