I was recently offered full service bare back for addtional money! I thought she was crazy and a high risk taker, it sort of ruined the rest of the session for me, I couldn't trust her. Is this not a good way to spread STD's good lord. Please tell me you guys are not practicing this risky behaiver, does this really happen, what do you do? Im I overreacting?

including some great comments by Staff at the link below.

slip that big boy back in your pants and run for your life.

Your not overreacting

Kisses Haley

responsibility to hobby safely - to yourself and all who love you.  Does this in fact, happen?  My guess is yes - and that is based upon many many many observatioins.  Should it happen between a provider and hobbiest?  NO, never.

Why?  because odds are - if she offers it once... she has offered it before.  last time I did bareback was in my 10 yr marriage... and if you go back beyond that it was in the early '70's!  prior to AIDs... but even then we had Herpes... and MDR STDs... so it was not even a good idea back them.

Overracting... would it ruin the rest of my session...???  There probably wouldn't be any "rest of the session" for me.

What if the condom breaks during intercourse, do you keep going or start fresh?

You would not believe the number of guys who ask for BB. I am always shocked. I say to them "why would you ask me that. You know I don't do that". And every time they say "because I trust you."
They just don't get it when I say "if I say yes to you why would you think that I didn't say yes to everyone else?"  Then they give me some line about how they know that they can trust me because we are so close. My head is spinning because I've know them maybe a total of 45 minutes and they are sure we are soul mates.

Or any other comprehensive STD screening ! Anybody that desperate, indifferent, or money focused probably couldn't care less what happens to herself or her clients...

perhaps....

but it does surprise me as well that some would think this... and even if they were "the only one" with you, what guarantee would you have that you would be OK?  none!  

Fortunately I've GREAT provider friends... (you among them) who keep me grounded in reality.  

I've read your posts of the past couple of days, and have been amazed at great advice and insight you've provided. Some of it has made me reflect on my own life... and for that dear lady I thank you.

I've had BB sex with two providers in the last 10 years - neither on purpose.  One woman,all on her own, simply mounted me and slipped it in unexpectedly.  I thought it was just more playing and she would put the cover on first.  What was done was done and the shock etc made me cum real fast and that was that.  But then there was the initial three weeks of worrying if any of the common VDs were gonna pop up THEN six months of worry till I had my next physical.  NOT worth it.

The other time was with a provider who really got into things and we DID use a cover.  Unfortunately after the finale of doggie style slam fucking to the finish, when I withdrew, I was bare!  The damn condom had worked off in combat!  It was recovered uneventfully and the lady and I had a discussion about things which put both of us at ease.  She had just recovered from a long term illness that included some surgery and had been thorougly tested etc in the process.  I knew I was OK from regular physicals.  

BJS... absolutely.  But NO... fucking bare is not EVER a good idea in the hobby.

mvr

I had a great BBgreek session with a hot lady in Chicago.  Went back for more and also BBFS.  There was also a girl in Indiana who was giving me bbbj and then jumped on with no warning or no cover.  I was already close to blowing so I figured it was too late anyway and finished inside her.  And there was a petite spinner in Chicago who rode CG BB, it felt fantastic.  Don't forget the 19 y/o in Northern Illinois, we were messing around in bed for our first time, about to do FS and she asked if I needed a condom, I said I'm clean, how about you?  She said she was as well so we went at it BBFS.  This was in the last 3 years.  It's been at least a year since any BB.  Tested completely clean 6 months ago, and have never had any kind of "untestable" breakout such as herpes or warts.  Keep riding that baloney pony, guys!  And keep lying to yourself that you never have!

It is not worth the stress. Wondering if your number is up.

And the same goes for clients who ask for BB too.

Sorry for the alias, but after you read the poste you'll understand....

I was with a provider once who, in the heat of the moment, let me do BB.  It was the craziest night of sex in my life - we're talking BB everything, in the shower, on the bed, on the floor.....you get the idea.  It was what I imagined Dionysus would do when he wanted to relax.  At the end of the evening, she told me she's safe and since I'm married I should have nothing to worry about.

While I had the best evening of sex in my life, the repercussions were terrible.  I felt so special at the time, like I had earned her trust and was truly the only one she had offered this too.  Then reality kicked me in the head and I realized that I was certainly not the only one.

I went to the doctor to get tested the next day and the NP told me that I would have to wait about 6 weeks because any STDs take time to set up shop in your body.

I went back, got tested, and everything came out fine, but the 6 weeks I had to wait was absolute torture.  I was afraid to go near my wife, and every pimple, sniffle or blemish that appeared on my body during that time made me seriously concerned.

I'm never going to put myself in that position again, and the reward was not worth the risk at all.

Personally if I'm watching a porn movie and an umbrella goes on...NEXTTTTTT!! In my opinion, that's a turn off. Which leads me to my next staement:

I asked my ATF on my most recent visit for FSBB and showed her my blood test paperwork showing I did not have any of the "3 H's" (Herp/HIV/Hep). She declined because there's always pregnancy...but I think that was just her "out"- I mean, maybe she wasn't on the pill, but shouldn't all providers be? Especially with accidental breakage of the umbrella and all...

It's all good, she's still my ATF. I just wanted to see how much wiggle room I had.

Happy hobbying all!

right on buddy im with you, i got bbfs from 2 of the hottest trannys i have ever seen in my life, got it from the mature lil redhead who was visiting from the midwest, the thick blonde off the chat line, and 2 of my "girls" i keep for whenever i need a cheap lil pick me up, oh and the other lil hatian girl from the chatcline, all in the last 2 years and all cip... mmmmmm creampie.

I have not had the opertunity for a provider to offer it to me or just jump on me. Maybe one day it will happen and depending on the provider if I know she is clean, it can happen. I just dont know