Soooooo... I'm noticing men using the term bbw not knowing the actual term. Bbw is a BIG b beautiful woman, a plus sized female. If you aren't sure what plus sized is... Let me shed some light. Simply put it's a size 14 and up. Sometimes even a 12. But never below that. A big butt in a size 8 is not plus sized. Also, all bbw's don't have flat stomachs, smooth skin, and perfect breast. If you think this, you have looked at tooo many photoshopped pics of big women and are in denial. I've been plus sized since I was 12 years old so I'm telling you from a woman who had shopped as a larger, but thick lol, woman. Please know what bbw means before requesting it. Peace.

Of explaining bbw, with the flat stomach, smooth skin, perfect breasts, and then you put up a drawing that seems to be the antithesis of your description.  Make up your mind. Is it the thick but attractive woman you describe, or the droopy fat girl in the picture?  I'm more confused after your post.

"big" does NOT equate with "beautiful"  

I think you misread it.  She said bbw don't have flat stomachs, smooth skin, or perfect breasts ... only photoshopped version do.

but a small waist? I think of Nicki Minaj Iggy Azalea, and Kim K when I hear the word "thick".  If she is marketing herself as thick like her handle, "The_thickness" is confusing to her clients and causing that angry face if she is in fact a BBW?

I thought it was funny when talking to an Uber driver, who was black, about why black guys like fat asses. During the discussion, he talked about preferring to date white women, so I said you're looking for a PAWG.   Thought it amusing he didn't know what the term meant, and in my head thinking are you sure you like fat asses and white girls without knowing what they are called.

She said "Also, all bbw's don't have flat stomachs, smooth skin, and perfect breast..."

but at least it's more honest than "curvy." To be honest, I see either of these in an ad title and I move on, so I do appreciate curvy or BBW being up front.

I see there is a lot of ppl who read what they want and ignore the point. The point is, know the difference between curvey and bbw.  And bbw DOES IN FACT ENTAIL A PLUS SIZED WOMAN. Otherwise why would the term exist. And plus sized is defined by a certain clothing size, otherwise the plus clothing section wouldn't exist. And here's the kicker... Plus sized is size 12 and ABOVE. I NEVER SAID PLUS SIZED COULDN'T HAVE A FLAT STOMACH... SHEESEH READ SOMETIMES.  I said in REALITY most plus sized women aren't looking like the photo shopped models you see in plus magazines and such. I mean if you're going to reply at least give yourself the benefit of reading the ENTIRE post before responding. I also NEVER SAID THAT BEING BIG MEAN BEING BEAUITFUL.  I see many missed the point in their effort,to tear my post apart. Your bad. Thank you to those who ACTUALLY READ IT and responded.

I refer to myself as such because ALL my clients tell me I'm a THICK BBW (although I'm a plus size I've had the plump behind, many women buy, all my life plus i still have defined curves). Excuse you. And news flash BBW MEANS BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN... WHICH INCLUDES FAT WOMEN (seeing that its a term SPECIFICALLY COINED FOR FAT WOMEN). DUH. If you don't know what a thick bbw is... Sounds like you need to do some research.

The first time I read it, I thought she was saying many bbw's HAD those attributes, so now the picture makes more sense and I will not have any more illusions. Lol

I just see Big (b) Unhealthy (u) Woman (w). LOL. Anyone without a serious medical condition, or who doesn’t have an endomorph body type (genetically stocky) that is excessively large for their skeletal frame is unhealthy. People who eat balanced portions of Whole Foods and are active throughout the week have bodies that reflect their decisions and lifestyle choices.  

You talked about PAWG like it is something taught in school and the Black guy was supposed to have learnt it otherwise he must be stupid.

Fat shaming has been directly linked to bulimia and anorexia. If you want to shame someone, shame the corporations that sell nuggets 10 for a dollar and a salad for 5, or maybe for the fact that there are more fast food restaurants than walgreens lol. Stop making ppl feel ashamed about their bodies. This is why fake tits, asses, lips, women removing ribs and shit are on the rise. Skinny to obese, we are all beautiful. Your opinion of beauty is crossing with you facta regarding health. Via research i found the bigger you bottom, the less likely it is that you even see most diseases associated with obesity. Maybe try some non cliche research.

