You guys are mean !!! wow....just mean
I found a low cost (and most likely high volume) young cute white provider with dirty blond hair that has many reviews on this site for Chicago escorts but she advertises mostly on Backpage Chicago.
She adverties a rate of $100 for a half hour and $160 for an hour. Most of the hobbyists on this site gave her an average of 7-8 for looks and about 6 for performance. She works out of the Northwest Chicago suburbs near my home and my work so it seemed like a potential great date for low cost that was close by.
I arrived in her mid-priced motel chain room this afternoon after work. She gave me the room number and I entered her room as she opened the door. What I first saw was a young skinny woman with some acne that was at most 21 years old. She was dressed poorly with "inner city" type basketball shoes, an oversized giant T-shirt that looked like a dress. Her hair was greasy and she had on zero make-up. The room was stinking from smoke and there were nasty dirty towels, food containers and dirty laundry scattered around the room.
The next moment made with cancel the date: I saw her 3 year old mulato daugher run out of the bathroom. She texted her friend to take care of her child during the date.
I said to her that there is no way I can go ahead with the 30 minute $100 date. I gave her $50 to buy some food for her and her daughter. I gave her another $25 to get her laundry down somewhere in the area.
As I left, I told her to please not give any of this money to her pimp. Many other hobbyists on TER noted that there was a big fat ghetto hood rat that served as her manager (pimp). They claim that he could would often be very verbally abusive to motivate the girls to make more money for him.
Lots of you guys on this site posted reviews of your time with this girl. I only wanted to help her and had no desire for any sex from her. I can't enjoy a date with a girl that is possibly being pimped out, may have a substance abuse problem and has her daughter so close to dates location
...superior genetic material. In twenty years your spawn will be able to support his mommy and she won't need a pimp.
At the same time, your son will go to Tijuana and the Phillipines to make many Udo III's.
He was probably just pissed that he was going "raw dog" behind some black guy that had fathered her child.
He has no problems with all the thousands of mixed white/asian/hispanic kids sired by white whore mongers from the US and Europe with local asian/latina girls in Thailand or TJ, but a mulato child is one of his first signs of "ghetto"
Actually, you are the Albert Schweitzer of mongers. You get TER's highest award; the Golden Dildo. Now, please, go shove it up your ass.
In the beginning you wrote
"She works out of the Northwest Chicago suburbs near my home and my work so it seemed like a potential great date for low cost that was close by."
and then ended with
"I only wanted to help her and had no desire for any sex from her."
You wanted to fuck her until you saw her messy room/baby running around and then decided to leave.
Ya think?
"She works out of the Northwest Chicago suburbs near my home and my work so it seemed like a potential great date for low cost that was close by."
and then ended with
"I only wanted to help her and had no desire for any sex from her."
You wanted to fuck her until you saw her messy room/baby running around and then decided to leave.
Ummmm... I'm more concerned with your word usage
To stay again from Backpage period which is the greatest collection of scams, pimps and adverse experiences. In fact, I think you ended up quite well in this situation, perhaps the pimp could had hit you, robbed you or shot you. More importantly, I don't see how guys can continue sponsoring this undesirable individual by seeing this girl, although I feel terrible for her and her child and I pray that she can be set free from this situation; it is beyond my understanding why after knowing she has a pimp guys still risk their lives going there. SMH
It must have been really hard being put in that position.
Search Sasha on this site under city of Chicago reviews.
She is the one with the (779) area code.
Pay attention to the reviews posted by Homie2989 and Cloakndagger.
These reviews exemplify the horrible environment of her and her children. Based on Homie's review, she will date a hobbyist for $60. She must be so desperate and abused by her pimps.
Whatever her situation....the fact that you in your own way tried to help her...$ for food....and left, you are a gentleman in my book. Sounds as if she and her poor child are having a rough life. Very very sad.
She may also be mentally ill and not getting proper treatment. Catatonic bipolar can lead to the having tough time . She could be bipolar. Maybe you should also in a very polite way just say you know honey people like the escort to answer door in heels and sexy outfit. And you gotta pick up dweetheart . Nicely.
I had a time I couldnt keep up and so many clients . Would get on my case. I d get mad . But you should tell her she shouldnt answer door in sneakers heels make up dress lingeraiie smile and a kiss .
