and I'm not talking about the kind you see on T.V :P

Just curious as to what kind of after-date cleanup preferences the gentlemen might have? I mean, most of my dears like to shower up afterwards, and I can't blame them. However, I am curious to know how I could be a better hostess? I try and buy un-scented, or male oriented body shower gels. But everyone's going to have a different home brand.  I could ask before the actual date if they have any preferences, but not always do I have the time to run to Walgreens to do that. Just a minor matter I'm thinking about...your thoughts?




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You are already on the right track. I think smelling like something is much less important than not smelling like other things. As wonderful as it is, leaving with the scent of au de sex isn't a good option. Better but still not good are "girly" scents that guys don't normally have on them.

You can't match every guy's personal bathing products, so plain and simple are safe. Ivory, Dove, etc. that leave a body uncented but clean. Soaps that are boring and non-descript, but effective.

Thank you for the link. Definitely a good option to consider. Or Costco

Nothing worse than a rash on the boys...

The hardsoap near the bathroom sink is a mix of unscented, natural blends -- great for both genders, easy on the skin and no scent.

The second hardsoap in the shower is a lavendar and oatmeal mix. It doesn't give off a scent after you dry off, but it's good for the skin.

The third and best option (in my opinion) is a liquid soap in my shower. It's Castle Soap's Peppermint Soap.  It smells extremely fresh, livens up the skin and feels tingly and -- although it smells refreshing in the shower -- doesn't give off a smell after toweling off. It's also very natural. However, take care to tell your friends not to get it in their eyes. I don't suggest they wash their faces with it, and I tell them.

Hugs,
Ciara

Thanks for asking Charlotte. I would object to any soap that leaves a scent. I also prefer that the lady use no perfume. The natural scent af a clean , hot woman is all the turn on I need,  And if she is not too scrubbed, maybe some of the pheramones will linger on her skin.
Personally I prefer Dial. It has little scent and is anti-bacterial.

I have a small basket of individual-sized personal care products on hand for my gentleman friends to use.   There are toothbrushes and toothpaste, mouthwash, lotions, shampoo and conditioners, dandruff shampoo, deoderant, body wash, soaps, and, of course, pouf sponges.  Some are unscented or just a clean scent like Dove or Dial.  Others are manly fragrances like Axe, Irish Spring, Old Spice, and Degree.   I even have grabbed a few leftovers from hotels I have stayed at.  

I don't really like the idea of communal use big bottles of stuff so I use the individual sized ones.   Buying in bulk is cheaper but I don't have the room to store 1000 bars of soap and 1000 bottles of body wash no matter how small they are!   I think it would be good to get together with some local ladies and do this.   It's $1. or more each at the store but online in bulk is about 10 cents each.

either way, it's a small price to pay to keep my gentleman happy, clean and safe from scrutiny when they get home!

Dial and Ivory bar soap.   Get a large package of the small bars for cheap money, and if the man wants either of them, they can use that bar, and then throw it away.

I have actually brought Dial soap to incalls because I knew the person did not have anything like that.   Smelling like "pretty" soap is not good.

Perhaps also having a liquid soap that does not smell is also good.

Having soaps like peppermint, and other smells is not good at all.   Even worse are the male oriented soaps which have a strong smell.  Many men do not wear any cologne or anything like that, so having a smell when you do not normally will set off "red flags".

As I stated in my post above, my peppermint soap only smells while you're washing yourself not after the shower. I've had more compliments on it, and it's not tainted with perfumes or harsh chemicals. None of my soaps are harmful to the skin, unless you're very senstive or allergic to something in particular. If that's the case, then you should bring your own soap or let the lady know ahead of time.

Are you an Ivory boy?

Hugs,
ciara

Ivory is 99 and 44/100ths percent pure, just like we are.

But it is the 56/100ths that are so much fun!

...And I have found that the scented soaps (like the peppermint soap you mentioned) always seem to leave a smell on the body that is smellable.   Perhaps the soap you have is different, but I have never had that experience.

My skin always seems to absorb every smell it comes in contact with.  For example, I can always tell which restaurant I went to for lunch three hours later because of the soap they use in the bathroom, and the smell that is left on my hands.

This product's .56% composition is made up of xx and xx and xx

The Question:   What is Ivory Soap?

But I am not pure in the least!

I like to lather a gal up and then rub her all over me.

It gives me that clean tingly feeling that I love so much.

so that on the very rare occasion when I need to go back to the office or home to someone who does not know that I am a hound, I can return smelling as well as looking put together....

This is especially good if someone is married. If you use a provider's soap -- and hopefully it doesn't contain a lot of perfumes -- it's always a good idea to put on your own cologne.

Hugs,
Ciara

Been using it for over 20 years. Plain bar of Ivory soap. I am not the kind of guy to use gels or all that smelly stuff. I also don't use hair gels or any of that other kind of stuff. Just clean up, shampoo, use deodorant, and done.

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I'm going to need to take a shower since I will be returning home later that evening.

Belinda, do the guys take the time to use the shampoo and conditioner? I'm curious,because I've done so if I've arrived at the provider's location straight from work or if it's a hot, humid day.
I'll shampoo my hair while in the shower, but I also know it's taking time away from my hour with her.