Wow, angry black man in 'da house.  

I like Devin's post, read it.

If they want to but you can't change ugly. Sounds like the tools on this thread need a make over of the soul. Wow..fat shaming and body shaming any person is asinine even more so on a fucking sex website. I mean realllllly??? What is the point to be so nasty and bring someone down...bc of something like you don't like their physical stature?  

Some people are just not equipped to handle that ass ,especially when you throw it back. Am a ass man as well as as a breast man. A  Perfect BBW in my opinion is about 5'2" and up and between 180-220 .Some days that's what am in the mood for, so issue,.

I don't sound like the bigot you are, so you  think you can make assumption on  my identity.You are dumber than I thought. I see women only, and have no interest in  arguing  with you about dicks.Not into men ,not my thing.

No issue.

I'm petite myself (a spinner even according to some- another overused term that can be argued over just as much as BBW or "thick" or "curvy") but I have many provider-friends who are BBWs and I can promise you, there is PLENTY of demand out there for ladies of size.

Your reading comprehension is less than 5%. Probably why you harbor so much anger. I find it ironic that you throw out assumptions about a person. Throwing rocks in glass houses and all that.

Certainly made my DNS list a bit longer.

Thank you for the opportunity to repeat my suggestions to include silhouettes in the review form.  A PICTURE (honestly selected) is a more accurate description than ambiguous or ill defined adjectives. Thin, skinny, BBW, "could lose a few pounds"????, ... nonsense.
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Likewise, for replacing ETHNICITY (with a mish mash of confusing interpretations) with two new fields:  
COMPLEXION (for color) and CULTURAL IDENTITY (or country of origin or similar).
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Here is one example of a silhouette chart. There are better ones out there:

Thank you 😊😊😊👌👍

...in p4p, regardless of size, shape, color, etc.

.. the afro was among the ugliest hair styles ever invented.

The mohawk and the half mohawk also rank up there as the ugliest hair styles.

She's cute.  The hair-do is hideous.

the discussions surrounding weight are based solely on vanity and feelings? It couldn't possibly be that by pointing out the dangers of carrying excessive weight, and encouraging people to eat healthy and exercise regularly is to promote weight loss and experience better overall health? It's an attack? Its insensitive? It's bullying? It amazes me when it comes to this issue, how many people purposely keep their heads in the sand. Anybody's doctors will say being excessively overweight and a lack of exercise is unhealthy, especially as we age. Take responsibility for yourself and stop blaming society in general and $1.00 chicken nuggets for poor lifestyle choices people make as adults. Call me whatever names you like, but that isn't going to change the obvious. Vanity and good health are two different things.  

I met a gal from California who still sports one, and she offered to let me fuck it if I wanted.

I think you can discuss the risks of obesity without personalizing it.  Also if you look at a lot of kids these days, 7 - 10 years old that are porkers ... it's the parent's fault.  

and compassion is always a better motivator for weight loss than shame. always.

That said, after checking out the OP's pics, she is NOT at a healthy weight.  

I’ve been trying to figure this out for myself. I definitely am a curvy woman but I’m firm and fill out a size 10/12. I’m also tall gal. Can there be an Amazonian option? A reviewer once said that about me.

SNL's "The Widettes" helped to popularize the Steatopygian Look that some people are embracing today.  But instead of packing on a "fat suit", they're packing on the Quarter Pounders.
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That's "evolution" for you. Look at how over weight became obese became morbidly obese. Gotta love idiots who have control over terminology. BUT... this  2018 so id's what it is. That's like choosing continue use a rotary phone the age of cell phones. Ppl need to get with the times and respect what it is.  Know what you're looking for in 2018. Not 2008 or 1998.

i think op has a point. she was responding to the comment suggesting everyone should lead a life *just like Allsar's* in order to be "healthy". just to reiterate her point, many people don't have the means to support that kind of lifestyle due to life circumstances, whatever those circumstances may be.

