I am aware of what I have done in the past but assume TER would believe me more when it’s a positive review I am reporting than a negative review.
I agree with another poster- giving free vip days in exchange for reviews leads to alot of fake reviews. I did also recently have a wife contact me for info on their husband, which I did not respond to. I wonder if this is who may have written this reviewI have reported reviews in the past that were positive reviews but I knew I had not met the person.
Now I have a review saying I scammed someone. I never met anyone at the hotel they’re saying and I’ve never scammed anyone.
On top of that I was out of the country most of May when the review was submitted.
What do I do?!
I did report this review but I don’t know how to prove it wasn’t me
I have reported reviews in the past that were positive reviews but I knew I had not met the person.
Now I have a review saying I scammed someone. I never met anyone at the hotel they’re saying and I’ve never scammed anyone.
On top of that I was out of the country most of May when the review was submitted.
What do I do?!
Wait to heat what TER has to say they need. Though if you've reported these in the past (why would fake nice reviews be any different then fake bad reviews) I would think you'd be aware of the process.
Traveling internationally generally produces a pretty good paper trail so that should be pretty easy to prove.
I am aware of what I have done in the past but assume TER would believe me more when it’s a positive review I am reporting than a negative review.
I agree with another poster- giving free vip days in exchange for reviews leads to alot of fake reviews. I did also recently have a wife contact me for info on their husband, which I did not respond to. I wonder if this is who may have written this review
This is not a review to get TER free days. I'm hoping the whole thing gets sorted out. Ladies shouldn't just ignore one bad review in your case. Whoever wrote it has a bone to pick with you. If it was bad scores, I could see why some might say, one review isn't going to hurt your biz.
This person is basically calling you a thief and yes, it could hurt your biz, which is why it was written.
Steph XO
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I have no problem with negative reviews of people I have actually seen, but yes, calling me a thief is not a reputation I want to have otherwise I would have done what other ladies have done and change my name every other month and scam every man I see. I’ve been around many years and have never been accused of scamming someone. It’s so frustrating
Sorry this happened to you.
I just looked at your reviews & I assume you’re referring to this guy who has no reviews here, but this one for you stating you took his money and did not provide any services. You need to prove to TER that he’s lying. 🤥
I request a deposit to book, so it’s hard for people to prove they saw me if there’s no evidence. I’m a very low volume provider and I need chemistry to book a date. Screening is for safety, but I also use my vetting process to see if we maybe compatible.
If you were out of the country show TER proof, so they know this guy is a liar. I honestly think TER should stop giving out free vIp to write reviews. Many people have been writing fake reviews for years. I feel sorry for the reviews that go unreported because they are not aware of TER.
All she can do is report it, and then the burden to show he is NOT lying shifts to the reviewer. If he can produce copies of emails or text conversations showing he booked the appointment, HE will have proven that she is lying about not seeing him. This cross-check is what keeps the review system honest. It prevents providers from unilaterally discarding reviews that they don't like for whatever reason, yet there is remedy for them on fake reviews.
I’ve never received any communication from TER about reviews I have reported in the past so I wasn’t sure what the process was. If this is true this gives me some hope that it will be removed. Aside from proving I was out of the country (which may or may not be when they claim we met) I really am not sure how I would prove this wasn’t me
the reviewer and then if you don't hear back, follow up once a week and ask if there are any developments on your case. If they say the reviewer was unresponsive, then ask them again to take it down.
Honestly, I wouldn't sweat it too much. Anyone looking at your reviews will hone in on it being this person's only review. Which tells us a lot. Best thing you can do is ask the guys you see to write reviews to bury this further.
I did a quick search of Minnesota, General, and a few other boards for posts by the Reviewer. No posts to the boards I checked.
Honestly, I wouldn't sweat it too much. Anyone looking at your reviews will hone in on it being this person's only review. Which tells us a lot. Best thing you can do is ask the guys you see to write reviews to bury this further.
Please do not advise providers to just ignore fake reviews. If we want any form of integrity in our industry lying and fake information should be removed promptly. This goes for providers and clients. This just allows individuals to think it is "not a big deal" to write false information, good or bad. It is not.
Yup, Guys are simple minded dumbasses that somehow make it thru life and I get that you've made your life mission to walk around trying to fix us. Net was saying that guys will look beyond this bad review and in a way trying to give her some confidence that her other reviews will offset it. Net wants her to read this and have some relief that her rep really hasn't been tarnished so she can more forward and be happy in the process. He's trying to help solve the first problem which is how she might feel and the concerns she may have about her ability to make future income. Net wants to see Khloe smile and think the world is OK when she reads his post.
