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Re: FOMO
Hugh_Jorgan6969 30 Reviews 2350 reads
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I see soo many hobbyists reviews with multiple rounds. I've always been a one round guy and wondered how long guys go before the first pop. I'll generally fuck for 45-55 minutes and that doesn't leave any refractory time. Do I need to learn to finish in 15 minutes? Even then, it would be 20 minutes into the hour, a little rest and starting up again with only 20 or so minutes left would seem kind of rushed. I'm very curious to hear the benefits of finishing twice with a rest period versus 50 minutes of fucking with one huge finish. Thanks in advance guys!!

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 86 reads
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2 / 37

I’m not sure why you would assume everyone books an hour. Women can help reply as well. I like your post. The question 🙋🏽‍♀️ I want to know is how many men who book 1 hour dates, or 90 minutes assuming your goal is to pop multiple time are under the influence of any performance enhancing anything to help besides eating your wheaties?  

FlaNoName 77 reads
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3 / 37

I didn't infer from his post that he thinks everyone books for just an hour.  I think he was using an arbitrary timeframe which is what he typically books.   Your question is basically the same as a recent post of yours.  So instead of hijacking this thread by altering the dynamic of his question, let's stay on track and you can regurgitate your previous post regarding enhancers.

When I was younger, I could go multiple rounds in an hour.  Now that I am older, like you, can last most of the hour and am satisfied.  My refractory time is also usually longer so I would need to book greater than an hour for that to occur.  And even when I am able to perform again, I'm not guaranteed of another orgasm and if I do, it could take a very long time to occur. I sometimes book for a longer session but for multiple reasons, not just to get off a second time.  I find myself completely satisfied with the hour and an enjoyable orgasm. (without enhancers)

hehitshewins 70 reads
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4 / 37

A guy who can pop multiple times is a lot less likely to use performance enhancing drugs. It’s guys who struggle to pop once, who maybe only pop once but very quickly, or who simply struggle to keep it up. You’ve brought the topic of performance enhancing drugs up before. Methinks you’re not really aware of why guys would use them and what types of guys they are.

Hugh_Jorgan6969 30 Reviews 79 reads
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5 / 37

Queen, I've know quite a few providers who have told me about some clients who can go 3 times in an hour. I just never understood how pleasurable it would be because even in my twenties it wasn't something I could do. For whatever reason I've always had stamina and could edge myself for hours. The times that I didn't edge and actually came, it wasn't as nearly as fulfilling. The one orgasm I had at the end of a marathon session kept me satisfied for 24 to 48 hours.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 78 reads
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6 / 37

I’ve never had anyone achieve 3 times in 1 hour that’s absolutely insane. Is that their goal? Pound town idk everyone had different objectives. Thanks for sharing. I thought 4 times on an overnight was a bit much, but makes sure to be prepared. I appreciate your candor.

If everyone had that much stamina touring would be impossible. 😆

doccrox 17 Reviews 83 reads
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7 / 37

As I've gotten older, my body has gotten less predictable in that regard.  Sometimes I can pop thrice in an hour - other times I might not actually pop at all during a session - and it has nothing to do with the provider's performance generally speaking since I only really see known good ladies these days.

Wildly, it doesn't bother me at all if I don't 'arrive' during a session.  With the right person, the journey is so much more important than the destination.  If I was in full control of it, 2 pops over 90 minutes would be the ideal spread.  (90 minutes also is kind of my minimum time to spend with a quality companion)

netnoy 80 Reviews 85 reads
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8 / 37

I'm either blessed or cursed with only needing a few min between rounds.  However, my sex drive does not always support a third round.  

I did date a nympho, or at least close to it, who was mad I didn't want a sixth round in a day.  At that point I had already popped a pill and was just worn out.

EdwardMuybridge 86 reads
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9 / 37

I hope this thread gets some traction because I am trying to figure this out myself. I have the opposite problem. My first pop comes faster than I would like and the second pop can take a while and might never come but usually it will. I do not use pills.  