business, not personal, so you have to do what you have to do to be competitive and conform to industry standards as far as being healthy, fit and attractive.  You wouldn't want to rent a car from a place that doesn't do the periodic maintenance and then have the engine die on you while you're driving on the interstate.  How she conducts her personal life is nobody else's concern, but when her physical condition is part of her business service, it matters to the customers.  If she can't support the lifestyle that she needs to be competitive (which I don't believe for a minute, because eating less actually saves money), then she should get into a business where she can afford the upkeep that is required by that industry.  I'm always amused by providers that go back and forth between treating what they do as personal versus business when its convenient to support an argument.  

that the word EAT is in the middle of that word.  Coincidence, or cause and effect?

she (like me) supplies a niche product for consumers, and more power to her for that! not every client is interested in seeing the "girl next door" and i'm sure y'all would get bored hella quick if every provider looked exactly the same.

Is similar to that of the tranny niche. It's a bucket list item for MANY guys to try, but a very small percentage become regular customers of a particular girl, IMO.

Just for the record, I do calisthenic, body weight exercises that include compound, full body strength training movements and cardio in my living room, in a circuit for 20-30 minutes. I don't have a gym membership. I can do those kinds of exercises anywhere, even a hotel room. I use a free, online calorie and macronutrient tracker called Sparkpeople. The website is full of information, nutritionists, and health coaches are available for as little as $5.00 a month, and there is a great support community of others trying to live healthier lives, sharing experiences and information in forums just like this one.

It's nothing wrong with a afro and they are not ugly!

She is a beauty and her afro is great!

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Interesting response and informative. Just do a search on Redtube or Pornhub on all the categories of porn. And, those are 'mainstream' sites, not including the more bizarre fetishes and practices.

trex44 you made a great point.
Also I have no problems, with bbw or curvy woman.

A problem for who? you? Why are y'all so quick to get off topic? The post was about defining what a BBW is, OP doesn't care about your feigned concerns for her health or if she has regulars. That wasn't why she posted. Btw, trans women don't like to be referred to as trannies. I guess you would know that if you fucked more than one, huh?

I remember having a long conversation with TS Sasha quite sometime back where I frankly told her that I had no intentions of becoming politically correct and that I fully intended on continuing to use the term tranny, to which she replied "we are fine as long as you don't call me a "lady boy"" and true to my word I have NEVER called her a "lady boy" lol

wow tldr. take any opportunity to talk about yourself, i guess?

thanks for the anecdotal evidence on what words trans people find derogatory. and don't be silly, she's not "demanding" that you use the "appropriate language", she is broadening the idea of what a BBW is to include women who are actually..... big. that way people aren't surprised when they are greeted by women like her. i'm glad you're saving her the trouble of trying to book you tho.

or ex junkies or ex "whatevers"  

lol talking to you is like talking to a wall. have a lovely day.

Well, just fyi. I have NEVER SMOKED A CIGARETTE IN MY LIFE, I enjoy the occasional 4/20 (didn't touch it til 25), i don't have high blood sugar, cholesterol, lipids, or blood sugar, my bone density is higher than most so I've ALWAYS been bigger than most women my age (155lbs at 16 yrs old with a flat stomach, b cup tits, and a huge butt and thighs). I drink only socially and I've had three children. My ONLY health issue is a more sedentary lifestyle than usual, an easy fix (that my trainer and I are currently working on) and hypothyroidism (passed down through generations of the women in on my mom's side). Contrary to popular belief on obesity, all fat doesn't stick due to the overeating of processed foods(which I'm not a fan of because I was taught to and love to cook). Some obesity can stem from stress, genetics, and gestation. Obesity is rampant throughout my family history unfortunately, and it doesn't help that I'm an endomorph  (hard to lose fat easy  gain muscle).I was ACTUALLY 316Lbs and now down to 275 just through eating habits alone. I drink green, oolong, earl grey, chamomile, muira puama, suma, blackseed, raspberry leaf, And other teas regularly that i have researched thoroughly. My supplements are all natural, my skin oils are  natural, my hair oils are all natural. I meditate and do yoga and im STILL VERY capable of a full 12 movement 10 round sun salutation routine backbends, and assisted headstand. Health in the yogi world: you are only as young/flexible as your spine. I came here with information. It may not have been to anyone's liking and thats fine. Like  stated everything isnt for everyone.  What right does that give you to judge that which you do not know.  Being a bbw doesnt n  are unhealthy and being n doesnt make you the picture of health. Even doctors will acknowledge that.   I dont see why ppl even have to bash to  make a point, ESPECIALLY seeing that we, as providers, accept and accommodate MANY body types, smells, etc.

