Those of you who at one time in your hobbying days had to lie or had to sneak around but are now free of any significant other, is there any part of the "cheating" that you kind of miss?

I am not referring to people who were in open relationships or in any other way it was approved by your partner that you were seeing others for sex. Additionally, it's not about single people who never had to answer to another as to who you were screwing. Lastly, it's not about civvie hookups either. This is specifically about having to hide your outside pay-for-sex activities from a partner who disapproved or would have disapproved, but now you don't have to deal with that, you openly pay for as much sex as you want to.  No more cat-and-mouse, cloak-and-dagger for you, but in retrospect, was it somewhat of a thrill in some ways?

My status didn't matter, but it was a thrill to fuck a married woman behind her husband's back.

you count being relieved that you got away with it again without being caught.

 
I finally did get caught, twice, in fact, and ended up divorced.

 
Now the relief is I don't have to put up with that fear anymore.

 
On the other hand, I hated to see so much money go out the window, but in retrospect, it was worth it.

In regards to the serious relationship, I stopped hobbying completely, cancelled my review/verification site memberships, cleared all the evidence from my PC, and got a new phone and number without transferring any hobby contacts over. The last part ended up being a pain later on after the relationship ended because I had to start over in a sense. The relationship didn’t end because of cheating or anything like that, but sex certainly wasn’t as good except for being able to go BB with the chick I was with.

In a more recent relationship, I knew it wasn’t going anywhere. I just wanted to get some free miles in on some gymnastics coach pussy who happened to be white, and I rarely have interest in white chicks. We didn’t live together and I mainly saw her on the weekends, so there wasn’t much to have to hide to continue hobbying. Surprisingly, the only issue was that she kept telling me she had gotten on the pill and we didn’t need protection. I continued using a condom because I didn’t want to accidentally share anything with her. I was just into her body, but the sex (especially oral) was pretty awful. She formerly did uneven and parallel bars, and coached both, so her hands were rough as hell. It was like getting a handy from a rock climber with a chimpanzee’s grip. Even though I only slowed down from hobbying during this relationship, I basically sprinted back after I broke it off with her. Now, I pay to play and remain happily single with no one to hide it from... other than society I suppose.

I hated cheating.

 
I simply hated the idea of being in drydock forever with my wife even more.

Indeed it was......back in the late 80's when I was younger.

girlfriends.  Our relationship is conditional on a mutual agreement that she can continue her work having paid sex with other men, and I can continue paying for sex with other hookers.  Equality is what makes it work.  You simply can't do that with a civvie girl.  For us, transactional sex is NOT cheating.  If she has sex without getting paid, or I have sex without paying, then we consider THAT cheating.  Consequently, even though I have an SO, I don't have to lie or sneak around to continue in this hobby.  The only courtesy she expects unilaterally is that I not see any of her close hooker friends.  I  did better than that.  I told her I wouldn't see any of her customers either.   LOL

 
Just one word of caution if this sounds like a good deal. Not all hookers will agree to this.  Many want to continue working but want their boyfriend to be  faithful.   That's not a level playing field, so those types of relationships typically don't last very long.  Even with this agreement, many of my outside relationships eventually fail because of jealousy . . . . . . hers, not mine.   Some go BSC in a few months, but others have lasted over a year.  

Please tell us more how you please sooooooo many women.  Please tell us the key.  

Oh, I know. They’re hookers and you pay them to stroke your ego.  

Nothing I love more than anyone, example YOU, is when you hear these hobbyist bragging about how they just rocked some hookers world and they are just super star studs. But what they fail to tell you is how much they paid the woman to make them feel that they rocked their ego.

My God!!! I think you are in the hooker hall of fame of how many times you think you’re made a hooker cum category by the way  you brag about it I on review sites

Wake up asshole, it’s their job to make you feel like adonis. If they didn’t then they didn’t do their job right.  

You really are comedy.  

PS... I’ve gotten emails and in the subject description is what I’ve been told who you are. By many that laugh at you.  
So easy with the Lance Romance shit. I could throw out a lot more “stories”.

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I was wondering why you attacked the OP and called him a "70's fat Buddha stud."  Then I thought maybe you still haven't learned how to put your posts in the proper place so we know who you are talking to, and that maybe you meant me, but just about anyone that doesn't have dementia here knows I have mentioned my age as 62, the same as GaG on hundreds of posts.  A simple search would have told you.  There are also many posts where I have owned up to being a gym rat.  I work out at least 4 days a week, so "fat" is not in my vocabulary.  The ladies I have seen seem pleased with my appearance.  Contrast that with you, who recently signed off on a post saying, "what do I know, I'm just a fat guy from Tallahassee.  So it seems that "early 70's fat Buddha" is just you projecting.  You can add "stud" if you want,  but I think those days have long passed.  Am I right?  

 
I posted this mainly for the OP, so that he would know you were talking to me and not him because of the idiotic placement of your post.  He's a decent guy and there is nothing wrong with his thread.  You do that a lot.  Dyslexia?  Dementia?  Diverticulitis?  Or plain old Dumbshit?  Go ahead, pick a "D".  LMAO

I didn't sneak around much but I did sneak around some.

I really like the fact that I can see a hooker, civie girl or a sb without worrying about anyone getting jealous. All the ladies I see do not care who else I'm seeing. At least as far as I know

I was neutral, and kind of felt bad for the guy. But didn't know him or ever meet him so no real effect.

Thread.  

Keep “turning on” the hookers stud muffin. And is I’ve heard, recent DM (a lol email that verifies the muffin part “gym rat”). Keep stroking your ego. Keep loving yourself. If you can’t believe in yourself, keep believing and keep that attitude. You can always pay one of the hookers to make sure that you feel the way you think.  

Like I said before I’m done responding to you because you’re a fucking idiot. You call me a stalker in reality, you’re the one that is stalking me. Last I checked I don’t respond to you nor do I make the first approach. I have always responded to you when you’ve made the first contact.   I will no longer respond to fat ass old man bully that hides behind a computer and holds zero substance.  

Give your elderly Buddha fat man advice to those that love fictional entertainment...

Bye bye cunt

This. PLUS, I noticed that a lot of the times I'd go see an escort/hooker was when I was pissed at my ex-wife. I felt much better after a good fuck with another woman.

In saying you're NOT a stalker while you're stalking me?   Your email buddy is the biggest liar on TER.  Ask anyone. He feeds suckers like  you false information and when you make a fool of yourself he is nowhere to be found, hanging you out to face the ridicule alone.  The guys here who  have met me in person know your lol info is a joke on you.  

 
You actually SHOULD stop responding because you just make yourself look more stupid.  You are too lazy or too stupid to look things up on TER before you start lying.  That's why you always end up with egg on your face looking like a moron.  But keep it up, it suits you.  You should just put me on ignore and you won't even see my posts.  You're probably too insecure to do that, but its an option.