I am curious on both sides of the coin. From the Ladies side, which do you typically prefer? I am sure some of you like both because just flat out hard sex is apeealing to some. I am asking more on a large scale. Do you prefer to spend your time with someone being sensual and romantic where the man treats you like a lady and a true girlfriend? Or do you prefer not getting into the sensuality with the men (or does it depend on if you feel an attraction with him?) and just having flat out sex? One argument can be if the lady offers GFE then she prefers the sensuality and romance and if that is the case then the responses will bear that out.

There are guys I really want to be with for hours on end and others I wish were just a damn  blow and go. I can tell you if a guy is not responsive or in tune with me or my body, it makes things very awkward.  

Maybe it's just me but it seems pretty ez to have lots a of kissing and talking alonng with a bbbj, daty and sex in 1 hour.  Of course if the lady is really hot the 1st pop is quick! I must have issues.....when I see a really hot lady sucking on my cock. On the other hand sometimes we run over. Usually because of DATY.

If I just wanted plain sex I would be picking up sreetwalkers.

My mood that day not so much the girl.  

At first. I tried this more for the thrill of it all.
Then you go through a phase where you become a little obsessed.
Figure that out. Move on.  
Use this for what it is.
That's all..

Mechanical sex is lifeless, I might as well just jerk off - at least then you know it's being done right.

I love the entire encounter from first contact to the good bye hug.

That's deep satisfaction.

I know it is a game/job but is easy to see when this is just MONEY to you.

Now I'm just waiting for all the mangina BS to start

I agree with your reply in its entirety London. I was not making an attempt to compare a GFE and a PSE session in this post. But you say it very well. As for the Lady servicing me with a water break and I don't kiss or go down on her..... that would never happen. I could spend the entire date between luscious thighs and kissing and go away extremely happy. I do not have to get off at all if the kissing and time between your thighs is invigorating. I meant what I said, I would rather please than be pleased.  

Don't confuse the two.  One can be sensual without romance.  Sensual can include soft or rough, or both.  Sensuality is about being in the moment, connecting with the senses and with your partner...and connecting does not always mean romantically.  It can be hot lust-connection just as easy...

a variety.

you busting my balls? Seems you and MM are making up LOL.

I do not have romance and sensuality confused. I am well aware you can have one without the other. I personally prefer to link the two together.  

In my opinion, being a true Companion is about feeling, expressing and being there emotionally. Anything else is completely meaningless. I believe that giving someone your complete attention physically and mentally is what the true sense of Companionship is.

A girlfriend, generally feels free and safe to be "A lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets". If you're lookIng for GFE, why wouldn't this be part of it?  
  One or the other?  Intimacy, should not preclude enjoying it all.  
                           Desi

Why pick one if you can have it all??

I like it all, nothing like a good wall to wall sexathon or other times, a slow burning sensual session.
I enjoy mixing it up.  

Posted By: RedheadBombshell

 A girlfriend, generally feels free and safe to be "A lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets". If you're lookIng for GFE, why wouldn't this be part of it?  
   One or the other?  Intimacy, should not preclude enjoying it all.    
                            Desi  
   

Posted By: coach618925

I am curious on both sides of the coin. From the Ladies side, which do you typically prefer? I am sure some of you like both because just flat out hard sex is apeealing to some. I am asking more on a large scale. Do you prefer to spend your time with someone being sensual and romantic where the man treats you like a lady and a true girlfriend? Or do you prefer not getting into the sensuality with the men (or does it depend on if you feel an attraction with him?) and just having flat out sex? One argument can be if the lady offers GFE then she prefers the sensuality and romance and if that is the case then the responses will bear that out.  
     
  As for the guys, what do you prefer? Meeting someone and being romantic and sensual because most often you are not getting that at home? Or do you prefer to just have a good time on your terms and forget about romance and sensuality and want to have sex the way you want it and no more?  
     
  Personally, even though I am sure none of the guys care I have no desire to pay X amount of $$$ and not be sensual and romantic. I want the lady to feel special, wanted and desired because she has the right to feel that way. If I want to have flat out sex, I can hook up with a "friend" or hook up with a lady at the club or bar have sex and go on my way. I choose to meet with ladies that are beautiful and provide sensuality and romance because that is all I give her.    
     
  Who knows, maybe I am nuts but I thought I would ask.

Romance the hell out of me then I like to progress to hardcore Fking  
I like to call it a good love FK
I like both  
Hugs and kisses
TL

You're not nuts

I LOVE being sensual and romantic, and can only HOPE that whoever I see is the same way. Sometimes it depends on the other person,some can make a provider feel like they're just there so the lady can do their deed and they can go,i'm not fond of those- because if this person becomes a regular,the lady is going to want him to leave early each time and that will just will very plain. I get it,some gentlemen don't want to be sensual or romantic with a provider to not cross that line,to not feel like they're going too far. I love the flirting in between conversations,the passionate kissing,and the sensual,hot, & erotic sex after. As far as PSE,i'm not exactly sure what other providers do- we all have our different meanings to it. For me I guess it's just Greek,and the wild sex one can do. And thus it being Greek,i believe one needs to connect or at least be in the mood to be able to do it by the other person. That's just IMO

Sensuality is what makes sex worth it at all to me. I love it. Can't get enough. It's better than the orgasm and often makes the "O" so plain and secondary, it's not even necessary. If I don't "pop", I didn't need to, but if there's no sensuality, I won't be back.

Re: You're not nuts

Smiles all around Angie, very well said. I know some like just hardcore sex but if I am going to spend time with a beautiful lady, I want and need seduction, intimacy and a connection or I end up "cumming" instead of having an "orgasm" and we all know there is light years difference between the two. I can "cum" all I want using my hand but if I am going to be with a beautiful lady I don't want to just "cum" I want an all out "orgasm".

Re: You're not nuts

Absolutely!!! Such a difference!!

Re: You're not nuts

Angie, it is great to know we are on the same page. I don't see many women but if I do not sense I can enjoy a genuine GFE then I do not consider making an appointment.