He's not telling her to IGNORE a fake post, he's telling her that WE IGNORE fake posts. Fixed it for you!
Let me MANSPLAIN it for you;
"Honestly, I wouldn't sweat it too much." This is unintended toxic masculinity sneaking into the the first sentence. He's putting his arm around her like a big brother and telling her it's OK.
"Anyone looking at your reviews will hone in on it being this person's only review." We see that some fool has an axe to grind and he has zero credibility so it's meaningless to us. ie, his review is worthless.
"Which tells us a lot." We read the reviews for different reasons, some for the only excitement they'll have in their day, others to see if they're spending their money correctly in getting their needs met. For the latter, we've been doing this long enough to see this is a wild one-off that doesn't make any sense and 95% will ignore it.
"Best thing you can do is ask the guys you see to write reviews to bury this further" The only thing that makes this bad advice is using the word "Best". Engage TER to remove it being the BEST thing to do...beyond that, it makes sense.
Guys are going to write what they want regardless of the ethics that you seem to be wanting brought into this. You can bring in your wealth of knowledge from the cathouse days of nevada to the streets of wauwautosa but that still won't change what guys are going to write in their reviews on TER or any other board.
Your time would be better spent helping out a sister rather than trying to fix another guy.
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First, you're much more preachy than Scarlett. Second, you missed her point entirely.
The suggestion that we recommend everyone just accept fake reviews and try to just get them buried under new reviews is a bad starting position. Yes, we know TER often errs on the side of leaving disputed reviews up -- one assumes that is because no convincing evidence was presented to justify the removal. But a provider should at least try. As can and should mongers if they think a review is fake and misleading about an escort. Again, proving that can be difficult and all too often it seems more about disagreeing with how someone grades or what they think is attractive. But at least guys could drop a line to the admins to say "Profile X claims photos accurate, age is Y but I just saw the escort and she looks nothing like the pics and looks 15 years older than the profile indicates. Can we get those updated?"
The point is that people should not be throwing in the towel and accepting nothing can or will be done about fake reviews. Fake reviews will always, like the poor, like con artists, like people with really bad breath and like rain on the parade sometimes, be here but but bad idea to tell people not to try getting the fake reviews removed. The advise given was good if the review cannot be removed.
There shouldn't be tolerance for fake reviews. Fake reviews are useless to the consumers and often can hurt the seller unfairly.
"The point is that people should not be throwing in the towel and accepting nothing can or will be done about fake reviews"
This is a great quote and I fully agree with it. I think it also goes beyond fake reviews, it goes for any unfair predicament in this business/industry/relationships. Never throw in the towel standing up for what you think is right.
He seems to have forgotten the old maxim: "When you find yourself in a hole, the first thing you do is stop digging."
..."Best thing you can do is ask the guys you see to write reviews to bury this further" The only thing that makes this bad advice is using the word "Best". Engage TER to remove it being the BEST thing to do
Impossible to be more "preachy" unless you are a gender studies professor.
I don’t check my reviews often, I was actually alerted to this review by a potential client saying “nevermind, I just read you scam men”. Some may look past it but some won’t. I’m sure many will see that review and think “better not take the chance”. Unfortunately I won’t know how many potential clients were turned off by that one review
You'll never know but bringing it to light is a good idea. There a lot of guys that read this and it should probably be on the local board. As stated in my earlier post, taking the steps with TER to remove is the best action and moving on is about the only thing left to do...other than be proactive and making it public. That said, if theres a guy out there that picked that one review and verbalized it to you, you probably didn't want to see him anyhow...sounds like an ass (or maybe the guy that dropped the review)
I agree with you fully. If providers ignore reviews to include the good ones soon the “Boston Stranger “ or any designated whatever a person in good standing -only missing whitelists and P411 OKs
I know of more than one provider who has given up trying to get rid of even good reviews.
I'm not saying ignore it. Definitely report it and try to have it removed. But..... I would not lose a lot of sleep over it. Best she can do is hope it's removed and continue to get more reviews that are better.
Please do not advise providers to just ignore fake reviews. If we want any form of integrity in our industry lying and fake information should be removed promptly. This goes for providers and clients. This just allows individuals to think it is "not a big deal" to write false information, good or bad. It is not.
I can’t help but wonder what the process is like for a provider to get a review removed. I definitely don’t like the idea of fake ones staying up. I have heard some suggest the burden of proof is on them. But I had a situation 4-5 years ago where a legit review of mine was removed. I asked why and was told don’t worry you can keep your free days for the review. I was like huh? I wanted the honest review up more than the free days. I had emails and text messages to support my side too.
Read it and you won’t have wonder how it works anymore. You will know.
