TER General Board

Re: Fish it said she got mad....
AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 361 reads
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If she got mad, then it couldn't be consensual.  Read some of his other reviews, he's got absolutely no class.

I have seen many providers and they all offer different services. However there is one particular aspect that I must have during the session and that is kissing, lfk or dfk. Everything else I can overlook including bbbj but kissing is a must, it really enhances the session. What about the rest of u guys, what feature is a must in a session and why

a few times i had clients who would not dfk, claiming only to dfk with SO...was pretty awkward session...without dfk the session is very mechanical and hard to establish the connection...

come to los angeles octavia, i'll make a connection with you, several times!

i lurvs to kiss, and if a lady's profile says no kissing, i shine her on.  

i often spend a huge amount of a session just making out, i love it so much.

EscortBunny555 reads

I peruse these boards often to get a feel of what's happening lately in a research type of way, but rarely do I respond. However, when looking at your latest reviews I read "i pulled her by her hair and she got mad but I was turned on so i kept on ramming till i finsihed" and felt the need to reply.

That is the one of the most disrespectful, selfish, and rape-like sentences in a review I've ever read. Please stop seeing providers until you realize you are with another human being during your many engagements.

Ruckerman2374 reads

Totally disagree. The transaction was between those two. Consenting adults. If the provider did not like the way she was treated then maybe she should file a complaint.

TER? Do you really think admin gives a crap about how hookers are treated? It does not seem like she was fully consenting to the hair pulling yet he refused to quit.

EscortBunny301 reads

All this nonsense is for your attitude. It is for your unwillingness to admit that sex should be treated with respect and consent. It your entitled piece of absolute shit mentality that if you pay a few 20's you are allowed to do what you will with that "skank".  

Posted By: wildhorse78
Get a life.

EscortBunny359 reads

To the police? To TER? I'm quite confused as to whom you think she should be filing a complaint.

Just because there is a transaction does not mean that the moment I say "No, I do not like that" means "It's okay. There was a transaction so my consent with that certain act doesn't matter."

Posted By: Ruckerman2
Totally disagree. The transaction was between those two. Consenting adults. If the provider did not like the way she was treated then maybe she should file a complaint.

I'm sorry I did posting what I said because the POS won't get it.

Lord knows what he does because he pays. The mere fact he almost defended this creeps actions says enough about him.

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That is exactly why he and so many others post and comment with an Alias.

I guarantee it will be the last time he ever does that. This is one reason I love being under a non published name because he might and he would feel my wrath

Total creeps should be exposed. And they were his own words...not some he said, she said.

Alan_Nimm409 reads

What I envision is that the OP will remove this thread himself.  It would be consistent with the behavior he describes in his reviews.  

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There are many other very interesting talents that can more than make up for it - a dynamite massage, for instance.

Some gals do love to kiss, and I'm more than interested in indulging with them, but many also consider kissing to be so intimate that they only engage in that with those people in their lives with whom they are most connected to, and I have to respect that.

I suppose some are just not that thrilled with my breath also, though I found that using real good mouthwash and a few Tic-tacs just before a session seemed to have changed their practices vis a vis kissing.

And I hope that hair pulling was consensual and worked out before hand because the way you describe it is so fucking uncool as to be sickening.  I have known a few gals who enjoyed the hair pulling and encouraged me to participate (Not my thing, but I like to please.)  Please say that was the case here

And possibly said stop (guess he was devious enough to omit anything she actually said otherwise how did he know she got mad) and he didn't...his own words that he didn't. Consensual, well enough said but this does not sound consensual.  

-- Modified on 12/18/2015 5:23:14 AM

OK I'll admit that I love to pull hair, but I'd never pull someone's hair who said it hurt or "don't pull my hair .. fucker!"
Several providers have told me how to do it and more importantly, how NOT to do it.  
Respecting boundaries is the right thing to do. Causing unwanted pain is NOT.

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What's the "right" way to pull hair?  

While I've never felt comfortable doing that with an escort,  it's something i enjoy with my GF's (yes, yes ladies, i discuss it first)

I always made sure to get as much humanly possible in hand so any tugging didn't result in pulling stay hairs out,  plus the force is evenly distributed to minimize any discomfort.  

Any other methods i should know about?  

Posted By: DURHAMDREW63
OK I'll admit that I love to pull hair, but I'd never pull someone's hair who said it hurt or "don't pull my hair .. fucker!"  
 Several providers have told me how to do it and more importantly, how NOT to do it.  
 Respecting boundaries is the right thing to do. Causing unwanted pain is NOT.

-- Modified on 12/18/2015 12:52:20 PM

All acceptable if the hooker agrees. If she suddenly says stop or no for whatever reason, then stop. If that stop is ignored the game changes to assault as far as I am concerned, because she has withdrawn her consent.

You are correct, a big handful close to the scalp is less painful that grabbing the ends. And yes asking the woman is the right thing to do with something that can be misconstrued as violent or abusive.  

Some of us have advanced training either military or martial arts and will unleash if we feel we are placed in danger or as in self defense

Yeah, I've engaged in all of that in my private life and I really enjoy it...if she does.
But in P4P I simply couldn't do any of that. Too many ways it could get weird. It would have to be someone I'd have seen for a while and we were both very comfortable with one another.

I even booked (twice) with a kink provider, had a list in my head of the activities I would engage in...and when meeting these strangers face to face - Just engaged in 100% vanilla sex.

There really needs to be a large element of trust and understanding before attempting anything where someone could get hurt.

Just my two pennies.

Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
All acceptable if the hooker agrees. If she suddenly says stop or no for whatever reason, then stop. If that stop is ignored the game changes to assault as far as I am concerned, because she has withdrawn her consent.  
   
 You are correct, a big handful close to the scalp is less painful that grabbing the ends. And yes asking the woman is the right thing to do with something that can be misconstrued as violent or abusive.  
   
 Some of us have advanced training either military or martial arts and will unleash if we feel we are placed in danger or as in self defense.  
   
 

You have made me see the light, I will treat these skanks with respect. I will take them out and get to know them and then we will have safe nice sex... not. I will do as I please especially when I doling out the goods and the girl enjoys it. Btw escortbunny I have seen this girl since that review and all is good. So don't be telling how to live my life.

"Skanks" ?? Congratulations! You probably made the record for being put on the most DNS lists in a day.  

 

 

 

 

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EscortBunny329 reads

Some people are honestly scum. Maybe once they were good, maybe they can be good again. Unfortunately, sir, you are one of the people that are currently scum.  

Safe sex is consent. Anything under those terms is up to the two (or more) people. I don't care if you pulled her hair and she loved it. If she loved it, then great. However, it is your demeaning attitude, your absolute contempt for taking responsibility for anything you do, and the fact that you view all these women as "skanks" means you, at your core, are scum.

Lastly, you're completely welcome. I will never hesitate to point out hideous behavior and attitudes.

Posted By: wildhorse78
You have made me see the light, I will treat these skanks with respect. I will take them out and get to know them and then we will have safe nice sex... not. I will do as I please especially when I doling out the goods and the girl enjoys it. Btw escortbunny I have seen this girl since that review and all is good. So don't be telling how to live my life.
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never get in a pissin' contest with a skunk... but if I got to get in a pissin' contest with a skunk, I want you on my team...

nice response darlin'

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