Fairly new at this.  I was wondering the best way to  broach the idea of masturbating with a provider.  In other words, I would love to see her playing with herself, with fingers or possibly more, while I do the same to myself.  Is this something you can bring up once you are together?  Or should you mention this before you meet to see if she would be willing to go that route?  I don't mean to do just that, but more as a form of foreplay.  I'd really like to see what she likes to feel or how she likes to be stimulated.
Any one else ever do this?
Feedback from both sides would be appreciated.

we had already run through the positions, and I had already finished. It was actually "overtime" at this point. We were laying end to end having a spot of convo.

She started playing with herself. Picked up my hand and put it on my crank, and gave me an certain look. Told me she wanted to masturbate while watching me. I thought, what the fuck. It was actually quite a bit of fun.

I've always liked to watch a lady play with herself. You learn a lot about what she likes in daty that way.

Ok, I've never had a date where this was all we did for the entire time, but MM can be SOOO much fun as a little interlude sandwiched between other activities!

I doubt if any lady would be turned off by the suggestion. Just ask her! We really do love it when you tell us what turns you on. Unfortunately, I failed at mind reading, but I'm pretty good at making some educated guesses at what gentlemen enjoy. A gentle hint in the right direction is never amiss though.

it is best when she is masturbating herself at the same time.  Shoot it all over her chest.  Remember masturbation is a team sport!

I have done that many times with my toys and many gentlemen love to watch.

It's a turn on for me too, especially if I use my rabbit to cum and the gentlemen goes down to lick all that nice juice.

I say wait till your in the heat of passion and place her fingers on her pussy. No words need at this point.

Kisses Haley

I ask my guys to hold it for me.

 Like when I take off the condom, as we prepare to  head (pun intended) in a new direction!

Keep it hard for me, I ask.

Show me how you stroke it.

I think it's sexy to watch.
I happen to love to point out my clit.
And I'll leave it at that.

I often bring Mr Wabbit along to my dates ...

Makes for very interesting times!

XoXO

Lina

That would have been a good review content -- I already wrote a review for her prior time, so nothing was put down in words ...

She is a very young beautiful provider. I just had my first cup at that time, she then flipped over on her stomach watching TV and gave me some "butt playing time" ... everything was so beautiful ... I could not help start touching myself ... she suddenly turned her head around and noticed it, "that's hot, don't stop", she then sit up and start rubbing and fingering herself ...

In my experience, most ladies will be more than happy to let you play with them.  Read her reviews, and see if any mention this activity.  If so, you should be pretty much ready to go...just ask.  Best time to bring this up is probably between rounds...most of us require additional stimulation in order to get that second pop, and most good providers will gladly partake in this if that's what's needed to get you revved up again.  This helps them to get heated up for Round Two as well, so you shouldn't hesitate to ask.  

As for asking beforehand, it's not a good idea to discuss activities with someone you have never met with before.  Big red flag for the ladies to be alert for Uncle Leo...

Sometimes if I am very comfortable with a regular I will suggest a "hands-only" session or a "hands-only" hour in a multiple hour date.
I nearly want to say that I enjoy watching/being watched more than say- 69.  Actually, I think I do- I just love manual/digital stimulation, be it by my own hand or my partners.

Mutual masturbation is seriously one of the hottest acts of foreplay and a lot of clients enjoy it.
Just share your idea with your chosen provider.

What human male doesn't like to pull his own?

And you say that, but then say you like to watch a woman do it to herself?

If you don't like to "pull your own", how is a woman supposed to get excited about handling it?

Hmmm.  I'm surprised to hear you talk like that.

In fact, your post and my experience with my B.O.B. last night convince me that it's something I should be sharing more often with my lovers.

Mutual masturbation feels utterly sinful and can be a hot and steamy lead in to rounds 2,3 and 4!!

*lol*

~Bella

It's your session, do what you would like, as long as the lady doesn't feel threaten, and it's not painful to the escort. I don't think masturbating is either.

and at my age, in order to maintain the frequency I've become accustomed to, I cant afford to waste any between my three or four sessions a week lol

What I really like to do is to get in position to lick the lady and watch her masturbate. If you watch you will learn alot about the individual ladies sweet spots(s)

Cheers

GTM

Looking for a massage parlor and a cabbie dropped me off ten miles out of town to this hole in the wall.  No one spoke much English so I had to make do with my fractured French, but the gist of it all was she would get naked and give me a massage, but the rest was up to me.

Mais oui, I responded (I think it was all of $25 dollars.) and found it to be quite a bit of fun as she started to masturbate herself with my other hand while I did myself.

We all had a wonderful time and ended up repeating in the hour.

All and all a wonderful experience.

I loved the French accents too.

I've been propping up the corners of junior's mouth into a smile since about 1976....

When I told a recent date that I'd like her to masturbate for me, she replied, "well, I want to watch you, too."

It turned out to be VERY hot......

I have one client who brings me all kinds of toys and vibrators and even once a TENS!  He loves to watch me get myself off since i know EXACTLY what to do to make it happen in 3 mins flat!
I also enjoy watching a big strong man pleasuring himself!  It makes me all hot and naughty like I just gotta help him out by taking him in my mouth!!

Whew very hot post!!!

I'm partial to playing with each other, either with fingers or toys. It's always good when the lady helps out on herself. Gives you a better idea of what pleases her.

I find that the older I get, the less I masturbate. I'll go for weeks at a time, and I sometimes go a few months between my visits with the ladies.

That must make you 165 yrs old.

but I look good for my age. I've been told I don't look a day over 130.

I would not be able to keep up with the pace lol.....

Now if I were in a circumstance where I could not hobby or otherwise enjoy female companionship for an extended period - sure I'd take care of myself. Just to keep the juices flowing, and also so it doesn't forget how lol

yesssssssssss lots of fun and leaves me ready to go another round!!