Let’s face it if you get busted you’re fucked. You’ll be arrested yeah you’ll get out will be in misdemeanor charge at minimum unless they try to say it was an under age, even though you didn’t ask for it then it a severe felony and you’re even more fucked. First to go would be your job as they will find out and you will be fired and told to get the fuck out do not come back. And good luck getting another job cause it now is on your record. Next thing you know your car gets repo. You get evicted from your apartment now you’re sleeping on the sidewalk and you know why. So what other steps can you take to prevent getting busted? I already know a couple. First, which is the big one never contact a provider first one you see on the list on a lot of these so call escort sites without checking the history of that girl and the phone number. Better yet only contact providers that’s been reviewed on this site.. Next  scenario, let’s say you’ve seen a provider a couple of times and you want to contact her again but there’s a problem she just got busted and now the police has her phone now and you just sent a message. Hey I wanna see you again. They replied yeah go ahead. I’m at this hotel you show up in the police are waiting for you. You realize something’s not right and you try to walk away and I seriously doubt the police are just gonna let you walk. They’re going to detain you and start asking a bunch of questions. Or use this scenario a provider you seen in the past gets busted and your phone number is in her call history. Can the police do something about that? Either scenario, the police may not be able to prove anything, but still you run the high risk of your job finding out what you’re doing and make you unemployed.

It should be pinned to the top of every board on TER.

Please, don't write a wall of words.  /Ignore.

At the start of all those American Greed episodes on CNBC, Stacy Keach explains how "He seemed like the Model Citizen, until his dark secrets caught up with him."
Or maybe you prefer a Dateline opening: "It was just another ordinary day in a peaceful suburb, and no one thought differently, but wickedness was coming to call."
Starting with an opening such as that might spice up an otherwise obtuse and pointless monologue.

Just see high end reputable providers. No need for a run on paragraph rant.

It's called "How to avoid police sting at all cost", but there's no actual advice given. Is this part of a series perhaps? Can we expect a second part where some techniques and advice is shared? Maybe post it in the Newbies section so the greenhorns can benefit from your sage wisdom? I'll be sure to keep an eye out.

which is:  get some legal advice.  And don't try to give it.

Well, the problem is a lot of guys don’t have that kind of money to burn at one time.

But bullet points too.

I didn't read the OP's post for the reasons others have stated.  However, some new posters (OP has only been posting since March 8, 2026 -- a few days ago) don't know how the TER forum editor is, kind of, broken.  
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Most people expect a two carriage returns  [CR][CR] to leave a blank line WHICH IT DOES NOT ON TER BOARDS. (I should add that a TER [CR] is actually a combination carriage return + line feed [CR][LF].) When typing a post in the editing window using only [CR][CR], it APPEARS to have a line break between paragraphs but, once posted, it does not.
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The two most common solutions to this problem are:  
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2. The method that I and several others use is to insert any character, e.g., a period . ,  to force insertion of a line with a single non-distracting character that is otherwise blank.
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The immediate line above this one is just "." and then emptiness = pseudo-blank line.
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NOTE: TER does not allow HTML characters so you can't use "less than"CR"greater than" as the normal symbol for [CR].
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I hope that helps.

totally unreadable and nearly incomprehensible! Nearly painful... Maybe try reading what you have written before posting it?

I think your heart is in the right place, but this is more of a rant than a “how to”. Reading it was also much harder than it needed to be. Please use more punctuation, and separate by paragraphs.  

And if we can’t discuss it here, on a forum specifically designed for clients to verify a p4p woman for both compatibility and legitimacy, where could we possibly discuss it?
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Newbies and vets alike desperately need that info. I’m quite sure I avoided a bust, or at least greatly lowered my risk of one, because of the info I gathered here on tis board and on the Newbie Board when I first started. I don’t think “trusting your gut” is good advice, as we are often swayed by non qualitative factors into poor decision making when doing so. People new or newer to this lifestyle simply don’t possess that ability yet. It isn’t innate for the most part, as  it’s learned over years.
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I have a process I go through where I vet the lady in question through reviews here (and elsewhere), researching the platforms she is on (p411, for example), contacting her reviewers, asking friends who may have seen her, viewing her online posts and social media, running her photos through online software, etc.  
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I didn’t come up with this on my own. I learned it from the many great people here over the years looking out for others best interests. It has served me very well and I thank them all, especially a few mentors that took me by the hand and led me thru the shark infested waters that existed, and still exists, in p4p.

Friend, I agree these discussions are very important! The difference is discussing it openly on a public forum. Sure.. let’s all give LE the cheat code on how we’re actively evading them! lol as if LE doesn’t also lurk and evolve based on the info they find.  

