Many of you are on the many ladies' black lists/Do Not See lists from everything to leaving skidmarks on the sheets, to being cheap, to refusing to leave, to stinky ass, to having chancres, to haggling, to being aggressive.  NCNS guys are also prominent on black lists.   If you are on one you may get shut out from getting your favorite fuck.

experienced hobbyists know about DNS lists....

good hobbyists refrain from the conduct you listed

the hobbyists who do the things on your list *belong* on DNS lists....

and

sometimes a hobbyist winds up on a DNS list here or there for no good reason at all....

We have a review board, so ladies have a list they can refer to.  Now if a provider had a stinky ass you would mention it in your review?
If she upsells you would be pissed, that why I do not haggle.  Being too aggressive?  But don't worry, there are plenty women on CL that could be your favorite fuck.  I sure some do not read the black lists. You can probably say your name is John

Now, I am going back to sleep

you probably deserve it. Shit now you'll have to leave town and change your name. Should have cleaned your ass and checked your watch LOL

i can see why you would be shocked to find out that guys who are disrespectful pieces of sh*t, mean and aggressive, or smelly disgusting cesspools of flatulating bacteria would be shown  respect for their privacy by only having their information shared privately amongst the woman to help avoid any unnecessary trauma or infectious liasions but some of us try to maintain a certain standard of moral decency.

we just want to keep the f*cktards away from us, not hurt their feelings or publicly humiliate them or cause them even one iota of the discomfort they so nastily and eagerly inflicted upon us.

excuse the hell out of us

I vote Ana the voice of reason on the boards....
She puts things in perspective..And... without any BullSh@#.....
Blacklist exsist for those of us who need to know that man who is the  guy will try to rape YOU ONCE YOU AREW IN HIS HOUSE.
Yes boys you have some of those amongst yourselfs!!!
Dirty asses...Well I raised two sons...
I know how to hose a dirty boy down before it is time to play...
But just like the reviews. I can see what is said and I can  WEIGH THE CONSICQUENCES.
Ana you the bomb ass chick in my book...too fricking bad We are so far apart

Get out a bag of popcorn they are fun to read. Most are for NCNS (no all no show). Others are from guys to try to pull off the rubber during the heat of the moment.

I just don't understand how this could have happened

I know were put on a pedestal and expected to be Brad Pit or some shit head like him. Whaz up with that? LOL

I was told I was a NCNS = Nice Cock & Nut Sack.
Now seriously, and don't flame me because I already know I'm an idiot, is there a way for a guy to find out if he's on the list? And if so, can he ever get out of it or maybe explain something like a 'no show'?  I got stood up once by a prominent provider and when she finally found an open time slot it was I the one who had to call it off due to travel distance, weather and traffic. I left her a message while in the middle of downtown traffic gridlock and never heard from her again. So I've been wondering if my name ever got put on a list because of that because I assumed she was probably mad at me for cancelling with short notice. Anyone?

No need to worry. Some providers will put guys on DNS for the wrong reasons. There are good DNS managers out there that will remove the BS DNS, sometimes this happens without you even noticing.

Some providers are nice enough to let you know if you have been unfairly put on a DNS.

There have been instances where a lady will DNS a guy after he breaks up with her (and get this he never paid the lady it was a dating relationship).

... how guys react when they see their name in a black list site but yet guys can write a bad review and not think how it would hurt our business.

I had few of not so nice reviews and it bugged the sh*t out of me but I finally got over it.

I don't normally put the guy in black list unless he took off without paying (I had few of those), shortened me (one guy only paid me $50), no call no shows and abusive.  

So if you got ripped off by a provider and you believe that you need to warn other hobbyist, we also have the rights to warn providers about a bad client.

To bad NCNS isn't something more drastic and proactive, like FHACTDOGP = Find Him And Castrate The Drag On Gene Pool !!!

Omfg???  are you serious !!!

Forget making it on to a DNS list ...
He wouldn't even make it to the door !



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what did you expect? Its all about being safe and secure and not putting yourself in a situation where you could be hurt and so on. Anyway, if you are clean, sane, a Gentleman and on time well you have nothing to worry about.

Women talk... while men brag, women "compare notes" - even in the escort biz.

while men are willing to "move on" from a bad experience, women are much more willing to be proactive in "protecting a fellow lady"

In short, women will talk, they will tell others about bad experiences (but we men do too!).  

You seem to want to make humans behave in a manner that is not in their nature.  So what?  if you are clean, provide the requested donation, are not agreesive and in general are pleasant and presentable (sorry, that means NOT looking like you just were the last jury member selected on Survivor after 33 days in a jungle) then you should have few if any problems.

come on, gimme a break, most of the ladies I know, do not black list a guy for some of this behavior, they prefer to reserve the black list for the true psychos out there who would do serious harm to a lady.

He didn't need to pay to get sex (still he did pay me! LOL)
Then he turned to me and said: "Don't you think I am too hot for you!!"

LOL

to treat people the way you want to be treated.
Show up fresh (as my atf calls it, meaning showered, brush teeth etc) be polite, and respectful, and you shouldn't be on a black list.

and let me know if they run across my info on a DNS site, as I have been listed a couple of times.

once because a lady NCNSd me and I outed her (revenge I guess...)

and once by a lady I had never seen nor heard of. Perhaps she did not like one of my board posts lol

In any case both references were removed.

And frankly I'm not sure I really care anyway. I am rarely turned down for a date....

Cheers

GTM

to start my morning...Thank you. It's a little hard to tell, with the alias and all, whether you are a disgruntled provider, or a pissed off hobbyist. It would seem that you recently either put someone on a DNS list, or had someone put you on a DNS list. Which is it?

Just curious.

Please, Please, Please put him on the DNS list. This more common than you realize it puts the whole hobby community in jeopardy.

Everything you mentioned...and a few things you didn't, are all good reasons to wind up on a gal's DNS list...