This is primarily to the ladies. If there was a review and backchanneling indicating that you had provided FSBB, would you want someone to alert you. I would assume you would, and I'm feeling a need to alert someone, but I've stepped in it before, so would like some advice.

I suggest you keep this back channel. I don't want to see you moderated.

I think it is pretty common knowledge some providers do fsbb it is just not written about and discussed on the boards.
Are you saying you want to ask the lady in question if its true? pm her Do you think its someone writing a phony review? Let your conscious be your guide.
Me personally imho would leave it alone and if she see's the review and disagrees with it can do a problem report  

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I'm not trying to develop a discussion on the topic. Just would think she might want to know. But, like you said, perhaps this is something she provides and does not need the alert.

then she NEEDS no alert either. You should shut up either way.

1: Most ladies read their own reviews. Big girls know how to handle their own affairs.
2: The only time you know for sure what is happening in a room between two consenting adults is when YOU are one of them.

TER will reward you for notifying about reviews that mention bbfs. They jeopordize providers who may not do that, but review says they do.

Well, if the information is being spread via backchannel, then she may not be aware that the information is being passed, and so an alert certainly would be appropriate.

If the information is contained in a review however, it is quite likely she will happen upon it on her own, and thus an alert may not be necessary. It should also be noted that, that there are actually ladies who are not aware of TER (unimaginable!) and so it is actually possible that she might not be aware of it.

I recently discovered the existence of about a dozen reviews about me on other sites, the eariest dating back over a year ago. I had no idea they were there. Fortunately they were positive, so no big deal. But if someone had made a claim about a service I do not provide on one of these other sites, I would have been blissfully unaware all this time.

My advice then, go ahead and send her a helpful FYI e-mail pointing her in the right direction, and then leave it up to her how she wants to handle it.

I would pm her and give her the basic details.  You've done your part if it is untrue.  It is then on her to do what she wants with the information.

Kari~~

This question is specifically to providers, I know.  We've heard that before somewhere.  

This is not a question about why you should or should not, or for hobbiest to justify why they do or don't ask. You're just looking for the words that actually come out of the hobbiest's mouth.

I know, I know.

You're not fishing for lines that work.  Or causing trouble for trouble sake.  You just want to narc out somebody.  

I think that's swell.

I can't help but wonder how many PM's you recieved from gents hoping to get the lady's name on the quiet

The main thing is for you to cross her off your list!

I know it happens a lot more than admitted, and I've heard of more than one provider do fairly aggressive camel slides bare back-  I would definitely stay away from one with a possibility of bbfs-  any genital contact with her, even minor camel slides puts you at risk of herpes, if not more.

I guess I'm a white knight...  I would PM the provider a FYI & put a link to the review.  Done, walk away...  she can get it fixed or not.

I would wanna know if someone said that about me considering the fact that I do NO ONE BB!

Also if its true that this girl DID do BBFS I would still wanna know because I am not seeing anyone who saw her!

I was getting back into doing porn and had agreed to do it with liquid condom and after researching found out that it doesn't protect so well against anything but pregnancy and HIV. I canceled my shoot and haven't gotten a call since. But I could care less. There are just some standards that are not worth lowing in my opinion and doing someone BB even with the liquid condom is one of them.

I do offer use of the female condoms and even provider them at a low cost if you want to use them. Its the closest thing you can get to BB without actually doing it. And its the closest thing to BB your ever gonna get from me period like it or not!

-- Modified on 3/3/2008 3:42:36 AM

horse #2 let's drag it in and Beeeeeat that hoooorse (dr. cox from scrubs voice)