Fibes brought me my first truck load of french fashion designer did a nice line for victoria secret back then. Ten years ago wow. But .,you know I was that girl!! I answered door in lounge wear and no make up. I tanned n got french mani s n pedis then . But the lounge wear wss at least macys not like grubby hanes her way sweats. Back then I liked these ecko red sweat suits. I figured I was getting clothes off any how. Just a sexy g string.
Then I caught on. For me I had alot of clients that would suggest what I should do or how its done . I mean I never read a book on pegging prostate massage fbsm. It was all requests then theyd explain how. Any ways. It also be nice of you to tell her you d like to try again . Maybe you can help her get a clue. You know.
I had all nice guys give suggestions and learned as I went. I think instead of bad reviews it be nice to help the girls understand why your there and what you want. Its work. Well anyways.. shes trapped in a limbo shel get out. It is hard if you dont have the clothes the make up healthy food who knowws they may be struggling bad. And with low low review she wont make any thing so shes stuck unable to get what she nefs to do better . She may be a nine if she had her hair nice and clean mac make up bobby brown make up. A agent provocateur lingetaie set. A nice clean safe enviroment and independance. Shes trapped there in a hampster wheel. Oh poor girl.
but I believe angels are sent to help when we're going about something the wrong way.
When I started, I received a lot of good advice from men, and also advice on where to advertise.
I had one actually take me on a shopping spree, and got me a complete make over. I started with NO money. Some cute outfits, but nothing like I have now.
I learned from that man to invest in my business. Give a man a fish, feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, feed him for a life time.
I happened to receive both, which ended in great results.
Ever think of passing through and leaving a box with lingerie by her door? Shoes may be difficult, but nail polish, polish remover, and nail file would help her a bit. Shampoo, conditioner, body wash, razors. Maybe a little note, (keep the shoes off until you can get nice ones.)
Doesn't come up to much.
You did a good deed, and that may be all you were meant to do. Just ideas in case you loose sleep over it. UTR, however. If she does have a pimp and doesn't bring in the money, she can get into trouble.
xoxo
A starter lingeraie set from around here we have dots and rainbows and the dollar general. i myself gained weight and just bought emergency bras at dollar general . honest to god they have rhinestones they are cute they dont fall apart in wash and dryer. my recent candids from monday i am rockin my new black dollar general bra. I also have agent provocateur but hey it happens and i have other goals and am dedicated to a budget now.
A bra and panty from one the "ghetto fabulous" none the less better than expensive if you take pride in your nails hair make up smile be polite stand up straight , are clean and smell good. and give excellent service. In good shape with glowing skin , you can wear a potato sack for all i care.
So then the nail polish, and cotton balls and nail polish remover a nail file, shampoo conditioner blow dryer and clips and a brush that round to blow dry nice.
and some lotion razers and shave gel.
small box of condoms and lube.
and a cheep bottle of juice. she may be unhealthy and poor and not have juice maybe they eat take out and cant cook .
and some apples .
hmmm that wouldve been better than cash.
regardless its the thought that counts and not all men have that nurturing gene they are very rough .
That money did not go for food or laundry! It was a big mistake, her pimp would have smacked her around for your coming and not going though with the date and her not getting any cash until she gave it up. She probably turns tricks for drugs on the other hand. Sorry, if I sound cynical, but it is the facts of society today.
Ladies please stop blowing smoke up his ass about being a knight in shining armor, he paid for the time he waisted not going through with the visit.
He knew all she was not before he got there based on his own research beforehand. So what exactly was he expecting. The set up he gave us before he got there detailed his whole experience and now he wants to say I wonder what happened in my case? I call a horse drwan carriage full of his own BS. For those who fell into this "hoe say" conversation with amorous eyes you need glasses, bifocals at that.
What exactly are inner city shoes? Is that a new brand? I just googled that but come up short, please explain what those are. How exactly does the race of her child fit in besides letting us know who you are internally. The last time you described your neighbors kid did you say the white baby? Or exactly when was the last time you used white to describe any other child? How many black people have been in your house? I'm sure you have a true number.
