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Re: Haley, you are so right. Ladies need to be comfortable with the guy they ...
Sexybldbbwfl See my TER Reviews 242 reads
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So you know, if the screening process goes smooth then I am eager and excited to move things along. Sometimes you can say a little something too soon and it spooks us. Safety effects all of us. I love the PM feature on this site as it takes out some of the problems. And there are other places you can be prescreened at to move the process along. Be safe.

Debbie

VisitingProf1635 reads

To add on to what David shared below, on a recent screening, where I mentioned my TER id, the lady sent me a quick PM asking if I was the person who had contacted her via email. I replied with a bit of info that had been in the email so she could be sure it was me. I appreciated her diligence in screening. It helps to avoid counterfiet claims.

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HaleyOrlando545 reads

and this can only be given if you know the gentlemans TER id...

I think more gentlemen should PM or send their TER id when sending e-mail so that the lady he is contacting has a better picture of how she should screen him.

I seldom ask for references but just this week a TER member sent me an e-mail with references of 3 out of town ladies...Looking at his reviews there was one lady listed that I have given a number of references to. I asked if he minded me contacting her and would he be so kind to send her an e-mail. If I had not done that I would have passed because he was staying in a family area I would not have gone to. I love playing with my family at Disney but do shy away otherwise..

Gentlemen, you check us out here why shouldn't we be expected to do the same...

Kisses Haley

-- Modified on 11/16/2008 10:15:11 AM

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AngieRenee Love521 reads

I can't urge ladies enough to NOT rely on TER handles and Whitelist references. Anyone can say, "I'm smackyouintheass on TER" but it doesn't mean they really are that person. Plus, there are also some people that say, "If you Whitelist me I'll give you a good review." This happens a lot to newbie providers more so than old school ones. I only know this from ladies telling me this. Personally, with me, you must earn the whilelist referral when the session is over and I think about it for a few days.

Also, just because someones' name is well known (IE:Provider) doesn't mean you should take that reference at face value and not contact her.
I had an issue 2x's this week with people stating that I am thier reference. Sure, I screened them but I didn't actually meet them, therefore I am NOT a reference.

Screen, screen, screen. If they don't have references tell them where they can't get verified without you taking all thier personal info, if you're not comfortable with that. Ask for ID, that's your right. If it's not them then tell them to leave.

If we start to become lax on our screening it will only hurt us in the end. "Trust no one until they've earned it". I live by that and it's worked great so far.

AngieRenee
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CiaraPhx164 reads

Like you said, anyone can say they're so and so from TER. I prefer to speak to a provider directly about a gentleman.

Hugs,
Ciara

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bballs298 reads

What if they send you a TER PM from the TER id they've claimed?

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CiaraPhx437 reads

If they've been white listed by someone I am not familiar with then I'd still prefer to hear from the lady. She could have whitelisted them a long time ago, or -- perhaps -- she will tell me that someone is really kinky. Now . . .  not that the latter really matters, unless they want me to run over their backs with scissor shoes. ;)

Hugs,
Ciara

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keystonekid342 reads

are going to be intimate with.  Different ladies require different screening protocols.  Guys, if the lady is asking for information you just don't want to share, move on.  The lady's safety comes first.

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Sexybldbbwfl243 reads

So you know, if the screening process goes smooth then I am eager and excited to move things along. Sometimes you can say a little something too soon and it spooks us. Safety effects all of us. I love the PM feature on this site as it takes out some of the problems. And there are other places you can be prescreened at to move the process along. Be safe.

Debbie

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ChineseGuy417 reads

I don't mind going through the screen of the ladies. I know this is for her safety as it is to our also. I am always wary when giving out my TER handle. I like to stay anonymous when I write a review, either the review is good or bad. I still believe that TER is a place where you can be anonymous to write an unbias review without the fear of retribution from a provider that find the review to less to their liking.

To be unbias I know I have two whitelisting, but I got these after I saw the ladies which I enjoyed our time together and we a comfortable with each other.

Just my 2 cent!

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