It is my amazing skills BCD.

I am talking..."Holy Fuck this escalade is one of a fucking kind amazing at sex"

It is never the same answer, but a variety of things will make me look forward to seeing certain guys again. Yes, the money of course, but those who give a little extra, are nicely dressed, perfect hygiene,  take me to dinner, don't overstay unless I say it's ok, don't yack about dumb shit or put down their wives and other providers, good at kissing and daty, are not trying to abuse me or the system, etc.  

This especially holds for dinner dates (paid)...which I LOVE. I have to enjoy both the person's company, and the activity we do. Doesn't have to be expensive. I watched a movie with one client, and that was actually a really great date.  

Sorry guys, it's not the sex!! I've had clients who are great in bed, but that's just kind of the creme filling in the donut (to extend the metaphor, I like donuts, but don't eat them if I have other choices). I prefer sex in circumstances where I'm not under so much pressure to humor the other party...and with someone I know well, like an SO. Not to say that I can't enjoy it with a client, just that it's not my preference, with money taken out of the equation.

I dunno, good sex is...

Y'all said it right about the money but I definitely still factor in good sex. I had a guy whose DATY was just plain offensive but he tipped well and another who fucked like a maniac & together we fucked like champions. Although he never tipped me, he began to book multi-hours after our first 2 sessions. Would it be surprising to say that I would rather book the latter guy over the former? That's just me!...

and I only have 10, but out of those 10, I have only seen one of them once. The rest I have seen multiple times, and would continue to see them multiple times more. I am fortunate in that we can click really well during the communication phase, so that when I meet my friend, we connect really well in person too.

Of course, there are the gents I have seen who haven't reviewed me, and about the same percentage of those are gents I have seen multiple times.  

I really believe that my website/advertising/whatever attracts men with whom I am going to be perfectly compatible in most cases. It's hard to say what they all have in common. They are all just wonderful, dear men who are compassionate, considerate, and complete gentlemen.

I've heard it was like this "the first date because you seemed nice and not an asshat the second because you showed respect and I enjoy you're company. Hate to sound like a mangina but I love repeats, the awkwardness is gone. I honestly try to be the guy that when she gets up the morning of out date she's happy thinking "I get to see Case today" so far it's worked for me. Never been turned down for a second date, and have scored a fair share of OTC time.  The secret formula is definatly not looks or amazing skills, I don't think I have either. But not being an asshat, respecting her as a woman not a rental, respecting her time, not portraying stalker tendencies and being fun. If ya show up acting suspicious and untrusting it will put a damper on the whole thing. Also don't let you're nerves get ya, remember to be yourself unless the real you is a douchebag then be somebody else. Don't try and be a pornstar or Hugh Hefner just be a friendly genuine person and you'll have a bunch of really awesomely hot friends in no time.

Love hearing others thoughts on the biz. As for me, I am with tg_baby and you could say a smidge of FBSM too. When I get a guy that I like for all the reasons already mentioned, I will go out of my way to make him feel very special because I want to keep good clients.