It's always fun to do research on certain bucket list favorites.  Similar to the last post on providers upgrading there services later on in the profession, but something just as intriguing is a provider who only months after entering the hobby, upgrading their service/menu.  For example, provider X first review says she offers CBJ, LFK and so on.  Then within 9 or 10 reviews it says she has upgraded her menu to include BBBJ, DFK, CIM etc.  Prices have remained the same, just an upgrade in the menu.  Beside the obvious answer of a donation increase, and more clients wanting to see her.  What causes this?  Just curious.

She will have 0-2 appointments per week with her current skill set. 5-~ with her upgraded skill set.  

7-7's and even 9-7's don't sell, unless donation is commensurate.

She has probably had a string of clients, both well-meaning and not, telling her that she needs to add XXX, XXX, and even XXX service in order to make any money.

Also, for some girls...if one client convinces her to do XXX, and she does not die... her defenses will go down, and she is more likely to do it with others.

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Those "menus" are only as good as the first reviewer and they are wrong many times. How many pissed off providers have you met because some fool selected "don't know" for almost everything, but entered "yes, gives" for rimming? Real funny unless you're THAT provider  who has to tell every FUNK-ASS client that you don't rim even if he knew how to wipe and wash his ass correctly. Jesus!

Many of my sex working friends started of doing FBST, then moved into escorting. For them, it's a good way to get their feet wet in a more controlled environment, so they can see what it's all about. Same thing with "menu" upgrades (though I dislike the concept of menus, and don't have one myself): certain activities may seem to be too intimate to perform with strangers, at first, but once they get right down to it, they realize it's actually not a big deal to them, and it is something they're comfortable providing.

I actually like the "no menu" concept as I think everything in P4P is YMMV anyway. I dislike providers who have a menu based on what you pay. "Pay more/get more" just destroys the session for me. I guess I don't like the constant reminders/demands for $. I'm sure I'd quit P4P if providers started handing out menus (laminated, of course) ... I'm sure someone is feeding her "idea" into a shredder right now. LOL

OK a joke, and I know they don't go here, but fuck it.

A Scottish man, an Englishman and an Irishman were sitting in a pub discussing the best pubs around. The Englishman says, ''There's a pub in the West Midlands where the landlord (bartender) buys you a drink for every drink that you buy.'' The Scot is not impressed and says, ''That's nothing! In the Highlands every time you buy a drink the landlord buys you five.'' At this point the Englishman is fairly impressed. The Irishman, totally unimpressed, says ''That's nothing. In Dublin there's this pub where the landlord buys your drinks all night, and then when the bar shuts he, or she, takes you into a room and you get to have sex with several of the best-looking patrons from the bar.'' The Scot and Englishman are well impressed and ask if the Irishman goes there a lot. He replies ''No, but my sister told me about it, and she does.'' -- Modified on 10/25/2015 7:30:55 PM

I am not paying a provider for a CBJ or LFK no matter who she is. For the $300-500 an hour,  there  are hundreds of gorgeous providers who will do BBBJCIM and DFK and even anal. It is definitely market forces.

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While I don't like to think of what I offer as a menu of services, what I do with any individual gentleman depends on how comfortable I am with him in particular. For example, I am more open to experimenting with gentlemen I have seen more than once, simply because I am more comfortable with them. It seems rather vanilla, but it's just my preference.

i call it "golden pussy syndrome".  lol  when a provider is new (more often young too), she will get the most requests to meet.  then after a few months and she is established, that will taper off.  she will often change her rates/menu in order to try and keep the same level of demand.  she doesnt realize that her current level of clientele, will most likely be her average throughout her career.

I expanded my menu because I grew as a provider. I have not changed my donation and have no plans on it any time soon. It just means more fun for us all!