I'm new to this board, so if this discussion has taken place before, I apologize, but why is it so hard to find a hot, young girl who'll provide both GFE and Dom services?  There seems to be a ton of new websites catering to that very interest and yet I've been unable to find a provider that fits all the criteria.

Not young, but Kelly of Ontario is a GFE Dom.  See my review.

I think it's because in general GFE and Dom are opposites.  GFE is usually the girl being submissive and cuddly, while dom is domme. It's difficult for many girls to move back and forth. You are either one or the other, or a great actor.

I'm a TS for those who don't know me.  So I often find myself in a GFE date where I have to be more domme and lead the way.  I think the reason most Dommes are older is because it's not something that's learned in a month.

The various levels of dominate behaviour reqire the experience to realize what it is your partner is really seeking and be able to provide the experience he desires.

And that's why you see a pro!  Now get on your knees and call your favorite providers and tell them what a bad boy you've been...

Giggle,
TS Jamie

My ex was kinda a DOM, although not in a physical sense.

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I actually had the opportunity to mix the GFE part with my Dom part.  It was fun, but it is necessary to be able to read the person to make sure it is the right mix.

I want to be bad, I really do.  I guess I should clarify.  I'm probably using GFE in the wrong sense.  The acronym does mean girlfriend experience (I think), but what I'm asking about is someone who'll provide the "girlfriend" services (DATY, DFK, BJ, CG, RCG and all those great acros we go to a provider for), while maintaining a dom attitude and behavior.  Like sensual domination, but where I don't have to go home when it's over and finish the job.

What area are you in   chopsr ?
-Layla

Jamie , in general it could be the case ..  "most' GFE  & Dom are opposite  but  not always .
I offer  Dom sessions along with GFE   but never  me as the Sub .  You are right ...you are either  one way or the other or one hell of an actress.
I've heard much about  being a "switch" . I tried that and it didnt set well with me . I prefer to take control vs being told what to do and  the other that goes along with   being a Sub .
Great Point !
Like  James says  now get on your knee and call someone who will tell you to come worship their pretty feet ....

Domination is an art form that requires maturity, experience & intelligence.  Usually “a hot, young girl” does not posses those traits yet.

Hi Layla,  I'm in Northern NJ.

Looks like it's time for more backpedaling from me.  You're right, Lizzie, age and especially intelligence are important traits for an effective dom.  So let me adjust from "hot, young girl" to "beautiful, intelligent woman".  Either way, it's still not easy to find someone who provides both traditional escort services with dominance.

Though, I'm seriously considering a trip to Myrtle Beach in the near future.

Chopsr , i visit NJ and  NYC a few times a year . I love it there .
I've been asked to come work at a few of the Dungeons in that area .. Great area !!

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I would consider myself an erotic domme, with all the trappings, although I would also be considered a JrMILF, at 35.  In my case, I do provider the traditonal GFE.  However, in the end, you have to beg

Yeah, you know, maybe I've been approaching it all wrong.  I've been looking for an "erotic dom" when I'd probably do much better to look for a "dominant escort".  I mean, I 'm not looking to get beaten and violated; just looking for someone a little bitchy and forbidden.  Kind of like venusgirls or romanvideo.  Tada!