I just had a 2 hour date($800) with a provider with well over 100 reviews and an combined average rating of over 9.1. Absolutely stellar reviews time after time. I had been trying for months to find the way to see her(required travel on my part) and finally got it arranged. When I arrived I found myself with a high level of anxiety that I could not shake during the date. Although I was able to see some of the wonderful attributes of this lady, my experience was certainly not spectacular. Truthfully I would rate it in the lower 25% of the experiences I have had.

Was it incredibly stupid to schedule a 2 hour first  date? I have never spent that much money on one date. It was well over $1000 when you include travel expenses.

How would you handle the review? I do feel that my level of anxiety was the greatest negative contributor to the date. I really think I will see her again sometime.

penalize the provider for your own issues.

and if i were a Hobbyist i would have probably did the same thing, but hindsite is 20/20 right? lol
so your only option now is to post an honest review and maybe state what you did above in your review, and i'm so sorry to hear it was less then stellar for you, but you have to understand that we all have our "off" days too, but as a provider myself, i put whats bothering me on the shelf and give 200% to the gentlemen that picks me and decides to spend his very hard earned cash to spend time with me my first priority!
Maybe next time your experience with the many fantastic providers on here will be better for you
Good Luck
Jay

or you are in such awe of her beauty that you can't get passed the fact the she is just a women.

Be honest in your review and state what was good for you in the session and what was not. If it lacked affection then mention it but also mention how nervous you were meeting her.

Be honest as that is what makes this system work.

Kisses Haley

I often find that when I travel, and schedule a date for the same day/evening as my arrival, I'm not at my best.

These days, I'm trying to resist that temptation and wait until the day after travel to schedule a date... however... all you gorgeous women make that very difficult.

Maybe the solution is to schedule only an hour for the first night with one lady, and save the main attraction for a day or two later.  Think of it like a warm up band.... or a confidence builder???

I think you should describe the event accurately from both sides.  I would never penalize another for my short comings, it just wouldn't be fair.  How she handled your extreme anxiety is a fair topic.      

Stupid??  No, you are being too hard on yourself.  Over enthusiastic?  Yes.  Personally, I schedule one hour for first dates to see how the chemistry is.
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especially when your own issue was most of the problem.  I'm sure the provider will appreciate it.

Thanks, no review sees to be the best solution for both parties.

Immediately preceding this date I have 6 absolutely wonderful dates with girls with from 25 to 100+ reviews and combined averages from 8.4 to 8.9.(I did post with an alias, because of subject today). I had been thrilled with girls I had selected based on the review system. I think the anticipation/outside stress was too much for me this time.

I had a session with one of the most wonderful women I have ever met. She was funny, drop dead georgous, fantastic body & she did some really sweet things to make our time really special & I just couldn't keep it up. Not her fault at all & I think it was because she was just so beautiful. She was so sweet about - it happens.

for me part of the reason for booking a session is to be able to relax with a sexy woman.  To my way of thinking providers need to have the skills to make that happen. End of story.

In the past I wanted to do that too and spend over 1 grand on traveling and expenses for a Vip provider. However, I have realized for me that would be too much for the first date.          

Although a provider may have excellent reviews doesn't mean you will have the greatest chemistry together.    

Also, traveling can make one very tired and stressed out too; whether it's in a car or an airplane. Plus since that was the most money you ever spent on an escort that also must have contributed to your anxiety.

If I was you I would chalk this up as a learning experience and see a provider that fits more in your budget and that requires less traveling for you.




 


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we flirted for a few months... Finally, I made a date with her - and flew about 2000 miles to have a first meeting with her.  While I was indeed anxious as were you, I made a game of it... and decided that even if I did not like the lady - at least getting away - was to be a mini-vacation for me... and that is how I approached it.

Worked... the date was all that I could have asked of it - the trip was very relaxing - and I returned to work - refreshed.

As to the lady, she was wonderful, sexy and made the evening magical, I still carry a tourch for her - but we have become friends... and know what, we can all use a few more friends....   Good luck with this - as I do not think it uncommon...

On another note, I've also met ladies who - out of the blue - caught my attention - and would seriously be capable of falling in love with them... as the connection was more that "just another event in the hobby"

I must confess, I've slowed down my hobby experiences... not due to bad experiences - quite to the contrary, these are encounters that would be difficult to live up to...

Oh, average time spent with these to ladies?  in excess of 3 hours each... with din-din thrown in... and to me - that was the best part... as they are incredible dinner companions...

as they say YMMV

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Could you have had too much alcohol?  Especially if you flew to see her.  Air travel and drinking don't mix with male performance.  Excessive drinking doesn't mix with male performance.

Let's mix some chemicals and see what explodes.


Thank You
XLIII = 4

I don't think it was stupid at all. It does happen and has happened with me on a few occasions. There are times, for no known reason people just don't hit it off. Don't beat yourself up about it. No need to post a review that will be even slightly negative on yours or her part. Since you plan to see her again, hold off till the next date and see how that one goes.

I agree with the guy who mentioned expectations, he goes about things like I do. If I make a good friend then I win. Many times I have actually told men the same thing. Relax, go into meeting me with no expectations. It really does work. Men tend to stress themselves out, live their fantasies for too long before they take them into reality, and by the time they do, since women don't know what your naughty mind has been thinking it's hard for any woman to live up to any mans fantasy unless his fantasy is also hers.

If you truly think that your not so great experience was due to your anxiety then you don't want to give the impression that it was her. I personally feel that a 2 hour session is a great idea for a first date because it allow you both to relax and get to know one another. This usually alleviates the anxiety but not always. Did she do a good job trying to relax you or did she just try to push the "acts" to begin? Just wondering what it was that you felt anxiety over. Her or something she did.