I agree that we should talk about how to avoid police and how to deal with them. I used to watch videos on how to deal with coos and it helped me avoid getting busted with some weed in college. However I don’t think OP’s post has a lot of useful data.
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These days, prostitution seems to be very low on the list of law enforcement priorities. In NYC the DA’s will not prosecute it, meaning it is de facto decriminalized. When there are busts they seem to be related to quality of life issues. If someone is running a brothel in a residential area and people/businesses complain, the cops are likely to bust it. In LI, they busted a prostitution ring run by a cop. My point is, busts or stings tend to focus on enterprises like brothels or agencies that draw too much attention to themselves.
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If you’re worried about cops then avoid agencies, massage parlors and brothels. These seem to draw the most attention from LE and they are very likely to be holding and collecting your data. Stick to well reviewed independent girls. Be discreet and don’t draw attention to yourself. Using a burner phone helps to a degree. That should keep you out of trouble.
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In the event you do run into police, just shut the fuck up. Do some research and watch some videos on how to deal with police. They’ll give you scripts on how to answer questions and move the conversation along. Cops are going to try to get you to answer questions by either threatening you or pretending to be your friend. Just shut the fuck up. You’re better off saying as little as possible. Don’t try to explain anything or make up any lies, for the most part just shut the fuck up. If they ask you why you’re in an area, just say it’s none of their business and you don’t have to answer their questions. Then shut the fuck up again. If you get arrested just shut the fuck up and let a lawyer handle it. If you say anything you’re likely to incriminate yourself or agree to a search. If you say nothing they have less evidence and your lawyer can get charges dropped.

This is useful. Not revelatory, but at least thoughtful and incisive.

Don't ever speak to the police. Some think they are slick and can talk their way out of it. Negative, Will Robinson. Just STFU and say nothing.
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The odds of a bust involving a well established, pristine rep Indy woman is very, very small. Probably well under 1%. To make it a bit less likely, and we are talking fractions here, do outcall to a mid level or higher hotel inside the boundaries of a larger city but even then, it will still only provide slightly more risk mitigation.
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That last idea is for the truly LE phobic but costs and other factors make that a non starter for many. Newbs with something to lose, see providers with many great reviews whose reviewers are very well established as well.  
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As added insurance, look for her to be on several other platforms like Tryst, p411, Slixa, etc while using a professional looking website. Scammers and LE just dont go to all that trouble to get you.

I’m gonna tell you right now your post was not necessary not everyone writes perfectly and has perfect grammar. Why are you more worried about my writing skills versus the topic of this thread?.

Horrible advice.  

I seen once a commercial pilot for a major airline was busted and his career was destroyed. I’ve seen another story. This guy wasn’t even trying to get an escort service. This was at the hotel at Denver Airport. An airline pilot with United. Someone claims he was standing at the window, butt naked.. Police come busting in his room and arrested him and tried to throw the book at him when reality he probably got a little too close to the window, wearing khaki shorts, similar color to his skin color and some leftoid lady with green hair freaked out and got this guy in a whole lot of trouble. This pilot was fired, but later was able to get his job back after spending a whole lot of time and money on lawyers, but this goes to show you how fast as men can get in trouble. All because some older lady that hate their life and can’t handle life cause no guy wants her no more.

Let's be honest. If you have no experience why post bs?  

I don’t think you realize when men are accused of a sex crime is a whole lot worse for us men versus when women is accused of a sex crime that’s just how it is. Also, I can tell you from personal experience back in 2015 when I was married to my wife she had severe emotional issues well one of my cousin that didn’t like her decide to send a very mean message to her and she came home and went into such a rage start destroying the place I had to physically restraint her. I called the police the police came, and because I had to put my hands on her restraining her I was arrested for domestic violence. I was put on 24 hour hold, but no charges for never filed. She did not press charges. 10 years later, I applied for a job at a school district thinking I should be good because there was never no charges filed let alone no convicted.When they did the background check, they found the arrest record and I was denied employment despite no charges ever filed.

It is a felony in Texas for the buyer even on a first offense. In many other states it is a felony for repeat offenders. Trafficking is a felony, as is under age, but I know you knew this.
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Again not directed at you QB but whether or not it is a felony or misdemeanor can be meaningless as just the arrest, even without a conviction, destroys many lives. Of course the felony conviction carries with it potential jail time so that is a massive difference.

I was held in jail for just one night once.  Mistaken identity.  They tried to make me a sissy.  I had to karate chop 6 Arian nation dudes, four Chicano gang members, 5 black guys holding mops and stuff.  And 3 guards.

Yes, it even worse it may still be a misdemeanor, but it might as well be a felony because that kind of charge against men. We are treated horribly by society..

Yeah, the ripple impact can obviously be worse for some. An escort who is face out and open about it to her family and friends might feel a misdemeanor isn’t a big deal. Whereas, one who wants that part of her life private from family, friends, civi job, etc… has more at risk.

How is LE getting the "cheat code" by us telling newbs how to do proper research to avoid LE? I am sorry but that logic doesn't follow at all.  
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No, these things MUST be discussed openly, and on a public forum, so people new to this lifestyle can find the information easily. That is one of the main reasons this place was invented.

I honestly LOL'd at that.

I would’ve used the name to Steven. Seagal would’ve been better..