My best ones have gone two directions. Either the provider is a trooper and goes over the top to get the second one out, or the focus shifts to me worshipping her. Both can be good but I would rather have a seamless and 100% reliable two pops.  

The good news is that I am pretty sure the best way to find the right balance is to do a shit ton of one hour or more fuck fests.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 76 reads
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10 / 37

Who cares what the others are saying. I suspect some are just talking shit like some do in reviews about how they got the girl to cum multiple times.  

 
So much here depends on you're own body and libido. If you're leaving happy and not feeling the urge for sex again as you're leaving the session I'd say cumming later in the session is much more fun than rushing to try to get a second in. But again, it's about you and not what others are doing.

brownjack 70 reads
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11 / 37

Is this an example of FOMO?

 
Whether one shot, two shots or a hundred shots, if you're leaving happy, mission accomplished.  Don't measure your satisfaction using someone else's yardstick.

netnoy 80 Reviews 92 reads
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12 / 37

This is actually part of your refractory.  Same with me, I can get hard for round 2 quickly, but may not be able to pop very fast.  What I've found helps is really mental.  Don't concentrate on cumming.  Concentrate on just enjoying the sex and whatever naturally makes you cum.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 77 reads
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13 / 37

It's more of a "comparison Is a thief of joy" type of thing, at least what you're describing.  

 
FOMO typically implies there's some time or capacity limitation to do/experience something; hence the "fear of missing out"

cornerrack 3 Reviews 63 reads
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14 / 37

Painful. That 3rd pop you will feel deep in your gut a pain that kind of reminds you of WTF is that going on inside me. 2 pops in one session is fine and all, but wouldn't you rather go just alittle slower and make it day of it?

Mdulce77 21 Reviews 71 reads
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15 / 37

Like all things there is a continuum of human experience on the subject. I personally am on the higher end of sex drive spectrum so getting two pops out of me in one hour is pretty easy. I have been able to do three. The first one is usually relatively quick, but I don’t go more than 10-15 minutes of actual penetration anyway. When I first started the hobby I was in my 30s now I’m in my 40s and require more refractory time.  My record has been four pops in two hours, and eight pops in a day, but that was with two different women. I tell girls one pop is never enough two pops is sometimes enough three pops is often enough and four pops as always enough. Somebody mentioned a nympho above—do you have contact info?😋

Readytorock1 43 Reviews 59 reads
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16 / 37

I can bust 5 in the hour with the right gal.

brownjack 78 reads
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17 / 37

When the OP asks, "Do I need to learn to finish in 15 minutes?", it sounds like he's concerned that his history of endurance is resulting in a loss of enhanced experience.  iow - It sounds like he's expressing concern (fear?) that he may be "missing out" by taking longer than 15 minutes to finish.  FOMO.

Hugh_Jorgan6969 30 Reviews 68 reads
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18 / 37

Yeah, I'm wondering if it can be better than it already is. Looking for someone who's experienced both types of experiences. I've only done marathon sessions

ClaireLaCrosse See my TER Reviews 83 reads
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19 / 37

I think you would need to completely rewire your sexual response cycle to change what you’re doing. You would need different thresholds, different triggers, and different responses to stimuli. This might not be possible … and in the process of trying, it might interfere with what you’ve been doing, and enjoying tremendously, for your entire adult life.

I haven’t been able to figure out a way to describe what’s different about the pacing of a session with multiple rounds without sounding like one structure is better or preferable, and without generalizing inappropriately about all the reasons a man’s sexual response cycle might with one way or another. But I will say all of my dates leave happy and satisfied … and so do I.

