Interesting comment from a recent provider to me while in mid intercourse. Apparently I've never thought about this much, but I'm extremely quiet when I'm fucking. I don't like a lot of dirty talk, or talk period. I don't moan a lot, even when I nut.
As the lady said when we were in mid-action, "your'e a quiet fucker aren't you."
I guess I am.
I'm definitely in that boat when wearing a condom. Takes all my focused attention to get off. And, if she is too verbal or loud, it breaks my concentration. Not so much a problem with the SO, since a condom isn't used. She can get pretty loud though. At first I thought it was just put on, but then learned that we had to be selective about where we did it, because she was loud no matter where we were at. No sex when visiting family. If we are staying more than a couple of days we get a hotel room. Kind of awkward in making up an excuse.
so I can better hear her breathing and other sounds. Especially important since I'm interested in female response, cause/effect, physiology, etc. This is a wonderful hobby for learning more about different physiological responses. No two ladies are exactly alike. I do have to chuckle when onetime I was in the midst of receiving a French lesson, and had recently figured out how to have an O without ejaculating. At first she didn't believe me since I was so quiet and not 'dramatic' when it came. It's fun having 'multiples' along with a lady.
if you are quiet i dont know if im doing it right and i start getting all weird feeling like i need to do something else and wtf is wrong with this guy why doesnt he like this and what should i do to him
oy just moan a little bit please
"Oh my God! You are so wonderful! Oh my God!" again and again and again. Does that count as good pillow talk?
Yeah, I moan and groan, but kind of low and under my breath. Just enough so that there's no doubt that I am enjoying myself.
On the flipside, I was with a provider once who didn't make a sound. I had to listen really close to make sure she was still breathing. Then, out of nowhere, she began to shudder and buck and moan, so I guess a good time was had by all.
I get the not talking or not moaning part, but how do you keep your penis squeaking down? The vagina walls and the anus sphincter always makes my cock noisy.
You gotta use more spit, my friend. Or invest in some lube. It not only helps get the job done, it eliminates the sound like your putting on the breaks in an old car.
The way one verbalizes during sex is one the most distinctive parts of the act. It can really add or detract from the overall experience. I like both quite and verbal enoucters providing that it is genuine. It is just the really bad acting - fake noises that turn me off.
I tend to be somewhat quiet, too. I do some moaning and groaning, and the occasional dirty talk. I guess I'm more focused on enjoying the moment. I do enjoy listening to the lady moan, or pant a bit. It is kind of a turn on .
Nothing wrong with that. My own vocal responses vary from very quiet to screaming. I was with a guy not too long ago though that not only didn't make a noise while I was down on him, but also didn't move the whole time. I had no clue if he was enjoying himself or if he had fallen asleep 
Please at least every now and then throw some sort of feedback to us if you aren't a vocal type!
Gosh... I don't think I'm so quiet that you think I'm falling asleep. Hopefully the fact I'm grabbing your tits or kissing you or have a thumb in your dirty place gives you an indication that I'm there. I'm just not doing a lot of what Mr. T calls the jibber jabber.
It just can't be done. 8o)
I agree! You wouldn't believe how many men try!
I was with a gal a few months back who had me so revved up with her BBBJ that when I was about to blow I couldn't get the words out of my mouth to warn her-she doesn't like CIM. I pushed her head off of mr happy and just as she was giving me a "WTF?" look I erupted all over her...but not in her mouth..
We had a good laugh about it as soon as my speech patterns returned to normal
Yeah, but you get the job done. 
Katie
Well, when you are in the presence of a hottie like you, Katie, getting the job done is easy!! I need to have you back over soon!
I love to hear a man make noises. That lets me know he is feeling good. I don't necessarily want him to scream if we're in a hotel room, or the hotel manager might come in with the police with barreled shotguns. 
Hugs,
Ciara
I am a moaner.
If I don't moan, either my kids are in the other room (and they aren't) or you are not doin' it right... lol
There is a wide spectrum of vocalizations and verbalizations during sex.
I am out near the 'Very Quiet' end. But I do tend to laugh and moan immediately afterward. (So does she, but for entirely different reasons.)
I have been with women that span either end of the rainbow. One so quiet that it took a couple of iterations before I could pick up on her cues. Another was so loud that all of her floor mates (in a college dorm) were lined up to give me an ovation when I 'snuck' out to use the men's room (embarrassing and thrilling at the same time).
I enjoy hearing the audio feedback, but it is not natural for me to reciprocate. Weird.
I have that happen a lot with clients. For me if they are quiet I think that they are NOT enjoying themselves. I have found out that is not necessary true. They do enjoy themselves but are just quiet.
On the other hand..I am a loud woman. Sometimes I have to bite the pillow...
...you are REALLY good at talking dirty!
Plus, when you do that you have to pull my hair...
And spank me a bit...
And go for it as hard as possible...
...mmm, I may be getting myself in trouble, here! Let me talk about something else...
Quiet can be nice, though, really... it seems more meaningful and romantic, to me. You can enjoy one anothers company more... you know, gazing into one anothers eyes, feeling each others bodys with the brush of a hand, or taking in the smell and scent of your partner as they get closer to you...
Hmm... getting too heavy again...
Enough for me... besides thats my two cents anyhow...
Dani
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