I have a few regular that I see. I have a regular rotation that I go through. Each has their own special skills. When I get an itch for certain skills, I have a regulars the rely on. The down side is that I don't get to write reviews. I venture out to try new ladies once every blue moon.
So for you guys out there, do you prefer having a select number or even a couple of providers or do you like going through various different girls, etc.
Potential Points for regular / just a few
1. Have a track record with them. Know each other better.
2. No worries about being disappointed (of course there are exceptions)
Potential Points against:
1. Becoming attached emotionally
2. Stagnation
What are your thoughts and opinions. Providers feel free to chime in as well.
I've gone back and forth on this issue: I was an "only see a couple of girls over and over" guy; then I went with the "variety is the spice of life" plan; now I'm back to seeing my ATF and just about nobody else.
I think your pluses and minuses are pretty accurate (although stagnation is never going to be a concern for me)
I have a few regular that I see. I have a regular rotation that I go through. Each has their own special skills. When I get an itch for certain skills, I have a regulars the rely on. The down side is that I don't get to write reviews. I venture out to try new ladies once every blue moon.
When I travel I try and found 2 lady's in each city. I get alot of my references from other hobbyists
The right answer her is whatever works for the individual. Sometimes it takes years to figure out which approach you like better. Sometimes you change your mind.
For many years I saw four or five girls a month and rarely saw the same one twice. Once I got used to the idea of paying for sex I also started to get more picky about what and who I liked. Eventually I met a fav or two that I wound up comparing all of my newer girls to. For the last three or four years I have had an ATF or two that I see regularly and I also see the occasional new lady when I am on the road for work.
Honestly I tend to experiment a lot less now because of the unwanted high profile that hobbying has thanks to the media jumping all over the Craig's List Killer and CL in general.
I like the fact that my ATF, my number two gal, and the agencies I deal with are all safe and low profile. I can't remember the last time I worried about LE and I like it that way...
so having regulars is kind of tough. There are several ladies that I would love to see again, and again. Some, I have been able to return, and some, I have not. For now, I'll be more than content to see a variety of ladies. Perhaps one day, that can change, when I live in a different area.
Prefer a select number. Both number ones apply more than the number twos. Probably will always see a new every now and then based on the potential point against.
Currently have 3 main regulars (one is new). One at what I call "level A" and two at "level B". There are some I also like to see again after a some months.
consistently the best, and with the least amount of driving and waiting, I stick to a my ATF and a couple of other favorites.
The nearest TER reviewed provider is over 200 miles away, so being a "regular" isn't an option.
There are a couple of ladies I try to see when I'm in Vegas, but that is usually just once a year, one in Kansas City that I would love to get back to but just can't seem to make it work. Aside from that I'm very opportunistic...
I like both. After all this is a hobby is it not?
I love all of my regular clients, and they obviously love me as well or they wouldn't keep coming back.
I think it's good to have an ATF provider. You know what kind of service you're getting, you know the provider, you can skip all of the small talk and get straight to the sex. Also- it's generally easier to make an appointment with her, even same days. I will ignore my emails for the day if a regular contacts me wanting an appointment. I try to keep them EXTRA happy because I can rely on them to be consistent with their meetings.
When I first started I saw only two providers several times a month of over a year. Then one retired and I branched out and started seeing several different girls a month. Now I enjoy the variety and do very few repeats. But there are always the special ones that I do see over and over again.
But whatever you do just enjoy yourself and always be careful.
Ive seen ladies on the first visit i got the VIP treatment but on the 3rd visit its not the same. I would love to have a regular but for now its different ladies each time.
And that is how regulars become irregulars.
The good ones put on their A game, first time, every time.
They are golden.
about 2/3 and 1/3 new ladies. My work schedule and time to play are my most limiting factors, besides not having unlimited funds.
I like having regular hobbyists...
I enjoy meeting new gentlemen as well, but there's something about those tried and true friends of mine...
We have a history, a chemistry, shared experiences, stories to reminisce...
Im a one and done guy, however, I do have an atf that I see regularly, but she's the only one. I like the build up to seeing someone new.
attachment I suffer is the damn WORK that has to be done to get there. I am so sick and fucking tired of doing all that homework only to have a couple of them bail for some reason or another. If I'm not mistaken,if the ladies make it dificult on repeaters,don't they geographically play themselves out?
I prefer having a few regulars, for the points you stated and because with more time "things" seem to get better and wetter.
by and large and preferably mature providers. I find that the better you know each other the more you can anticipate each other's pleasure zones.
I ussually see Fav ladies. Occasionally I see someone new, but with the thought that they might become a Fav.
TER rewards NEW reviews... the site may be bias that way but it's part of the system.
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