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RBigFish 1521 reads
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A post on the Atlanta board got me to thinking about this (because it's a struggle for me sometimes)...what percentage of your clients have difficulty getting it up ? Would you say 10%, 50% or what ?
I've seen the TV shows and movies where the girl says it happens to everyone and don't feel about it....LOL, not sure I buy it, though.
Just really frustrating, to fork out that kind of money and not be able to perform. Don't know if it's performance anxiety (sometimes I do feel intimidated by a young great looking provider) or what.

JustAGal321 reads

On occasion medical issues stop someone from 2nd orgasm, but i am yet to see someone who would not rise to the occasion in my presence :)

Lina

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mistressjessica319 reads

Guys get so hung up on getting it up and the "big performance" when if they would just relax and do it what feels good it will all fall into place... You can have sex and an orgasm without a hard on.. and Yes, I can still enjoy it..

There is a 20 to 30 percentage I guess of my clients that struggle, some more then others. But to me it is no big deal..

It is my job to make you happy and relaxed.. When you overthink it, It makes it hard for either of us to enjoy our time together.

Juest breathe and relax......

Posted By: RBigFish
A post on the Atlanta board got me to thinking about this (because it's a struggle for me sometimes)...what percentage of your clients have difficulty getting it up ? Would you say 10%, 50% or what ?
I've seen the TV shows and movies where the girl says it happens to everyone and don't feel about it....LOL, not sure I buy it, though.
Just really frustrating, to fork out that kind of money and not be able to perform. Don't know if it's performance anxiety (sometimes I do feel intimidated by a young great looking provider) or what.

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macdaddy1944155 reads

would you sit down for a great meal with a full stomach> would you stop for gas with a full tank? would you book a session thinking you couldnt gat a hard on? i suppose it does happen..if it ever happened to me i would think twice about doing what am i doing..when the thrill is gone..its usually gone for good..

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sexystephie178 reads

I wrote  a blog ( limpy stiffies) on my site that gives you my take on this kinda thing.

Related Link: http://www.sexystephie.org

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macdaddy194489 reads

excellent blog..it really says it all..this will help all the doubters and worry warts..you can never turn back the hands of time..we all sometimes need a little help just to keep the clock running..thanks steph..

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mistressjessica148 reads

I hope for your sake that does not happen to you.

I do have an awful lot of gentlemen who still get the thrill..........

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Duplicitouslust63 reads

Dear Mistress Jessica:
I was just wondering what would be the average age of the hobbiest that you would encounter? Once you answer that question, then how many would you believe to be deficient in testosterone? A good question that you might want to ask is when your customers received an endocrinological workup. The would be extremely indicative of what harmones they would be lacking and more than likely you would be able to make a nexus with respect to there challenges with respect to blood flow not going in generous amounts to the corpus cavernosa.

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angelexotic145 reads

you could go see a fbsm, girl get the fbsm then if you ready bybend which you maybe, after the relaxing and gentle caresses oin all the sensitive areas............................then. you can decide if you wanta full service ending instead...............................I only offered fbsm for a while and it was cool some the ones I liked i did full serv with after we d figure out sumthin that made me happy n decide on it, then if i just wasnt into it or in mood I d continue withthe usual routine...................
maybe you could try seein fbsm providers and get that for starters. I d say maybe two that i can think off.....................its probly your blood pressure,. drinking water lowers it, maybe you need to do massage in beginning, to chillax properly......go see a provider that specializes in massage and reklaxatiin tachniques and fbsm. maybe you do get too excited, i have heard guys say that can happen,

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SHE-1101 reads

when i first started, i would take it personally when a gentleman could not finish.  i felt as if there was something i was/wasnt doing for them.  over time, i found that it happens to some men.  i do not feel the same way any longer.  i understand that it happens and i do not take it personally.  generally, if i find it is upsetting the gentleman, i will let him know that it isnt something that i expect or will be disappointed if it doesnt happen.  i ask if there is anything i can do for him and so long as he isnt tripping, then neither am i.  the finish isnt the do all, end all, with me, but more that i know he has enjoyed himself the rest of the time.

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