Is this going to be the Bareback Review now?

Does anyone else need to confess?

I've been in the hobby for about 10 years, and I believe I've been averaging about one bbfs offer/yr.  Some have been implicit, but most others overt.  A couple have come from strippers, a couple more from AMP ladies, but the rest have come from providers.  I've managed to restrain myself so far.  Sometimes it has been a no brainer, other times it has been "holy shit, is it worth 20 seconds (maybe less) of ultimate pleasure for two years of blood tests?"

For instance, I saw a popular provider for the third time in DC about six years ago.  I joked "how 'bout some bareback anal?", and she agreed!  Man, was I tempted, but I declined, and put a jacket on.

Still shivering.

My bad, just logged on, saw a poll on the home page regarding the subject (I can't believe how many of you would deliberately consider bbfs), and didn't realize there was already an extensive body of discussion regarding it.  Mea culpa.


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I was only offered it one time in the 12 years I have been the hobby. I was laying down on the bed after the lady gave me a bbbj. She then tried to get on my dick with out the condom. I said "Hold on baby, no love with out the glove". She had a smirk and put the condom on dick. I never saw her again after that.

I know several guys who are retired military and they are always putting down the hobby. They told about what happened and how many guys could not come back to the states because of catching a STD from a prostitute overseas.

I found out that much of the bbfs practices happen in military towns with large bases. Some of the bbfs providers offer military discounts.

The ladies offer bbfs go from street walkers all way up to some of the expensive porn stars. One lady has no reviews and she knows she will get business by word of mouth and network searching. She put that on her website. The ladies come in all shapes/sizes/races. The places were bbfs is available in our hobby is US, Canada, UK, Germany, and Australia.

I do know there are some ladies who will not offer you bbfs if they know you are dead set against it, but will offer to other guys on a selective basis if they know the guys test results. One my hobby buddies freaked out and is getting tested on a regular basis because he participated in bbfs with his atf a few years ago.

If you took part in the TER polls - this discussion is very relevant.  It's kinda chilling how many will do BBFS RIGHT NOW or even consider it!

My current ATF, who is semi-retired offered BBFS and I'm really tempted.   She would only do it if we both got tested.  I know that that isn't a 100% guarantee, but I have to admit I'm tempted.  But may just try the female condom instead.