Hi all,
Been hobbying for about a year and a half now. Just curious to ask people if anybody had experience in bringing an escort to a social event or for international (or any) travel? I just want to understand the reasoning behind these actions. I'm curious about what the motivation is to spend a social event with an escort or spending Days traveling with an escort. I mean, it makes sense to pay for company but how many times are you really going to be intimate with someone traveling with you? I'm asking because I would like to see people's experience with it and their mindset going into it. WIth that, I hope I can be convinced to do so myself =P TT55What kind of event is it? What types of relationships do you have with others who will attend? How odd would you feel going by yourself?
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I wouldn't see why not its more of an eye candy to go with a provacative girl
In my opinion, despite what most people 'think' this world is about...for (alot) of gentlemen, it's really about the ultimate experience in true 'companionship'. Having been called upon to do both, social as well as travel, it's usually for that reason alone. A gentleman who wants someone they can converse with, be comfortable with, look good with and have a great, relaxed time with on all levels, emotionally with the added bonus of the physicality when and where they want it. It's having company by your side instead of going about it alone. I mean who really wants to go about those few things solo, when really they just don't have to. A close gentlemen friend of mine knows my 'real' passion in life and asked me to join and assist him on a trip coming up. I was beyond flattered and excited he wanted to include me. I was like of course I'll be there. How could I not be. So you see, it's a win win situation in many ways for both parties involved especially when you enjoy spending time together.
This world is 'not' just about what many 'think' it's about. Hope that helps a bit. If you are considering going this route, t's a good route to go and I wish you luck in your endeavors.
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Passed away a couple of decades ago, and I arranged for an escort to accompany me to the service. I wanted a full celebration of life afterwards. I wanted that. So that's what I did.
At other times I need to keep with the folks on the sunny side of the street, no trade, no looks, all that's seen is forgotten.
So, it depends. Maybe what the OP wants is something I would do, have done, or maybe not.
So true, Taylor. If sex was the only thing most of us were paid for, no one would bother offering more than half hours and hours, as there would be no need for extra time lol. Out of six years working as a provider, only a year was spent catering to 'only sex' clients. It's a good thing so many different types of providers do exist, because the competition would be insane otherwise lol. A provider who only offers hours is not in competition with a provider who only offers dinner dates and overnights... they are two different types of SPs. If you want a blow and go, you know where to find one. If you want an overnight... same thing.
For some men the very thing missing from home is not only the blowjob... it's the companionship they miss so desperately. I never understood how they could mistake paying for it as the real thing, but hey... seems to work.
But the handful of events I went to were 2 sports outings, 1 movie date, and a company meeting.
I feel like your focus on hankypanky might negatively impact the relationships you have with your lady friends.
Sometimes what we really want is someone to help distract us from other people... >.>; Just sayin.
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Escorts or models were often hired for public events by gay businessmen who needed to conceal their lack of a wife. So I had a thing with one woman who told me about a well-known guy who had hired her just for show and didn't want sex. Now it's different. Then it sounded very strange.
I find it hard to understand but, hey, it takes all kinds.
Back then it would ruin their career, maybe get them jailed, killed, whatever. So the models helped them keep up a front.
There was a lot of crap we had to change about those days. Half the women I play with today wouldn't have been able to have a cup of joe with me in a cafe.
This country has a sick past. But I love it.
there was a provider who took me to a wedding (And I'm not referring to my own recent nuptials.)
She didn't have any other date and didn't want to go alone, and as we were pretty close at the time, I said "why not?", and off we went. It was a nice affair too, a Seventh Day Adventist's wedding. Great party and some of the friendliest people you'd ever want to meet. I even danced, which is quite rare.
We all know 99 percent of these dates begin or end with sex, but many men hire companions because they are lonely. I can't tell you the number of widowed clients that took me to an office party because they had no one else and wanted to be with someone that made them laugh.
There are only a few clients that I dared travel to another country with, but for the most part all of my dates were half in public, half in private. Not since 2009 have hotel room only dates been an option for me.