Basically, let go of the FOMO. If it ain’t broke, don’t try to fix it … you might not like the fix and you might break what youve got.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 74 reads
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20 / 37

I've done both. I don't think there's is a big difference at all. Even if you go bare and then use your own round 1 leftovers as lube or whatever, I don't think there is a significant difference for pleasure. But then it's just my opinion. If you go several rounds you have to deal with refractory periods too while on ebig "marathon" as you put it you probably max out your sex time, if that is important (for me it kinda is)  

 

A lot of people would probably be envious of you being able to last a long time, so grass might not be greener on the other side.

nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 74 reads
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21 / 37

a top $$$ UTR  lady in vegas told me 90% of her 1hr to 2 hr rooms calls were ====  28 seconds of fun, followed by 20 minutes of snoring and then 40 minutes of apologizing.  

hehitshewins 84 reads
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22 / 37

Sounds like she exaggerated just a little bit. I know many men pop a bit too quickly. But 28 seconds lol.

nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 66 reads
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23 / 37

she had amazing 800CC implants (that's like a FF for those of you unfamiliar with implants) and big blonde hair ...  she would slowly unbutton her blouse in the room said some guys literally popped from just that ... or convince them to pop on her chest ...  she could go  dozens of appointments without having to take off her panties.      men can be so easily ....man-ipulated  lol

netnoy 80 Reviews 80 reads
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24 / 37

I must have driven her crazy when I lasted 29 seconds!!!!

TiannaTemptation See my TER Reviews 59 reads
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25 / 37

I don’t care how many times you actually pop, but goodness it is a treat when you can fuck a while. I do love oral and all sex is good sex so I’m not complaining but I do love a session where I  can get fucked to orgasm multiple times.   If that consists of a few rounds, great. If it’s non-stop action, also great.

hehitshewins 68 reads
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EdrienneCole See my TER Reviews 73 reads
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MasterZen 34 Reviews 89 reads
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28 / 37

The average guy who lasts 5 to 10 minutes and has a 30 minute refractory period can achieve two "pops" in an hour. He doesn't have any experience with lasting a lot longer and cannot tell you what the difference between the two experiences might be.

 
IMO, comparisons like this are useless. Just enjoy your time in your own way, and let others enjoy in their own ways. There is no competition.

AaliyahATL See my TER Reviews 85 reads
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29 / 37

Not worry about what the next person is doing and allow yourself to fully enjoy the moment. Everyone is different and have different desires, so no two experiences are the same. The only people that matter are yourself and who you are with. If you would like to enjoy multiple rounds, try booking for 90 mins or longer to give yourself enough time to indulge at an enriched pace.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 66 reads
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30 / 37

As a guy who can last quite a while it's nice to know that some ladies are good with that!

hehitshewins 66 reads
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31 / 37

I last long but can rarely achieve a second pop. Biggest issue for me is my dick feels a little tender after a long fuck. It needs some rejuvenating time. I can imagine I wouldn’t have this issue if I popped in 5-10 minutes.

Hugh_Jorgan6969 30 Reviews 79 reads
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32 / 37

Yeah, I'm starting to understand that. I should have known years ago. It took me almost 2 hours to pop when I lost my virginity

Aiza See my TER Reviews 110 reads
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33 / 37

Exactly—it really comes down to quality over quantity.
From time to time, some guys ask me how many “pops” they can have in a session. I simply smile and tell them: as many as they want. It’s never about counting—it’s about enjoying the moment and letting things unfold naturally.

Posted By: 36363jensen
Re: What make YOU happy?
Who cares what the others are saying. I suspect some are just talking shit like some do in reviews about how they got the girl to cum multiple times.  
   
   
 So much here depends on you're own body and libido. If you're leaving happy and not feeling the urge for sex again as you're leaving the session I'd say cumming later in the session is much more fun than rushing to try to get a second in. But again, it's about you and not what others are doing.

Hugh_Jorgan6969 30 Reviews 74 reads
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Aiza See my TER Reviews 95 reads
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35 / 37

Aww! See you in February, trouble! 🤭⚡️

Posted By: Hugh_Jorgan6969
Re: Aiza, one with you is worth a dozen EOM

Readytorock1 43 Reviews 79 reads
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37 / 37

I like to get the first one out in about 15 min, gives enough time to really enjoy the 2nd. The 3rd is always going to be a rush job.

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