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Re: Hobbyists - are you yourselves or put on a front when you spend time w providers?teeth_smile
ChiefRedbeard 18 Reviews 441 reads
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I'm me, the real me, not the front one puts on for the rest of the world.  I hope that the ladies are themselves as well. Some are, and some are not.

kayone731715 reads

I assume that most ppl who been in this game for a while are pretty comfortable with themselves and act like they do when around their own family and friends.  I can also assume tho that some ppl may not be as comfortable around strangers and may put up some sort of a front, much like on first dates or meeting a girl at a bar, trying to act more confident, aggressive, sexual, normal, whatever...

All i can say is that when i'm with any of the girls, that except for the nervousness of my first time, i usually try to break the ice w normal chitchat and often make jokes, sometimes we are laughing constantly throughout our session, esp when taking breaks to catch our breath.  I can't help it, because im not really the intense, serious type and i have to make jokes and see smiles and laughs from other ppl, even if were sleeping w each other.  Some of the girls told me they appreciate the levity as it makes their days a little nicer.

What are other pplz thoughts?

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Bostonguy57860 reads

I have enough BS in my marriage and my job. When I hobby there is really no reason why I can't be myself. The money is on the dresser and we both know what is about to happen and what got us their. It's time to relax and enjoy!

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DC.307 reads

about this hobby is that these ladies make me feel that I am so much more than I can ever be.  

Every self-esteem therapy group should start with a field trip to a great provider.

:-)

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hungry1951566 reads

I find it incredible how much I CAN be myself, after having to play the corporate bullshit games. That's MY playtime. Why would I want to be someone else?

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mattradd855 reads

For me, it takes too much emotional energy to try and appear to be something I'm not. When the woman looks at me she probably sees an older man, average in appearance, who is a mixture of excited and insecure, but very focused on her and her pleasures. I've always enjoyed myself and the lady, and haven't been refused a return invitation yet. That's all I care about.

-- Modified on 2/21/2008 12:40:55 PM

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ChiefRedbeard442 reads

I'm me, the real me, not the front one puts on for the rest of the world.  I hope that the ladies are themselves as well. Some are, and some are not.

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themudpup398 reads

of a providers company.  I like to think I am just myself, and nothing more or less.  I have only limited experience, but have been fortunate to have had a couple of very "professional" Ladies that helped me to BE myself as well.

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little phil241 reads

I probably tried to put on a bit of the dog, but now it's just me, my money and a sense of humor.  Some ladies probably leave at the end, wishing that they could turn back time, but for the most part I think we both have an enjoyable time.

I rarely have a hard time getting an appointment, so it must work.

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