Hate to tell you, but seasoned players and providers know how to handle themselves sufficient to mitigate LE involvement.

I myself have been victimized by an unwarranted & lie for a restraining order that cost me my guns. I had to surrender m guns to the LE for a very long time. I do have empathy. We all have our history.

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if you get busted. . . .  

Damn man, that sucks. And those school janitor jobs probably pay $2,000 a month or so where you live, right?
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Just an idea, there's lots of lawyers on these boards. Maybe leave the lawyering advice to them?

I was trying to help you with your TYPESETTING, not your writing. I said NOTHING about grammar, spelling, syntax, etc.. More people will READ your WRITING (regardless of minor errors) if it is more readably typeset.  
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A lot of new contributors don't know about the problem with carriage return / line feed in the TER forums interface. I though you might want to know the workarounds.

Lawyer,, That is all you say.  

…would never allow her number to be used to entrap a client(s)…easier to fight the charges, plus there is no ROI in arresting a provider and forcing her to trap clients

Just keeping to the level of accuracy of the reviews around here.

i saw a tv show once, may have been a law and order, where some dude was arrested and that was all he sauid

They can be "high end" without being expensive.  

If arrested you need to answer routine booking questions like name, address, etc. but that's it. Once you say you want an attorney you're invoking your "absolute right to counsel" and questioning stops at that point whether you actually get an attorney or not.  

This is true. $200-$300 ladies, street walkers, etc… come with more risk. But you don’t have to spend $800-$1k or more either.

For most normal people, having to have a retainer with several attorneys is a waste of money. How many years will you wait before you ask for the return of your retainer? If you're in the habit of getting arrested maybe it's a good idea. But to keep thousands of dollars of your money tied up in attorney escrow accounts is a bit ridiculous.  

This thread is about how to avoid getting arrested in the first place, other than completely quitting the hobbies altogether. Yes it’s just a misdemeanor in most cases, but here’s the biggest problem. Your job your livelihood your income all that goes away after an arrest. Society does not tolerate sex crime. Even a misdemeanor prostitution charge. Society will slam the book and crush you especially when older women are in charge. And more important a person like me don’t have thousands of dollars lying around to spend on a lawyer in an emergency. Especially knowing you’re gonna lose your income that’s the biggest problem in like I said in my earlier post yes you can very well wind up being homeless out the street sleeping on the sidewalk again. Society will not tolerate sex crime of any kind.

You're being a drama queen.  

In every state in the union, the employer can ask about convictions only, but many states don't allow it during the initial interview so maybe that is what you are saying.  
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As the interview process continues, they then can ask about convictions before offering you the job. Many states, however, do totally bar employers about asking about arrests that do not lead to a conviction.  
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In addition, an employer can run a background check on you but they need your consent to do so. That is federal law. But if you decline the check, the employer can then choose not to hire you based on your refusal.

You can be denied employment by just having an arrest record with no conviction. I know it’s happened to me like I mentioned in an earlier post in the same thread. I was denied employment at a school district. for domestic violence arrest, but was never charged. Just put on a 24 hour hold then released never had to answer to the court after.

They still have street walkers???

Of course.

And they are cheap and don’t mess around. You pay for a blowie, they will have your dick out in seconds and will get hella mad if you last too long. You pay to fuck, your dick will be out just as fast. And don’t expect anything other than a condom before they are riding you in your car seat. And, like the blowie, you best not last too long.

Effective 12/1/24 it is now a Felony for 1st time offenders. After the law went into effect there was a lot of chatter on several different forums.  To the best of my knowledge, there have been no stings in Charlotte or Raleigh NC once the law was in effect.

did they state why?

What makes $200-$300 ladies more risky than “high end” ladies?  Are you referring to ladies working for an agency? Otherwise, what difference would there be with an indy $200-$300 girl vs indy high end girl?  Either of those girls can and often do have boyfriend pimps.  So just because you see a higher priced lady doesnt mean she wont have a man around the corner or in a nearby hotel room etc.  

Thats not true at all if your talking about $300 an hour girls.  You book an hour and they give you an hour, and a lot of those ladies are GFE.  Either partial gfe with daty and some level of kissing or even full gfe with bbbj dfk even cim etc.  a lot of asian and latina providers are at the $250+ range who provide a full gfe

You glazed over an important detail. This is not about their rates. This is about them being street walkers that essentially give you a car date. You’re not paying for their time, so there is no promise of an hour. You’re paying for a service. They will typically quote you rates for a blowjob, fucking, maybe even a handjob.

If you find a good indy lady at that rate, there is no greater risk. But the average $200-$300 lady is not an indy lady. She’s more often one of two things. An agency lady who is dealing in high volume, and part of a larger racket with many other ladies. These are mostly international ladies. Obviously, a bust of a huge racket is way more attractive for law enforcement.

Hi Goddess,

i am sure mr fisher has advice on how to avoid stings and deal with brutes if you are locked up!

and beaten each rap, to boot, most often representing my self.

unlicensed lawyer here and know what to say in any situation when questioned by LE.