Hello gentlemen and ladies.  
Question...
Ladies have you ever run into this problem? I have a regular whom is so upset that I'm leaving the country next month. He asked me to find him a provider. Now, I don't have "friends" or "acquaintances" in this business , so his request (more like demand) rubbed me wrong.  
Fellas, would you expect your regular provider to provide a substitute during her absence?

Yes, from years of reading post by needy, clingy, clueless Johns, I have to admit I find your post very believable and a bit sad at the same time.

except that I can get ahold of them easily, and we can set up sessions quickly when I do. They have referred me to other girls before, including when they were unavailable. But I'd never demand it. Why would I, when it's so easy to find alternatives on my own?

U always seems to say the things others don't want to say and I love it! Thank u!

Give him the address to a sheep farm and tell him to go there two days after you leave and ask for Bahbara.  When he gets there, it should be a learning moment about how lame his request was, and I bet he figures out how to find a temporary replacement on his own.  A little tough-love is sometimes necessary with clueless johns.  

I don't know if you should tell him that, if you'd like to have his business when you return. That strikes me as a bit bizarre. Doesn't he know about this place? Asking for a referal is one thing, but expecting you to find someone and make contact with her for him? Goofball.

but getting upset because she can't offer one is.

His apparent neediness derives from the fact that he's "so upset" that she's leaving and that he demands she should find him another provider. If he merely asked for a reference, that wouldn't be needy.  

I understand things get in the way at the last minute. I've had my favorite girls cancel on me for whatever reason. It's happened to me. I get it. But I would never go into a hissy fit about it. I'll ask when can I reschedule to see you. This pay to play hobby we're into isn't life and death.  

What the OP is describing sounds like a bit more than laziness. Let's call it a combination of being both lazy and needy.

Since when did it become YOUR responsibility for him to get his rocks off?  His enjoyment is his own responsibility and his alone.  You're not his girlfriend or property or anything.   Sheesh.  

many ladies have friends in the biz and are fine with referring their clients to a friend. If you don't have any, then simply telling him so seems like plenty of effort on your part.

and I take it you have no objection to my use of the term "john" lol

and some dogs are much smarter and less needy and clingy than many johns. lol

This client sounds like he has issues. GIve him the phone number for a psychiatrist, or maybe the suicide hotline.

I am sure Deb won't mind. lol

I remember way back in the day, when my girlfriend was going on a long vacation and I asked her to find me a substitute, it didn't go well for some reason.

Maybe, he was embarrassed to ask for a referral and it came out blatantly and poorly. Or, maybe he is just a needy demanding prick. Or somewhere in between.  

another provider while you are gone.

providers. Give her a call.

No objection at all. Just don't call me a hooker! Lol! And we are perfectly fine. Lol

Thank you guys. Your brutal honestys, sheet frankness and down right truth.. sit well with me. I appreciate each and everyone of you thank you and I hope you guys have a great day .  
If your in the area before mid August .., I'm here baby

Is a moron. He is a big boy, he can find another friend. If he treats you like this then it's time for you to no longer see him.  

Just kidding, The easiest way is to lie. Tell him that you really want to cancel your trip to be with him but.... (use your imagination and fill in the blank).

slide their back legs down the front of your boots, they can't go anywhere until you're finished.

Yeah, you gotta get your big rubber boots on. But the gloves still help you catch them and get their feet in the boots. It's best to have both, LoL. You don't wanna just wait around till one gets their head stuck in the fence.

Then a couple of hundred years later the English refined it by removing the intestine from the sheep.

I'd be cautious about finding a prostitute for someone else.  That can technically be considered procuring, and the penalties can be more severe for that than for just hooking.

With apologies.  She had had a family emergency.  Now, I had never asked nor expected her to send a replacement.  An emergency is just that. The fact that she did (and the girl she sent was both a knockout and a great lay (UTR only gal) went a long way to showing she cared to keep my business.
  But see, I never expected it and would never ask it of a regular to do that.  It was just a nice gesture on her part.  She even wanted to give me a discount in our next session but i paid her in full anyway.

This guy gets upset that she isn't going to be available and comes across in a demanding tone, expecting her to find his substitute for him?  

I heard that but thought it was Aussies, not Irish

Go fuck yourself! LoL

email him the link to TER and wish him well.

Milienials.

Why would it be sheep and not camels or donkeys?

A hint that you don't mess with the Irish when they HAVEN'T been drinking!  Lol

A good lesson for everyone here.

Meaning my regulars home are often left high an dry when I'm out of town. I've never had a problem givin him the names of 1 or 2 girls out here I think he would be compatible with and that I know will be easy to get him screened. It's a nice gesture, not at all necessary and he definitely shouldnt be mad!!!

but the topic is a bit murky.

I've experienced this too..I also know very few ladies in the biz in my town so I end up recommending providers they likely have no chance of seeing (due to 24 hours notice requirements).  I just returned from NYC and the entire time I was there a regular was blowing up my phone demanding that I answer him back.

..... I wouldn't be on a hooker board.  

And it would more likely be the Kiwis. New Zealand is the land where a population of 4 million people and 24 million sheep.  
The land where men are men and sheep are nervous.

And tell them to strap you down and forget your safe word. LoL.

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and it pissed me off to no end. On top of asking to find another provider, he demanded I start giving him numbers to other porn stars who don't actively advertise. I think a lot of it has more to do with the pimp aspect to it than some sort of ego wound. I just don't wanna feel like I'm running some other girl, I don't really know why. Im more than willing to give recommendations for the small group of people I'll work with, but beyond that, the searching is his/her own responsibility.

I totally agree that the being upset for going out of the country is absurd. However, I don't really think asking for a referral is really lazy. A lot of you guys build pretty intricate relationships with the providers you see, in the context of hobbying. I would think that knowing your temporarily finding someone to fill that spot, you'd want a referral from your provider that fits that bill or, if not that, someone that would pleasantly compliment her while she's gone. I personally would take something like that as somewhat of a compliment. However its pretty moot as this dude was a total douchecanoe.