The pimp you knew about before hand may just be a baby daddy who treats her like they live. It makes him no more less dangerous than the situation you put yourself in now we should feel a great since of respect for you? Didn't you know about him before hand? Now he's an issue, really?
You really should re evaluate what you say in your own mind before you actually send it out for thinking people to read. Some of us actually read, evaluate and then comment without the glassy eyes of others. If it makes no sence it generally makes no sence.
He started out looking for a cheap trick and he found one, just because it turned out to be a more personal discovery than he had anticipated makes him no less the cheap trick.
Ajol2you, I understand your point and agree with some but not blowing smoke let me explain:: yes he knew ahead of time low rate and sketchy situation possible. That is different than walking in and seeing a CHILD in the room. For whatever reason he was looking for a deal....ok many do...... The fact that he handed this girl $ for food and left speaks volumes to me. Some may have been angry, some may have continued with child present. What this girl does with that $ or who she gives the $ to this gent has no control over. His intent from reading post was to play for a deal, he walked into a scary very sad situation and tried in his own way to help this poor girl and her child. Searching for a deal doesn't make him a demon. He clearly felt empathy to hand this girl $ he himself worked for without any expectation other than his attempt to help her ( buy food). Not saying he is an angel...none of us are....just saying he showed compassion and handled a bad situation with good intention.
All you have to do is to read the OP's other posts and you will see that he has zero credibility and his posts while often times are entertaining, are nothing more then smoke. Go ahead and read up and I guarantee that you will change your tune.
He doesn't work in a soup kitchen either.
I don't reply to Udo, or others like him. If everybody followed that plan, they would go away. But sometime I will reply to someone else in the thread when I find my head spinning around and green pea vomit spewing out my mouth.
Make believe just for a minute that the post is truthful - that it really happened, as described.
In that case, what happened was that he gave the girl less money than she was asking for. Do you know what happens to a pimped girl when she turns up with less money than expected? Pimp says "awww, that's sweet. Go ahead and keep the $75 and spend it on yourself, you deserve it!" You fucking idiots. He bought her a beating, nothing more - nothing less. And maybe just maybe there is no pimp, or the pimp is actually some sort of boyfriend, andse does have choices as to what to do with the money, do you really believe that she is going to buy something special for her and her baby JUST BECAUSE SOME DOUCHEBAG JOHN TELLS HER TO? She may very well buy some food and diapers - she would have bought even more if he paid her the full 120 as promised. But the bulk of that money is going to the same place it was originally planned - drugs, booze, cigarettes, and so on.
a girl charges 120, menUDO pays 75; what the fuck difference does it make whether he fucked her or not? She fucks for a living, do you really believe that one guy more or less is going to change her life? All that happened here was that the douchebag paid less than promised and may have caused her to get beaten. What an angel.
You guys are mean !!! wow....just mean
When are you going to figure out that you make far too much sense to be posting here? As for Udo The Troll, I prefer my Golden Dildo approach.
I loved the menUDO reference, not quite as catchy as Udon't, but not bad.
AND, if there was a shred of truth about menUDO's encounter, Clarence is most likely right that all he got this poor pimped out girl was a beating. I am sure her pimp was thrilled when she came up short after the session, even if there was no session. That in itself would prompt a beating, pimps have to eat too. We all know it's tough out there for a pimp. IF of course there was a shred of truth to the OP in the first place, which of course all of us with any sense know is not the case.
His trollishness is blatant, but it's reasonably creative and entertaining, unlike some.
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When people write about experiences, they write details. The rest of the OP was filled with details. Greasy hair, 'inner city shoes', shirt that looked like a dress, dirty towels, food cartons... then explained the race of the child. I don't see a problem with it. It's just details put into writing IMO. Funny thing is, I remember the dets and haven't read them since he posted this.
Maybe bi-focals can be a tad too strong, Ajol2you, when looking into something. The big picture is what he experienced, and how he reacted to what he experienced.
An angel can give you what you need, and it doesn't have to be thousands of dollars.
The fact that leaving because the child was there proves there are ethics in this situation. You CANNOT perform stuff like that with a child around.
It also takes actually walking into a situation to realize what you've gotten into. Perception becomes a reality when 'thinking the best' is impossible based on what you see.
