For me it is all about the groove that we get being with one another. . . the flirting, the glances, the smell of being with you, the sound of your voice, thinking what the woman that is before me must be like in the bedroom. . .
I would like to hear from you: When do you prefer to ask those important questions that you really want to know about this person you’re going to be with. When you’re just getting to know each other before playtime, or later when you are up at the room in private – you know just the two of us?
I do indeed enjoy it.
It's one of the first steps on the journey that often leads to wonderful long term friendships, or perhaps not.
The specific steps vary with the individuals of course, and senses must be honed to determine the best time for whatever you have in mind.
If I have chosen her based on her reviews or her website or ad I already know everything I need to know for a start. Beyond that, if we are going to get into a groove it is going to be because she is comfortable with me and wants to share what is in her head. This happens very naturally with some ladies and not at all with others.
Every encounter is a little bit different. That's probably one of the major reasons most of us are here. We don't care for it when the ladies seem to be working from a script, and we shouldn't fall into the same situation. Within the first 20 minutes or so, both you and the lady will know what kind of connection there will be. Variety goes in both directions, and I'm sure the experiences are much better for the ladies as well, if we aren't all the same. I've seen the same lady several times, and each one has been totally different, obviously better, as we get to know one another a little more.