The reasoning is some people do not have a social circle. They are either retired and totally alone or they work too much and don't want the added drama of office/social dating... so, they hire escorts.
and I doubt I would ever pay to do so, especially since I travel to countries where I am quite happy with the local talent. I might take a provider that I was dating to a different country, and I have traveled to many different states with providers that were GF's, but I seriously doubt that I would ever pay a gal to travel with me.
Now I will say that I have had a lot of chicas in both Colombia and Costa Rica that have asked me to take them to places like San Andreas, and most likely I will eventually do so.
Well, that's because you're hooked up in the places you do visit. I never went to freaking Costa Rica with a client either.... Dubai and London were more our deal.
Then you're damn right I would be bringing somebody with me, whether pro or civvie I don't know, but I would be bringing a woman with me.
That's also the reason I would most likely bring a chica with me to someplace like San Andres. It's a beautiful place, but not a lot of women that actually live there. Bringing a hooker to Costa Rica??? Now that's just crazy talk. lol
I fit nicely into the example that MS HooktardGold suggests. As an elderly widower I started seeing escorts because I missed female intimacy. I have seen only seven different ladies in about 3 years. two of these have moved 2 have retired, 1 wasn't worth seeing again, one has been forbidden to see me because her boyfriend thought we were too close as friends. I am down to one terrific woman and we are very close with many off the clock activities.
A person whom you escort to a party, dance or gathering of some sort. Period.
That's why many escort services are considered legal businesses in many states. For that reason.
If it were so unbelievable for people to pay for companionship, then why don't they just call them whores, or prostitutes and be done with it. As has been stated here in this thread, there are lots of reasons to hire a beautiful woman to hang on your arm and play a role for you. Personally, I have never wanted nor needed to pay for companionship. My personal preference and primary reason for hiring a provider is the physical part. Being companionable is nice. Chemistry is good, fantasy rocks, but if I'm paying, I'm getting off. If a guy wants to pay to play house, go on a "date" or have a travel companion without sex, hey, whatever floats your boat. Some people have time and money to burn. Just don't fool yourself into thinking that she is your real GF, she isn't and probably won't be.
Very true. Most agencies have the women sign a contract stating that if they are caught having sex for money, they will be terminated lol. Yah, we fire them and bring them back under a new name. 
When I first started in the agency biz, I actually told my girls they did not have to fk anyone lol. That went over well.
Wearing an “I am an Escort” sign around their neck or any where else. People take the “so called escorts” to social functions, dinner or for domestic and/or international travel because THEY LIKE EACH OTHERS COMPANY” just ike any other men and women on the planet.
Not Quantum Physics to figure out, is it
They are not doing it because "THEY LIKE EACH OTHERS (sic*) COMPANY." He may well like her company and she may be able to stand his. But she is there because she's being paid.
* OTHER'S
as your companions because they would anything inicky46 asks for $3. Just you Shit GaGger do it.
She spoke English better with my cock in her mouth than you write it.
Oh, and the CBJ was $20. How much do you charge for that service?
are you deliberately trying to throw the contest?
Well as long as you go back to your normal stupid posts when it counts at the end of the year, I guess a few intelligent post won't cost you (and me) too much.
My only correction to your thought is that it's not that they like "each other's" company, so much as it's a matter of "him liking her company" and her getting paid for it. If she happens to like him too, so much the better, but it's not mandatory.
Aside from that, I actually agree with you. Men take paid escorts for the very same reason that they would take any other woman.
stop thinking everyone is as desperate as you. With your reputation, if any female accompany you to Satrbucks for coffee, it would be surprise.
You pick up street walkers as your travel companions so you wouldn’t understand what normal people do.
Maybe pimples will make me rich after all? Gambler is clearly losing here lol
I don't bring them to my social functions unless they are close enough to be a real friend cuz what good is bringing a cute girl who has no idea who I really am? I have never paid a girl to come to my parties though.