Still did a good thing in my eyes. Even cutting $25 off the original deal was good, whether he intended this or not, because it shows a consequence to not providing a healthy, safe, clean environment... with a CHILD around... which no one wants to walk into.
I know of $100 providers who are just starting out.. worth much more.. and perform like a $300 girl per some people who have seen them. They tell them to jack up their rates. There are good $100 providers out there. They just may be beginning, have no money, and have no way to invest in the business yet.
We all have to start somewhere, some of us just start a tad behind others.
Regarding the pimp situation, in the future, you paid a cancellation fee.
xoxo
Courtney
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The OP really does not know and we can only guess... what "take care of the child" meant. Probably does not mean the GF was going to take the child for ice cream. Was the GF & child to remain in that room / hide in the bathroom?? (Not acceptable!) Or take the child to another room for the duration? Marginally better...
After this classless situation, I'd not be able to get it up with a tow truck... I wonder if I could have been so generous
Did you read what you he and you said before you hit post message or are you just trying to sound like a really sweet person because its good for business. The guys here don't want a drama queen, so Ill just say what sounds nice....... and stupid?
Just because he left the appointment early and still paid less than her rate because he saw a mixed kid does not make him an angel. How sweet he left money for food, from what he wrote they were already eating well, remember the many empty food boxes? So unless they ate as the kid watched, there was no real concern for her food situation. And giving a pimped out hoe cash for food in front of a pimp. yea she'll keep that. If he was that concerned about food he should have taken or brought groceries. That is an angel of concern. This is an excuse, One you fell for
Him leaving because of the kid had nothing to do with ethics, he knew his dick would not get hard and or the kid may come running out again and his dick wont get sucked that's all that was and if you can't see that them I'm really here SMMFH.
The next guy you see that shorts your rate, DO NOT get angry, call him, blacklist or get on the provider board complaining how you were shorted and he had the nerve to say, I kept some because I think you should have better hair and more expensive shoes. It is not his right to determine her rates based on how he feels, it's his right to leave or better yet, not go when you know beforehand the situation. You Go, You Stay, You Pay, too easy.
If he was concerned about the kid being there, he could have paid for a separate room for the kid, remember it was a cheap spot.
Bottom Line- He was slumming, he knew it, he got exactly what you get in the slums and now he wants us to pat him on the back. Yes everyone has hard times but everyone is not putting their children in danger and or living in filth. Geography not important. A motel can be clean and safe for your kids. We should now play the violin for her because she has a child? Many of you ladies have kids, her rates, her man or her child's race have nothing to do with the fact that she lays on her back for money and even at $60 an hour, makes way more than the average American. I have no sympathy for him or her bad behavior. People talk the talk but if you really felt a child was in danger $75 will do shit, call someone get her some real help. Yes you may feel like a snitch but what really is more important, you inner self feelings or the health and welfare of the kid? Did you expect we would start a trust fund for stupid hoe kids?
Yes there are very good people, Angels all around us but what you ladies seem to forget is the Devil was an angel too.
smooches all
Maybe bi-focals can be a tad too strong, Ajol2you, when looking into something. The big picture is what he experienced, and how he reacted to what he experienced.
An angel can give you what you need, and it doesn't have to be thousands of dollars.
The fact that leaving because the child was there proves there are ethics in this situation. You CANNOT perform stuff like that with a child around.
It also takes actually walking into a situation to realize what you've gotten into. Perception becomes a reality when 'thinking the best' is impossible based on what you see.
Still did a good thing in my eyes. Even cutting $25 off the original deal was good, whether he intended this or not, because it shows a consequence to not providing a healthy, safe, clean environment... with a CHILD around... which no one wants to walk into.
I know of $100 providers who are just starting out.. worth much more.. and perform like a $300 girl per some people who have seen them. They tell them to jack up their rates. There are good $100 providers out there. They just may be beginning, have no money, and have no way to invest in the business yet.
We all have to start somewhere, some of us just start a tad behind others.
Regarding the pimp situation, in the future, you paid a cancellation fee.
xoxo
Courtney
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Some of you need to spend more time on the board and get to know some posters before responding blindly!
Udo is one of the buggest vs trolls on the board!
and fall for it every time anyhow.