I just noticed an ad on CL for a provider that offered a 2 hour session and at the end she said she does not offer GFE.

I know I can't, but how many guys out there can last 2 hours without the breaks and the recovery coming about from kissing and other things a GFE gives?

I guess I look at a FS as more like a wham bam thank you ma'am type thing and GFE as having a lover for the time you spend with her.

My wonderment was if she does not offer GFE, is 2 hours too long for FS?

Without seeing the provider (she is not going to tell you upfront what she is willing to do), there is absolutely no way of knowing what services she will and will not provide. By declaring that she is not a GFE, perhaps she only provides a covered BJ, or she will not do anal, or no DATY, or will only light French kiss, or will only fuck you in one position. Who knows? She may in fact be perfectly willing to have multiple pops with you and engage in intelligent conversation as you recover. You prob. are not going to be required to stay hard and fuck her for two hours straight.

Do not read too much into it. Even if she says she is not a GFE, do not assume that you will walk into the room, have no conversation, be asked to strip immediately, have the cover placed on your cock, have her blow you for 30 lousy seconds, climb on you CG, have you cum in two minutes, not offer to clean you up, and then go play on her computer or talk on the phone and completely ignore you as you recover for round two.  

GFE is such an amorphous term that no one really knows what it is. Hobbyists define it individually; they know when they have a session that would equate to a real girlfriend. Even if the provider says she is a GFE, you may still have a lousy session as her definition of a GFE may be vastly different than yours.

Personally, I don’t see ladies who say upfront they are not GFE's (I imagine a lady with a horrible attitude and who doesn’t want to be there) and rarely do I consider Craig's List ladies (most likely not as professional and classy as the TER providers). But to each his own. If you really want to see this provider, (she is your perfect body type) then by all means go ahead. Do not let her statement deter you, but you may be disappointed in the end.


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I'm a one pop guy anyway so unless the gal is a full GFE with DATY allowed (and enjoyed), a reasonable gift for conversation and a love of snuggling I'm not gonna book two hours. Truthfully, I'm probably not gonna book at all. I'd rather book time with an FBSM gal than bother with a non GFE provider.

A CL girl who says she offers GFE is still a risky proposition in it's own right. Most of them have no idea what the term even means. But a CL girl who comes right out and says she doesn't offer is probably one you shouldn't even consider spending time with, never mind booking 2 hours with her!

Definitely wasn't worth it.  She did not want to be touched- wanted to get me off with as little contact to her as possible.  

That is what I'd be afraid one that advertises no gfe would be like.

But by that she meant to say, no kissing at all; which is OK with me because she more than makes up for it with great massage, cuddling, oral skills and uninhibited screwing.  

Even after the act we snuggle and talk about all manner of subjects.

Ironically, she's more gfe than many providers who claim to be great gfe.

Bottom line:  You never know for sure.

A while back I saw a provider (without reviews, so I TOFTT) who told me when I got there that she does not do GFE.  She added that she considered it "totally gross" to kiss some strange man and to perform oral without a cover on a guy she just met.  Needless to say, after telling me in essence that she was disgusted by the thought of having sex with a stranger, the encounter was less than satisfying.  Oh well, live and learn.

I'm a one pop guy also so two hours is usually out for me. One hour and I am done, showered, saying goodbye to my friends and gone.

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Full service simply indicates that you get more than the standard bbbj. You get the whole thing. The two hour deal has nothing to do with kissing. You can drink, talk, soak in a jacuzzi, eat a meal together etc. for the 2 hours time. For me, gfe constitues kissing and bbbj being done and done well.  In addition it means treating a client as a boyfriend with flirting, joking, show and tell etc.

The term gfe is different for everyone so I suppose it can be whatever you consider it as in your situation.

Yes, my imagination of FS is of a wet fish, mentally counting her money until you are done.  What I condensendingly call the "Tijuana experience..."  

Whereas GFE is a more sensual, emotional experience.  Some girls just are not able to separate and get into the "role" of GFE.  Maybe it's easier for me because I'm trans, or because I'm a child of the  70's where the motto was "love the one you are with..."

I can get into the passion almost immediately.  When I'm with a man, he is the only guy in my life, for that time.  I can instantly give myself over to an expression of true "love" with the resulting emotion and passion.

And when our time is over I am able to return to my own reality.  I think that's an ability that makes the difference between a provider who can remain in this hobby long term and those who are scared byt eh experience.

Anyway, not sure I make a clear point, but hope it helps.

Hugs,
TS Jamie

Gfe could clearly mean just " no kissing"