I have done some compensated traveling (at a heavy discount). Not sure the girl "liked each others company" though, maybe she did maybe she didn't, but I sure as hell did. rofl
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Just because Fungy makes a couple of "Non stupid" posts, don't count him out just yet. This is a marathon, not a sprint and he can take a couple of miles off and still come back and win. I bet you he won't make it through this thread without saying something that will put him right back in the thick of things. Wanna bet??? lol
But yeah, I agree with the both of you, and yes I might do some traveling at a "heavy discount" with a lady. I will have to say though that any woman that I would be spending that much time with would most likely have already moved past hooker/john status and I doubt payment would be involved. Contrary to popular opinion here, I pay for sex, not "time and companionship"
The way I look at it if she really does like my company, springing for the trip should be enough, and if she is only going because I am paying her, do I really want to spend that much time with someone that I have to pay? Now if she has bills that need to be paid in order for her to take the time off, I can see doing that which goes back to your "heavily discounted" rate.
People at the head table were being introduced along with their wives. One older gentleman was in the company of a very attractive and much younger woman who was introduced as "his escort".
All I could thing was, well, OK!
YOU: "how many times are you really going to be intimate" *while traveling*
Ok sweetness:
first... real escorts are companions. Prostitutes (sell sex) Escorts (sell companionship)
*I know many of you think the difference is semantics but really it's not *
So here is probably why you are confused as you must be looking for and spending your time with prostitutes.
AS for men who purchase time with companions.... some men I THINK they actually like some of the girls they spend time with (and vice versa), and like spending an extended amount of time with them.. Enjoyable and fun for the man and the woman.
some men have enough money that they aren't staggered by the fees involved... they probably find some satisfaction knowing they are making their companions life easier, helping her achieve goals, like the conversation, like being seen out and about with the girl.... etc. sure there are other motivations too ... some men just have the power to do whatever they want, pretty much whenever they want and it is a matter of convenience of having someone around to cater to them at a whim. the fees being inconsequential. and those men have the M.O of flying women around all the time, and usually many different women.. it is just the way they operate.
not such a mystery.. but it is a different type of mind set and lifestyle
I'm seeing way too many hookers using the "escort" designation on their sites, ads and board postings.
Seems few, if any really understand the difference as you are pointing this out.
Frankly if all the gals here are truly escorts (as in your definition) they'd all be working at K-Mart to pay their bills. And certainly won't be living this life of luxury so many claim to be living LOL
I do agree that there are some men who have certain sexual handicaps that don't allow them to be sexual. And in that case hiring a companion is a good thing.
The other guys are simply now confused per your post...I know I am
Ok sweetness:
first... real escorts are companions. Prostitutes (sell sex) Escorts (sell companionship)
*I know many of you think the difference is semantics but really it's not *
So here is probably why you are confused as you must be looking for and spending your time with prostitutes.
AS for men who purchase time with companions.... some men I THINK they actually like some of the girls they spend time with (and vice versa), and like spending an extended amount of time with them.. Enjoyable and fun for the man and the woman.
some men have enough money that they aren't staggered by the fees involved... they probably find some satisfaction knowing they are making their companions life easier, helping her achieve goals, like the conversation, like being seen out and about with the girl.... etc. sure there are other motivations too ... some men just have the power to do whatever they want, pretty much whenever they want and it is a matter of convenience of having someone around to cater to them at a whim. the fees being inconsequential. and those men have the M.O of flying women around all the time, and usually many different women.. it is just the way they operate.
not such a mystery.. but it is a different type of mind set and lifestyle.
But of course it's strictly business, mustn't lose sight of that, of course, no indeed, and the car rental shops just are after my money and they don't care if I enjoy the drive or not, of course, and unlike so many of you boys here, I never want to buy the car and keep it. Oops! Some degenerate spirit just entered my body!
It's okay. Purged. I'm me again. Except, this week I'm Asian. Getting tired of that already.
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half hour after you eat, you horny again
With us attending a show together. It was amazing, fun before and after the show. But as far as an overnight, I haven't done that.
