Every man determines how he will cum with a prostate massage, depending on his own sexual evolution. Will he ejaculate? Will he not? He determines this inside his own mind. Some men like a prostate massage as an added stimulation, (while recieving oral on thier penis and balls.) Others may practice tantric sex and be on a higher metaphysical level. Others do it because... well, EACH man is different and in a different stage of their sexual development. Prostrate massage is enjoyed for a variety or reasons, and each man has his own reason for doing it.
In general, I find most men who want ultimate stimulation will enjoy all their sensitive areas massaged at the same time: Oral or touching on penis and balls at same time, some want nipple stimulation, and then activity around the asshole, could be kissing it, or vibrator or finger. Most men who request prostate massage, are men who have read alot and have accepted their bodies and faced any taboos. The kind of man who will cum from a prostate massage without ejaculating, is one who has done their share of keegals, or has tapped into tantra sex, or is very sexually advanced, or on a spiritual level (closing their eyes and letting their body have full control over the mind or any fear).
So this is my info, based on my own experience with giving prostate massage, and hearing my lovers explain things to me. I'd guess that 2 out of 30 men would cum without ejaculation. And Ive not seen many who cum without ejaculation, doing it several times in a row.
I once had a boyfriend who sometimes chose to orgasm without ejaculation, and when he did this kind of orgasm, he couldnt hear or see anything for about 5 minutes. I had to call his name, over and over, for 5 minutes before he came back to reality. Im not sure where he went off to... but it was certainly on a higher spiritual level, where i knew he had totally embraced his sexuality and body, leaving any moral taboo behind or expectation of what the body can or cannot do... he just let his animal instinct rule him and his body and soul followed, giving him a magnificent orgasm that was out of this world!
I wish all men this kind of orgasm, this is an ultimate discovery of your body and soul, however the selfish side of me, just really loves to see cum spurting out, in my mouth, face, wherever.. its just so sexy to me!


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there are few ways to give a man "dry" orgasms

I am experimenting with new things, to give some of my clients the ultimate orgasmic session.

I offer prostate stimulation (not massage) combined with some of my own techniques.

I've been reading couple of very old books a client of mine brought me from Europe, about speeding and delaying orgasms using pressure points.

I am a novice on this kind of skills, still learning the proper points, but I can assure you it works.

So far, I had three clients this week who were the perfect candidates for my "tease & delay" sessions, which I combined with prostate play.

I was able to bring them to the edge few times, with all the spasms of ejaculation, with cum coming all the way up to the tip of their heads and then make it stop...reversing the orgasm, using only my thumb with the right pressure in a certain spot.

Is a very powerful feeling and been able to control is almost painful, but at the end, the release is VERY intense.

I have to say is not something I can do with every client I see, because I need a man who is very receptive & sensitive, totally in tune with what I am doing to him.


-- Modified on 12/26/2007 8:23:00 PM

Saying prostate massage can make you com more than once, is like saying getting new sneakers can help you run a marathon.  While the sneakers might help, they are a small part of a whole training program.


What you are looking for is Tantra.  

Tantric training can teach you to have multiple orgasms, and prostate massage can be part of that training.  

Don't just go for any person who uses Tantra as a buzzword on their site.  You want someone who does the real thing.  I recommend Bast out of San Francisco, or Chandra Devi, if she ever comes out of retirement.

Check out the Goddess Temple web site.  Most (but not all) of the women there are the real deal.

"Without Going Out Of Your Door, You Can Know Your Way

to heaven" Cindy Spice in SinCity has wealth of knowledge on this subject and she is an excellent practitioner of this rare art.
Omm.

-- Modified on 12/27/2007 3:18:24 PM