So we both can agree that is was a guy who wrote the article...whom has never made a women orgasm through coitus...LLS
The clitoris actually is extended on the inside, but it is not the G-spot. Many state that it is. From personal exploration, it is not. The G-spot is less than half of an index finger deep. At the roof of the vagina. The internal clitoral wave is a little further up. For me it can only be stimulated if the outside is aroused...
Interesting indeed. I enjoy a good argument at times
Posted By: Fearghas
Yeah, I felt the article/author was a bit confused as to penetrative orgasms. On one hand, the statement that the clitoris is "the only spot that can give all women a real orgasm" does not necessarily preclude orgasm through penetration, just stating it's the only reliable means by which every woman may orgasm. Indeed, that is followed by "some women can climax through penetration or nipple stimulation."
OTOH, it is later asserted that "there is no way women in general can obtain orgasm through being penetrated." I suppose it could be said the "in general" leaves room for said "some women", but this seems like a broad general statement. The author does finally contradict themselves, saying "since women do not obtain orgasm through being penetrated..."
If you have orgasms through penetration, awesome! Enjoy them. All I can say for sure is that no two women are the same. Lol. I know many women can't orgasm that way. Well, "can't" is probably the wrong word. Let's say many women haven't. You are certainly not the only woman who says she does orgasm from penetration alone, so I agree, blanket statements should be avoided.
What's interesting is other literature I've read in which a few doctors have said the clitoris is a much larger organ than most people realize; a wishbone shaped structure which extends inside the vagina. Under this line of thinking, it has been asserted that the G spot is a part of the clitoris and therefore penetrative/G spot orgasms are, technically speaking, clitoral orgasms with a different "feel". (Not my theory, nobody jump all over me about this please.) The point is, if you cum from penetration, good for you.
FGM has many other negative effects, which I'm quite sure you know about better than I. Not to sound "intolerant", but I think some people have a very messed up way of defining preparation for womanhood. Frankly, I've always thought of it as barbaric and disgusting. It's done, at least in some cultures, as a means to stop women from enjoying sex so they won't cheat on their husbands. What a ludicrous example of insecurity.
As for sharing the same purpose in sex and desire for copulation being equal, I agree. Was hoping someone would pick up on that. Also don't like the statements that female resistance increases male arousal and all men are rapists. What a load of crap.
Often it's the things we disagree with that prove most interesting to read, discuss, etc.