Why not see her again? Just don't do the BBFS unless she proves she's clean with a recent test. Sounds like maybe she likes you a little more than just a client, consider yourself lucky.

First, guys never bring their own. A good provider wouldn't trust them. After that 3 possibilities present themselves immediately.

First, it was love at first sight on her part and you are her soul mate (how I despise that term). How to proceed on that basis is your decision. She crossed many borders with you and seems to want a relationship. If you are like me part of the cost of this hobby is to insure that you do not have a relationship. If you are in this for a girlfriend (or she is in this to find her guy) then you are in very, very dangerous waters.

Second, you're not her soul mate and she is in the wrong profession since she doesn't know the risks involved in unprotected sex and can't distinguish between sex and love. Not good.

Third, she's an idiot or drugged out person no longer capable of making smart decisions.

I'm not sure this is helpful or consoling but I've been around the block many times...

That's gross. She didn't have them because she doesn't use them. That's so scary that I wouldn't want to see her. In a committed relationship with recent tests (like someone else said, maybe) but in that situation? She's asking for a death sentence.

I go with silverlo and #1 when I read it.. I immediately thought psycho.

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On another board, the ladies said that 2% of the guys ask for BBFS, and 55% of the guys anonymously admitted to having BBFS with a lady (half of them with more than one lady). - Note: Poll was not scientific.

In your case, she seems a little too forward. My first thought: Someone looking for child support.

I've had bad experiences with ladies who are too forward. The problem comes in when you don't want to see her any more. They can become stalkers. For that reason, I recommend avoidance.

Wow this is kind of scary thing.

1. Is she new or something? Simply uneducated to know what kind of problems she can expose herself too?

2. BBFS is a scary thing from a provider hell from a regular civie it just as scary.

3. Bring your own condoms always have a backup make sure it is not so old that wallet has a permanent ring stamped on it.

4. If you like her and she likes you it is up to you as to what you want to do with her. For some reason men and even women forget that we are all human with feelings and emotions, maybe she felt a spark for you.

5. Lastly make sure she is not stalker, gold digger type, or looks like she maybe trouble for you in the future.

Good luck with it.. the easiest thing to do honestly is to walk away.

$he i$ after $omething.  Figure out what it i$.  Cau$e if you don't it could be very bad new$ for you!

$eriously I face that when dabling in the world of exotic dancer$ more frequently than in the escort world.  but this one sounds like she is working for a higher payoff....

or - she is just a nut case.... in either case... very very dangerous.

She was hitting on you man. But to fuck someone bare back on the first encounter is risky. In my younger days I played Russian Roulette with my dick, but lived to tell about it. Good thing you used the big head instead of the little head. She has more of an interest in you than just business so how do you fell about that. Nothing wrong with a friends with benefits relationship.

Do you want to see her?

BBFS is a hobby no no, but I question what it has to do with seeing her socially. My guess is if you are posting this here... you both are better off not...

but I will give you the benefit of the doubt... if you want to see her... do it. There is no guarentee of sex and if you do... you have every right to get tested and ask her to do the same...

I mean come on... unless she started that very day, she is savvy enough to understand the source of concern, for her safety and yours.

So if you like her and can handle her profession... then take her out. You can NEVER have too many friends.

keep your eyes open and be honest... demand the same from her and it might be ok... heck there is no guarentee in the civvie world either.

Anyone considered this .....

maybe she has aleady contracted the worst possible disease, so she is not gambling with her life but rather with YOURS ...

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