My first was with someone familiar. It exceeded any sexual fantasy I've ever had. Then, going on to the "widespread forum", has left me in disdain of hookers. True story

Was fantastic and made me crave more...even though I was so nervous that I found it hard to speak until she sat me down and gave me a little wine to calm me...looking back the apprehension was a turn on...after about six or seven ladies I met the one I will never quit seeing...it's all about chemistry 😗

But it was worth every bit of the five bucks I paid for it lol

Honestly my first P4P experience was in a five dollar whorehouse in TJ back almost forty years ago.  It wasn't exactly a high class GFE experience

My first time...

Ha! I remember it well. I was so scared! I was shaking on the way.  I did not know what to expect, or what to do, and I thought I would be awful at it, being more or less a soccer mom and not exactly a worldly seductress  The guy was so nice to me, and understanding, and then when it got underway, it was amazing.  That I could enjoy it so much was completely unexpected and such a nice bonus.  I almost skipped home, grinning.  I give him lots of credit for making my entree into the hobby a positive one, and still see him occasionally.  I think he is somewhat proud of being my "first."

I was just separated and horny has hell.  Found the phone # for a cathouse on Manhattan's Upper East Side and got buzzed in.  I was so nervous, when the gal I'd picked took me to a room and told me to get undressed I said something defensive and she just said, "Get out."  I learned from that and the next time I just did as I was told.  It was all good from there.
The second first time was after the end of my second marriage.  I started exploring various sites, found a girl who was supposed to be amazing and somehow convinced her to see me despite my having no references and not being on P411 or D-C.  She said she just got a vibe that I'd be OK.  I was almost vibrating sitting in the hotel lobby waiting for the second call.  Finally it came and I got the room # and headed up.  Still vibrating.
Got to her door knocked and there she was, dressed in a mini-skirt, thigh highs and heels.  Her piercing blue eyes sparkled with a crazy-sexy gleam.  She smiled, pulled me to her and stuck her tongue down my throat, then stripped me.  She led me to a large upholstered arm chair, almost skipping with glee and said, "Let me show you my party trick."
She sat me in the chair, my tool quite erect, walked behind the chair and climbed up over the back, then down until she engulfed my entire cock in her mouth.
Then it got even better.
We are still good friends today.

I was nervous as could be, all the cloak and dagger call when you get here, call when you get there, then two lefts and a right. I finally found her, not the girl in her BP ad pics, but cute friendly and welcoming. She did her best to calm my nerves and show me a good time. I left thinking this could be fun and I need to try it again, found TER, started learning and been having fun ever since.

But I was as happy as a clam.  I went back the next week and got a BBBJTC from the same gal for $45, and never looked back.

if I perform to the best of my ability, perhaps she will see me again.

... Got a cbj from a street walker who approached me outside a porn theatre in NYC. Took all of 15 minutes. Her name was "Cream". It was totally spontaneous. I wasn't looking. After that I discovered the world of cat houses, an interesting topic all by itself. Anyway none of  that exists anymore - street walkers, porn theatres, cat houses - all gone. And so is the cbj. Only bbbj/cim for me now.  

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My first experience was a legendary whore house at the University Of GA called Effie's. It was mostly college girls paying their way through school. $20. I was so nervous I could barely get it up. There was a story about it in Playboy magazine many moons ago. Unfortunately it was shut down soon thereafter.

I had no idea that there were providers all over the country of the sort that I've seen on TER. So when I decided two years was too long without sex, I went to Nevada.

I paid $1000 an hour each for two girls. They were both really sweet and very attractive, but the Nevada laws take the excitement out of everything. I wanted a two-girl BJ. I didn't realize they'd have to change condoms each time one of them took a turn. It was a total drag.

For that price I could have had two young ladies closer to home who no doubt would have been better in nearly all respects.

It was still better than two years of nothing.

I emailed her....she emailed back....we talked and I went over.   She opened the door, tall, lean, long legs.....euro look.  She looked at me and said "Your cute".....took me to the her room and took off my clothes and got on her knees and took my cook in her mouth, slow, wet, sloppy, with eye contact.  She placed on the cover and we rode for 45 min.  Great time....we still chat.   That was about 4 years ago.  Crazy how time goes by.

My first time was almost a year ago in September of 2012.  Nervous as shit when I called and did the screening.  I booked a 1 hour appointment for later that afternoon from a girl I saw on eros.com.  

I then spent the next 3 hours scouring the internet looking for information on provider ettiquete.  Did not know about TER until a couple of months ago.    

I showed up and lightly knocked on the door with my heart racing with nervousness.  An attractive woman with peroxide blonde hair and a tight mini skirt and heels answered.  Once inside the room I was thinking  "Damn, Im actually doing this!"  We sat down on the bed and chatted for a few minutes doing the LE check (feeling my chest for a wire and sticking her hand down my pants squeezing my balls) while in my mind I was waiting for the cops to kick the door down any second.  

She then asked me if I ever did this before and I told her no that this was my first time with a provider.  I think she saw an opportunity and took advantage of me.  All I got was a HJ for $250.
I asked if we could fuck and she said she only fucked for $500.  Of the almost 20 providers I've seen I have never paid $500 for full service.  

My second experience was a month later with an upscale local provider in Birmingham who gave me the best GFE experience of my life for $300.

Glad to be in the hobby!