Okay... First let me say thank you to all you wonderful ladies who do in fact respond to appointment requests in a timely manner.  You will be rewarded with my business.  

Maybe you aren't submitting all of the required screening information on the first request, so they don't even bother replying.

we cannot tell what you getting is normal or not..

Thank you... I pretty much use p411 exclusively and always include a nice note with my request.  I have double digit okays by some very reputable providers.  I am not going to run to Gina and complain, it is just not worth it.  As I said, I just exclude those ladies from showing in my search results.  If they are that bad at managing their business, then we probably will not be compatible.  Just needed to vent...

Sometimes it takes time to get back to an email.
Next time. If you are nice. She may give you a number that is way more reliable.
If you pass her screening.  

You could try contacting her another way. For example via phone (if available), PM on this site (if she has reviews linked) or a direct email to her email address rather than a request on p411. If the lady doesn't reply to that, then at least you tried and know that you two won't be compatible.  

Oh my! Well, I suppose something must have happened to really tick you off!  I can understand if you are really looking to book a date with someone and they dont respond right away, it can be off putting.  But its good to at least give a lady a chance rather than DNS and block her if she doesnt respond within 24 hours!

Ooh I just saw this, and would have to agree.  If a lady doesnt respond to you within the time you require, then already you are upset, and its true that odds are you wont be compatible.  

It sounds like you've been contacting them through P411's "Request an Appointment" form.  I find that sometimes girls don't check in at P411 that often, so perhaps you'd be wise to check her ad or web site to see what her preferred means of contact is for a first date.  I know one gal who you really need to call, especially when she's on the road.  Gals have preferences.  None of which excuses the dysfunctional ones who don't know how to run their business.
And, may I say, despite your disappointment you are looking good

1)  Open Google.
2)  Type "Senator Blutarsky" into task bar.
3)  Find desired picture and right click to chose "copy image URL."
4)  Go to "picture URL" posting page and copy image URL into box.  Then post.
Even The Dungbeetle can do it!
It's as simple as that

But a Starship Captain as well

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I did away with "at your fingertips technology" when I stopped touring and cut back on my volume, but I was known as the "1 hour or less response time" girl....that went for references as well. It was a curse because regardless of how many other women the guy had seen, I was the ONLY one he would use for a reference knowing I would respond asap.

Granted, but women on P411 are held to a certain standard, and Gina takes this very seriously. Anyone who does not like her rules, can choose not to advertise on that site. The reason these women are still there, is because no one reports them.

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I only want to meet with those i'm compatible with & thats patient men. Since I don't do same day appts it's never a issue of responding right away, which is what i prefer b/c this work is a side gig, and afterthought,,,something i'll get to when i get to it & I strategically make sure i only see guys who understand that....so when I receive an email and the guy is pressing me to get back to him, I won't. If this was my main focus, i'd respond sooner, but since its not, i prefer clients who understand there are only so many hrs in a day But you're in luck b/c there are lots of escorts not like me lol

This.

Posted By: WondersOfTheWrld

I only want to meet with those i'm compatible with & thats patient men. Since I don't do same day appts it's never a issue of responding right away, which is what i prefer b/c this work is a side gig, and afterthought,,,something i'll get to when i get to it & I strategically make sure i only see guys who understand that....so when I receive an email and the guy is pressing me to get back to him, I won't. If this was my main focus, i'd respond sooner, but since its not, i prefer clients who understand there are only so many hrs in a day But you're in luck b/c there are lots of escorts not like me lol  
   
 So my point.........is there are different communication approaches and it's good u seek those who are compatible b/c others that aren't may not want to be on your to do list anyway or they have real life going on that's more important than this "business" and someone elses timeline......  
   
 There are other reasons too why a lady might reply in 24 hrs.....too many to mention....  
   
 And u might not get a response when someone's not interested & i wouldn't expect it. Plenty of us have tried that common courtesy and it turned into the guy sending nasty emails or causing other drama b/c a girl's not interested. No thx

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For all of you who were worried that all work and no play was making the Senator a little overbearing... All is well... Two play dates scheduled within the next week.  And no, they are not with the ladies who set me off yesterday.  I do apologize for losing it.    
 
For what it's worth, some additional info...  
 
1. All were traveling ladies who had paid to put up ads on p411  
2. All were well reviewed here on TER with an average rating between 8 and 9.  
3. Initial requests were sent through p411, which sends an email notification to the ladies with all the info.  In the past I have had some respond directly from these without signing onto p411.  
4. After not hearing back after a few days, sent a polite email directly to the ladies asking if they had seen the appointment request.  I asked if they were available at such and such a time during their visit and that I was looking forward to hearing from them.  All are one to two weeks out, so giving plenty of notice and I doubt their dance card is already full.    
5. All have signed onto p411 since the request and follow up  
6. None have viewed my p411 profile (another pet peeve of mine)  
7. This is pure speculation on my part, but it is early in the month and the rent isn't due for a few more weeks.  
 
All of this leads me to conclude that they really did not want to see me, which is okay.  I expect this to happen from time to time, but when it happened three times in a row, it kind of ticked me off.    
 
Anyway, Sawyer Brown said it best.   "Some girls do not like boys like me..ah, but some girls do"

Because its early in the month and rents not due?? Yes. HOARDS of us ladies sit around, paying for ads and hotels, but only taking appointments after the 20th.

I am not saying you don't have a RIGHT to do what you want, but saying that because this is not your main job somehow excuses you, is bs. MANY of us do this only part time and only do extended dates...means nothing in regards to how fast we respond. I know women with a full time job and 3 children, who still respond in less than 12 hours. NO ONE is 'that busy' to take 10 seconds to reply...no one, unless she is a freaking actress or porn star on set all damn day...even those women have the common sense to let someone else handle their screening.  

Clients have A RIGHT to expect professionalism from someone who calls themselves a professional. OTOH, providers have A RIGHT to not respond to anyone they don't want to, and lose that money. It really is just that simple. His rant is justified, like it or not. This is not an isolated case with ONE provider, but a pattern and his statement about "rent being due" is also justified for many.  

I'm no longer interested. I get to my inbox when I can and/or so choose. This is my personal approach & I'm sure that when this is a real priority again, I'll approach communication differently.

else's lives to say they should respond if others can. I just never worry about what anyone else is doing, really. For me, my regulars are enough and are responded to right away, they matter and bring that $700 or more.......but every women is different. So the OP should just move on b/c there are a lot of women who want his money, even if some are indifferent or can't get to his email.......whatever the reason!

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I agree with all of that, and my ONLY point was that is simply not a valid excuse. If you are like me and don't WANT to do something, hey no problemo lol. I just don't make excuses for why I can't do something, knowing I simply don't want to do it. I have flat out told guys, "I don't think we are a match," then ignored any following replies. Some, I have told outright to "fk off" lol.  

couldn't do it.....I'd be taking meditation breaks throughout the day while ignoring my emails until I was ready lol....and folks would be complaining about why I didn't respond to their emails soon. One day, I promise............in due time...................................................................

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Those that you are talking about are not going to change and you only piss off those who do by this rant. It will change nothing. Move on.

please disregard. thx!

even when i was ill, off for 2 weeks, i replied to every email, and call. I just said I was out, I would be back this day.. etc...

The additional info is worth a lot actually... I appreciate the follow-up!