Curiosity leads me to get feedback!  I for one enjoy DATY and would like to find out others' experiences.

I haven't gotten the "wet explosions" everyone else talks about.

I personally love to DATY. It usually is one sure fire way to get me rock hard if the lady is clean and attractive. Most women I have experienced have very little to no smell, probably because they are clean. Some have a musky smell which is not bad at all, and I have run into a few that just smelled bad. Possibly due to not being freshly clean, but a couple in particular just had a bad natural smell as they were that way fresh out of the shower. Not their fault and I would dine anyway and didn't say anything. If I don't suspect they are clean and they smell bad I don't dine at all. Taste relates to smell for me. As for physical attributes during orgasm, women are different. To be honest I mostly pay attention to their facial reactions while dining. I am sure some have faked it with me, and I am sure some have had genuine orgasms. I know if you watch close you can see contractions of their pussy but they could also do that on their own while faking to make it more real. All in all I think a woman's vagina is a wonderful and beautiful thing if taken care of, and they have given me much pleasure!

There are three kinds of providers when it comes to DATY:

I enjoy DATY when ladies wants that, but with a women I have not been with before I start with digital stimulation & sniff my hand before I take the plunge.

Amen clear-de-lion, amen

Women are sure different in that regard. How many men do you think would be indifferent or tolerate a blowjob? Not many I don't think.

"I don't really like blowjobs, but she wanted to do it, so I let her go until she was finished."  Lol

...since its my fave service (giving and receiving). Maybe some have had bad experiences in the past and now simply don't want it. Very very sad.

I can take or leave a blow job...  It's not what I'm in this for

OK, I guess I'm going to be the occasional exception to the rule.  There is one lady I see frequently and the sexual chemistry is unbelievable.  The moment the door closes, its game on.  She has become quite assertive in what she wants and I'm more than willing to let her take charge.  We go from 0 to 100 in seconds.

and only one for sure who gets off on it because she quivers, shakes, and shouts.

Of an issue with higher volume providers.  I would imagine if I was getting my fourth blowjob of the day I might not be as enthused as I was with the first or second.

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and trust me when I tell you it is no picnic. There are those who got it and those who welllll not so much. I will say that I adore a man/woman who has the skill locked down. It is by far my most favorite The very reason I taken every opportunity to polish my oral skills.

I know that you're the mangina of all mangina's, but please don't babble that when you're paying for pussy that you can't get a gal to allow you to DATY.

So those guys that don't got it, do you tell them what they are doing wrong and what you like so they can learn and your experience will be better? I like to think I am pretty good at it but I am not a mind reader and if I was doing something they didn't like I hope they would tell me and guide me to their likes.

So except maybe for GaG, I think we're all still learning.

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oh, that's right, this is a fuck board and you can say anything ....  
I = IGNORANT ... not that you get it.

Anything even mildly critical, even if her intent is to be helpful, is going to destroy the guy's fantasy that he is a big stud with awesome lovemaking skills.  Its like telling your wife her meatloaf sucks.  Nothing good can come of it.

It is an inside joke and he would understand. When he first entered the hobby he saw Bev Fisher who was an active escort then.  That is how he got the name Mr. Fisher.  So for us old heads we tease him with that name.

Thanks to everyone so far for some great feedback.  It is good to know that it is a sought after act for both males and females!  In general, I sense that not many experience the ultimate fantasy (at least for me) of "creamy" orgasm.  Perhaps watching some erotic porn (not too common) with drop dead gorgeous babes demonstrating this quality has left me chasing an elusive dream!

Yes, I am not shy about this in the least. Further, I give a very detailed lesson in making me cum on my website. There are still those who just do as they wish. Makes me want to use my teeth so they truly appreciate what it feels like.

Not true with all guys.

DATY is one of my absolute favorites. I can, and have, spent an hour down there. Something about the mix naughty and the fact that a dick does one thing -- go in and out -- but you can do all kinds of tricks with your tongue. I love big sloppy kisses afterwards if the lady is ok with it.

I will come close and say: "I don't really like MEDIOCRE OR BAD blowjobs, but she wanted to do it, so I let her go until she was finished."  I don't subscribe to the "there is no such thing as a bad pizza/blowjob" theory.  I've had bad pizza before.  I've had a bad blowjob before.  I'll take a pass on both.  If a girl is not good at oral, there are other games we can play I'm sure I'll enjoy.

Thank you, Erin.  Hilarious and from what I've heard only too true.

Do you think we haven't heard it all before ? If they don't like dato then it wasn't done right or at all  😉

Telling her date that you are terrible at DATY or that your bedroom moves make her feel like aliens are probing her body (and not in a good way) is the stuff a RL GF might do, but not anything any paid provider giving fantasy GFE would ever do.  Part of the GFE is the fantasy that you're a stud even though that is rarely true.  Unless she is crazy, getting out of the business, or just can't take having her pussy face-raped by a man one more damn time, she will just grin and bear it.  I know for a fact that when some providers say they're just not into DATY, they mean that most guys suck at it and she'd rather not get face-raped today.

Let's face it, we're guys.  We have no idea what any of that really feels like.  Not to mention everyone is a little different.  For example, some guys like ball play and some don't.  I can't imagine women are all exactly the same in their sensitivity and preferences either.  

I know service providers that say they aren't crazy about DATY but admit what they really mean is that most guys aren't good at it and - to use Erin's terminology - she'd rather not get face-raped today

Gentlemen 50+ (really 60+ eat pussy the best. Hands down.  

I've read a lot of reviews and posts where reviewers claimed to give providers an O with DATY (or otherwise).  I'm guessing at least some of those claims are accurate, but I strongly suspect they are frequently less accurate than we guys like to think.  These girls are actors and God bless them for it.  Much better to have a hot, steamy, passionate fantasy than a cold, mechanical reality.  Go for the Oscar, ladies.  We'll come back for more.  But if I were betting, I'd put money that most of those shudders, shakes, and shouts are just a polite way of saying "let's wrap it up and move along to the next activity now, OK?"  That being said, only your provider will ever really know which boat you're in.  But if you're with a provider, does it really even matter?  If part of your fantasy GFE experience is to give her an O with DATY, isn't a well-played fake O just as good for the client as a real O?  What the client doesn't know won't hurt him?

BJs and sometimes let her do it anyway.  

I think it's sad that they have to fake orgasms. Sad indeed. It's not necessary.

In regards to smell, the only bad experience I have ever had was with a civvie. They don't have to worry about reviews.

I am in the same boat!  I wonder if some reviewers exaggerate.

The lack of smell can, unfortunately in many cases, be attributed to lack of natural vaginal lubrication.  In other words you aren't making her wet and she is using artificial lube

Some prefer to be licked ... just saying