with a nice dress shirt, slacks and jacket.

I also wear good leather shoes.  Gals notice shoes.

I think it may help matters but mostly I just feel better dressing that way.

The main thing is that the clothes should be clean and in good condition.

I want to be presentable, but not stand out in a crowd.

Jeans, shirt, sneakers, socks and boxers.

The clothes don't stay on very long so I really don't think she cares what I wear.

Well from a providers perspective...

Well first off I don't dress like a "Hooker"...I always greet my gents wearing a nice dress ( with hot lingerie underneath of course ).....

I don't really mind what guys wear, but I will say I love it when a guy comes in and his wearing his work suit or dressed really smart...makes me want to jump their bones even more hehe.... I love to undress a guy in a suit or button down top!....Just thought I'd share!

For guys over a certain age, or at least for me, it is important to look the gentleman.  Then I also try to behave that way as well.  Just my thing.

Most of all, I'd say dress appropriate to the events.  For example a dinner + session depends on where dinner will be.

Also, some people of both genders like to dress up at times.  Here I think the key is communication and both being on roughly the same page.  T-shirts and jeans have their place, so do suits and evening gowns.  Jeans and evening gowns to the same party probably don't.

Style of Dress...

I like to dress up in a nice dress or skirt.When the weather gets cold I like business attire(slacks and a nice blouse)or a business suit.If I am going somewhere outdoors where it is casual I like to wear a pair of nice jeans.For the gentleman I do like the more dressed-up look I do not mean he has to be in a suit and tie.But,I can certainly appreciate a nice pair of slacks,sweater,or a buttoned down collared shirt.

I always dress appropriate and one of the first thing a provider should learn is to dress for the occasion. Even when I dress up like a slut for inside fun I look like a classy one

Hot months:  usually a Magnum P.I. type shirt, shorts, and flip-flops.

Cold months:  flannel shirt over a colored t-shirt, jeans, and sneakers (with socks), jacket if necessary.

Always wear ball cap too.

I'm retired, only own one suit and one pr of dress shoes, so I only wear them when forced to.

I am always freshly showered, shaved, brushed, etc, also.  But, not dressing to impress, clothes are always clean, of course.  Like was mentioned above, they are not staying on too long, hopefully.

Swim

was here in new york on business. I never thought I would ever see a man who knew exactly how to dress. When I walked in the door, all I could think was...WOW..I just wanted him so bad all because of the outfit he had put together. I have never seen it done so well. Lets just say, he didnt get to keep his clothes on that long. I was lucky enough to go back again the next night, and once again I was wowed..so I made sure I wowed him...

Its amazing how sexy a man can be when he wears suspenders!! not to mention the way he cordinated with the shirt, pants , shoes, even his socks were perfect...Did I mention he smelled delicious!

Living in Manhattan, I get to see men walking around the city all dressed up, or just well-dressed. I think it is sexy when a man takes the time to make sure he looks good..It doesn't always need to be a suit..Just the combination of nice outfit put-together and a nioce smelling cologne can put any woman over the edge.. Least me anyways..Just makes me hornier...

When I show up, if nothing particular is requested, I always wear something that doesnt make me stand out in a crowd..Usually, a silk blouse, jeans, boots or heels..The only time I dont like to wear a skirt or a dress, is for day time appointments. I am 5 10 1.2 without heels, so me in a skirt or dress in daylight hours will definitely draw more attention to me then I would like. I do have great legs and get alot of compliments on them. Between them and the red hair.. I will stick out in daylight..Night time doesnt bother me as much..


Underneath,,is another story...always sexy lingerie ....ALWAYS..and if I can, I get to change into something very very sexy..
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nice jeans, long sleeve dress shirt and brown/black leather shoes with matching belt.  I find this to be best in terms of comfort and also blending in with my environment.  I have also had a few compliments from the ladies so it works for me.

505's and a polo shirt usually. In the winter usually an untucked casual long sleeve shirt.

If I started dressing up and the dressing up always coincided with me disappearing from the office for a couple of hours it would look very strange, so I wear what I wear. I also wouldn't want to be dressed too nice at some of the incalls I've been to, LOL.

While you do not have to "dress to impress", I think your overall appearance ABSOLUTELY does make a difference. Whether you care to admit it or not, the lady is judging you from the moment you walk in. She is noticing how you greet her, your mannerisms, how you speak to her, and yes, how you are dressed. Does that mean that the gentleman walking in wearing a polo shirt and slacks will at the end of the session be a better client than the man walking in wearing a tee-shirt, ripped jeans and flip flops? Of course not. But more often than not the man who is well dressed will initially be treated better and the lady will prob. have a bit more comfort level (again at the start) in being with him. It's human nature; the lady is making a snap judgment (rightly or wrongly) about the gentleman she is going to spend time with. You want the lady to be glad to be there, so why not put her at ease right from the start of the session? One way to do this is to act and look professional.  

This goes for clients as well. It is NO different than we as hobbyists judging a lady when we meet her for the first time. A lady who greets you with a friendly smile and a nice hug, whose apartment is clean, who is wearing appropriate attire, who offers you a beverage or an opportunity to freshen up, who looks you in the eye and seems really happy to spend time with you, will be judged initially MUCH more favorably than the lady whose apartment is unkempt/ or smells like smoke, immediately wants to see the envelope/donation, did not put any effort into her appearance or attire, and makes you seem like you are just another faceless client. Again, could the second lady turn out to be an all time favorite?. Of course; but she will have to work a lot harder during the entire session to overcome your initial negative impression.

I only do evening appointments and I always dress very casually. I am most comfortable in jeans, T-shirts, and sneakers, so that is what I wear. Sometimes I feel a little weird about the contrast when a lady is all decked out, but like Popeye said: I yam what I yam, and that's all what I yam.

Just a raincoat as anything else takes so long for me to unbutton, unzip, and take off that the hour is up.

I like dressing up a little for my sessions.  I usually where slacks or dockers and a dress short, sometimes with cuff-links, a nice watch, leather shoes and usually a nice leather jacket.  It is dressy enough to make me look good but not over the top so I stick out in a crowd.  

I particularly like it when the lady helps me unbutton the shirt..  I think that is very seductive.. *smile*

There is a saying I'm fond of...

A lady should dress as expensively as it will be to get her undressed....  or something like that.

I dress to impress. Unless..

I aways like to dress to impress. First impressions are very important I believe.

Unless I'm told to wear my daisy dukes. lol

You guys always look great and dress for the event planned.

Cheers,
Kara Keys

The quicker we can get down to it. I'd hate to disappoint them.

Just my .02 pesos.

The girls at the titty bar can tell if i stopped in with a provider I have on my hawian type shirt.  They just start laughing.

I usually like to wear business casual. However on several occasions, I have used the excuse that I was going to the gym when I was off to a session. Then I have worn my workout shorts and shirt while smelling clean and fresh. Every time, it has received a very positive response from the ladies. They always comment and seem to like it.

For Outcalls, Usually I am just in a robe( as I would have freshly showered, But when I go to an incall, I am in a t-shirt and jeans. That is how usually I dress, nothing fancy.

When visiting an incall at a hotel, I always go with the khakis, polo shirt, and a sports coat. With that kind of look, the front desk is unlikely to engage you as you pass on by. For an outcall in my hotel room, usually khakis and the polo. Clean and fresh is key, especially the underwear. And freshly showered is a must.