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Thank you! You're dope.

First you go on and on about how happy you are to be just as big as you are and then in the very same breath you "brag" about having lost 41 pounds, if you were truly happy with your weight you would be lamenting the weight loss, not talking about how you lost weight by eating right.

First off... READ BEFORE YOU COMMENT OR ELSE YOU LOOK JUST AS STUPID AS YOU JUST DID.  I am a PROUD BBW WOMAN WHO IS ON THE PATH TO WEIGHTLOSS FOR A  HEALTHIER ME. Second that was far from bragging.  I said something about food because its a FACT; doesn't mean I eat it.  Of course you being so smart you know true health begins with your diet (not the fad bullshit). WHAT I STARTED was a thread purely about what a bbw is. It is you, and whatever other dickheads who did the same, who took my post and  made a pure mockery of it. Based on your post history being  dick seems to be your specialty. I hope you're as good at being  dick in bed as you are here. A person can be happy in anything but understand that there IS ALWAYS ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT. OR AM  NOT ALLOWED THAT EITHER? I see some ppl like to live in their own heads. I would too if it had that much empty space. LOLOL

Well except for your post about squirting, that was the first sign of intelligent life coming from you since you've been here, but then you follow it up with perhaps your dumbest post yet.

NOT ONCE DID I  BEING OVERWEIGHT HAD NO IMPACT ON HEALTH. AND JUST BECAUSE IM SURE I NEVER SAID IT... I CHALLENGE YOU TO PASTE AND COPY THOSE EXACT WORDS.  Actually if you take a bit of time to, as suggested before, read before you speak to me i said SPECIFICALLY "Being overweight doesnt mean you aren't healthy". Losing weight promotes BETTER HEALTH AND IS PREVENTIVE. But i guess thats not working out for your health right. To increase lung and organ function. Do you have the slightest idea what health is other than being overweight or are you wiki searching as you go? My post makes you look like what you are, a pompous ass with nothing better to do but to start shit via THE INTERNET behind a screen and username. Lol Ter bully. Are you proud. *slow hand clap*

THIS IS THE ORIGINAL POST. It was not bashing anyone. It didn't have shit to do with ANYTHING most of you are talking about. It's like gossip. Start on topic and end up with bullshit.  There is even am argument about racism going on. It is not me that made nothing out of something. I simply had  view and ppl lost their minds.

If yelling and screaming at your computer monitor qualifies as exercise, those pounds and inches are going to start melting off at a record pace. lmao

Why is everyone arguing about the Build-a-Bear Workshop?

There are a few regular posters here who get inexplicably emotional when confronted with the fact that "fat" women and/or "old" women can succeed in the sex industry.  Why they are so personally invested in our failure is a mystery that I have no desire to solve!  As far as I'm concerned, their opinion is none of my business, and I leave it at that.

Agreed.  This is the problem....every fat, disgusting, women out there with loose morals and no cash advertises using the second "B" for beautiful.  They are just "BWs" and not "BBWs."  I would prefer something more accurate like "OW".   I would only see one after I met her at a GT.  I don't even trust photos because over the years, these women tend to get a lot more "BBW"....I mean "BW."  Drop the second "B."  

Its a white guy, ironic. You also posted in the wrong timeline of the thread, you're such an idiot fanboy.

What horse, I see no horse.  Haha.

She said that all bbw DON'T have flat stomachs, perfect skin, etc

Never mind, I'm late to the party - lol