I always feel paying for the appointment part is most important, I dont think the same amount for social time or being bought nice dinner, is fair. If some ones a really nice guy give you 900 , I think charging an extra 100 for hours of socializing after and prior I mean if they like that. I am more concerned with getting paid for the multiple actually fucking non stop for hours. i like not being as nutz about asking for the money to be social , i am doing now 2 hours of escort is 900. Its not a vanilla i am having request for water sports. Always multiples is fine, No breaks is ok too. If thats thier pace. I just gotta take time off days after. i do that anyway i enjoy rest. So any hoo. i do this 2 hour escort, and we do a million activities its draining, strap ons, prostate massage 69, anal, dt . sometimes i am also on top entire time, so i am on my arms entire time, I have huge traps from the appts!
but i do 100 extra on a 2 hour 900 escort 2 hours.
if some one comes and gives me 900. I am sure as hell not doing any massages or appts after or next day. So for me i get repeats becuase i can hang after and not rush them out, i dont use hotels any how so traffic isnt even close to being an option. I do this to show appreciation for the huge donation. I cant have sex more than 2 hours any how so it aint like i could finagle a second massage with bj after they leave. My neck would freakn snap !
i have never gotten any takers on my requesting high donation to talk or be arm candy. I am awkward in social stuffy places and prefer not to be there or a part of them any how. I d take cooking here over dining out any day, But like every good cook, i am usually disapointed when i eat out at the lack of freshness , and over seasoned salty oily methods restauraunts use, If i order chinese i have to say steam the pork and give orange sauce on side, Or else you get this way over sugar grease balls heavily battered friend, its nasty.
i made marinated chicken thigh for the dog last night all i used was organic cider vinegar thyme oregeno water a whole fresh bushel of parsley and diluted black strap molasses. no salt no oil and crap.
You get huge if you eat out. I try touring and its impossible not to blow up. I remebr in vegas i asked for egg white omellete it was in an inch of vegetable oil!
i was like wo whats the point ?
i think the actuall models , huge fake tits, look like patriots cheerleaders may get hired to make a appearance, .
For me i mainly get guys looking to meet for pretty much just the actuall session. Socializing not so much, I actually like it that way i think the socializing part I have attempted a dinner date for like well over a g note , i just not to say i havent tried, i never had any takers on that style appt, I did get 2 takers on my 1000 dinner date appt. one last sat and one this week. So its all the same I average 2-3 grand a week when i apply myself, but i dont work unless I have too, unfortunetly, Its hard to force yourself to work if you dont need too when you have no boss and wont get fired, especially when the beach is RIGHT there and there no need to cuz bills are paid, I dont know if i will ever be the type to stock pile money, or save, saving for my apt was the worst, it was like aten grand thing , i had to take time off to move and unpack too, and the whole movin company and the 6 grand you gotta paty first an last security aah, nightmare.
I have met a guy from the marina he was rich, he had wanted me to find him a model type to bring to an event, Not me cuz my lawyer bf at time introduced me to him so it was weird, I guess its just easier to have a girl with you as date and some guys dont want a gf, so hiring one is cheaper. These days alot women just marry guys and use em then treat em like dog doo after and leave em with crap. I feel bad for guys that happens too, If i ever get married and then a divorce i am never puttin my kids father out in a raggedy apt, and havn me keep the nice house. its bs. a good person would sell it split the profits and the women should also have to down size, why does one person need to keep a ginormous house meant for a family by herself? the whole world is back wards now so, we have guys that have pay to buy women dinner , its bizarre, in holly wood struggling movie stars would always do free dinners as prostiutes cuz they were struggling to make it in hollywood, it was tradition, depnding on how rich or your economic status if you can afford to get away with hitten em up for high and gettin it great, if your not able to swing that like me you gotta be a little better to you steady crew of regulars and hang for free for the social time, i have a few good regulars but i am really not a stickler with them on hours up joe! where the rest? 900-1000 is alot to me and i will probly kidss the guys ass after and like wanna give him a godam spounge bath.