Report it to TER, they are pretty responsive to fake reviews. With your history of positive reviews, just remember there's always an ass out there. Stay safe.
A provider I've seen many times is well-reviewed on TER, with over 100 reviews.
She contacted me in a panic, citing a review in which the author claimed she was really a "he." I contacted TER support and attested to her femininity, and pointed to her many good reviews.
In short order, TER pulled the review.
Ask your clients to do the same!
Well the guy who reviewed her isn’t saying she is a he. I personally don’t want someone I’ve seen contacting me with their issues. When I have nothing to do with it.
You are completely off-base.
"Well the guy who reviewed her isn’t saying she is a he." Wrong! The review I discussed did say she was a he. It was removed month's ago, so I have no idea what review you're referring to.
I know the provider well and was glad to help with this issue. She showed her gratitude afterward.
Who the fuck is off base? You tell your little story that had nothing to do with the initial post.
Maybe respond only to posts you can understand?
This simple advice might help you engage the board in a meaningful manner.
ATTB
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His story is relevant because he is suggesting that the provider reach out to her clients to help with getting the review removed. I had a provider reach out to me because they had a bad review hit job with completely inaccurate details about her ethnicity and body. Because I had previously reviewed her, I think it helped with I contacted TER on her behalf.
If you are friendly with the provider, why wouldn't you want to help her? I wouldn't bail her out of jail but I'm fine helping her get reviews removed.
But just how are any of the other clients going to be able to back up her two claims -- never saw they guy at the hotel and never scammed anyone?
I think she would need to have a client that could prove in some way that they were actually seeing her at the time the fake reviewer claimed. Lacking something like that it's all he said-she said and TER has little way of deciding.
Sometimes when people are in panic/worry mode, and they are uncertain what to do, they resort to the "everything and the kitchen sink" method. Challenge is when someone tries everything under the sun to fix a problem, they have a hard time knowing what made a difference and what didn't. I agree with you (jensen), a client is unlikely to be able to help unless it's something like vouching he was with her. Just about anything else a client would say could likely be proven without the client's help.
If there are details, looks, ethnicity, hair color, or what have you, that are wrong in the fake review, those should be easy to prove. Between other reviews, ads, etc..., the provider can share/point to these things without a client's help. That might not stop her from asking the clients, nor from the clients helping. But they are not needed.
But you are the exact same height and weight as me despite being female and based on your pics, look better naked than I do!
It reinforces the theory I always had that women wear their weight better than men.
PS - good luck with getting your fake review removed
that's some bullshit. Sorry it happened to you, but I reckon it comes with the territory. My guess is it was some high school kid that found us out and gets their jollies by playing "pranks". Take the hit, drink a shot (or three), and move on with your day. There are plenty of us mongers out here that make for wonderful clients. Focus on the positive, and don't let the bastards get you down.
Sorry? High school kids? So, a high school kid has VIP status and knows how to write a negative review to hurt someone? Really??? How nice of you to speak for the women and tell her not to worry about it. Of the four women who have responded on this thread, not one is in favor of a negative review. A few of the guys just say move on....
Do you know of the Mongers who are wonderful clients? It doesn't sound like you are one with your Cavalier attitude towards the ladies.
So if a Provider blacklisted you, for whatever reason, and it got posted on the women's forum and you soon found it difficult to book a woman, that would be okay? Just have a shot or 3 sand move on with your day....
It’s been a week since I reported the review and 3 days since I reported it a 2nd time. I haven’t heard anything from TER and the review is still up.. 😞
After a few more messages to TER I did hear back from them that they had contacted the reviewer for more info. They also removed the review pending more info.
This was 2 weeks ago and I have not heard anything else. I assume the reviewer went MIA.
Thanks for all your help/advice! I’m grateful TER stepped in!
Congrats!
and then they don't hear from you again, how do they know that you didn't just abandon your claim of fakery? By staying on top of it, they will come to a point where they accept that the reviewer is not going to respond, and bingo, the fake review gets taken down. Good job. As CKS says, persistence is the key until you get a resolution.
Once, the review wasn't even about ME, and one moron posted fake reviews over & over b/c I wouldn't see him. It is SAD that what can also hurt is very HAPPY clients won't post at all, b/c they are afraid of a provider's schedule getting full so they Gatekeep. No one realizes how tough it can be out here, not to mention scary.
I was on hiatus and have no idea who it is. I just don’t understand why they wouldn’t email me or fill out a booking form for something that seemed to be a longer booking request. I have a record for every person that’s ever requested to see me except them so strange.
Taking away the free vip from writing reviews and 80%+ of the reviews go away.